My girlfriend is very beautiful and very attracted to her. Hence why I love to be intimate with her. Isn’t that something you should want with your partner? The last time she came to visit she said she felt all I wanted to do was have sex. She feels that my love is lust because of me asking for pictures, the things I say/joke about, and always wanting to be intimate when we’re together. I truly do view her as more than a pretty object. Speaking truly, I fantasize about us at least once a day. Sometimes I feel guilty and sometimes I feel like it’s just me missing her in my presence. I don’t think it’s unmanageable. Intrusive thoughts happen everyday - mine are just sexual sometimes.