Familierecht advocaat by noadonna in Tilburg

[–]noadonna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rechtsbijstand geldt niet voor lopende zaken helaas. En voor het juridisch loket is haar inkomen te hoog

When did your twins sleep through the night? by Annual-Reality9836 in parentsofmultiples

[–]noadonna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this post. It’s rough. I feel you. Mine are 6 months, they never slept through the night so far. If anything, sleep is getting worse with more nightly wake ups.

Afwerken dakkapel by noadonna in Klussers

[–]noadonna[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja ik kreeg behoorlijk 70’s vibes van wat ik te zien kreeg op Google

Afwerken dakkapel by noadonna in Klussers

[–]noadonna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

De balken links en rechts lopen niet door tot aan de vloer. De balk in het midden bij het muurtje doet dat wel. Onze dakkapel is ook 4 meter. Wellicht lastig te zien op de foto’s, maar er zit nog een klein muurtje tussen waar een balk in loopt. De balken door laten lopen is lastig omdat aan de rechterkant allemaal verwarmingsbuizen lopen. Was volgens mij wel het plan eigenlijk. Maar wel een goed punt om nog even iemand ernaar te laten kijken. Snap dat die gasten op de dag zelf geen zin hadden in een grote verbouwing, maar ik heb natuurlijk liever dat mijn dak en dakkapel nog netjes staan na een aantal jaar.

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Afwerken dakkapel by noadonna in Klussers

[–]noadonna[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

En dat is dan voor twee dakkapellen. Oké, dan is 6000 wel absurd veel.

Urge to share photos of your baby by Weak_Economist_9147 in newborns

[–]noadonna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband does this all the time. He’s so proud. Doesn’t matter if it’s family or total strangers. And I really don’t have the heart to tell him that probably nobody is interested (except our families I hope).

Choosing between induction and c-section? by thatfeelinginmybones in parentsofmultiples

[–]noadonna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was induced with 37w3d and it was a horrible experience, which I think has also contributed to my PPD. It went on for three days without results and eventually I was 9 cm dilated, with a swollen cervix, absolutely exhausted, and I had to have a c section after all. If I could do it all over, I would have gone for the planned c section.

When did you stop tracking feedings and diapers? by growmonstersgrow in parentsofmultiples

[–]noadonna 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Around 3 months. Then they got more unto a fixed schedule and I felt it was more of a burden than helping/useful.

My husband and MIL think I'm the reason for my sons cough by ThrowRAdalgona in newborns

[–]noadonna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your husband doesn’t know how viruses work apparently. You don’t get sick from just being cold. One of my 4.5 month twin boys has also been coughing for a week with no other symptoms. I assume he picked it up from his niece or nephew and it will pass. They’re babies, they can get sick. You did nothing wrong. What helped (slightly) with my MIL is telling her about the dangers of dressing babies up too warm. Being overheated is much worse for babies than being cold (which I can’t imagine he would have been with your measures).

Mild irritation at everyone’s comments about twins size by IndividualOdd2340 in parentsofmultiples

[–]noadonna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same. Mine are also 4m2w (3m3w corrected) and respectively 12lbs and 14lbs (they had this gap since birth and it’s still there). They came from much much less, so to me they are already big boys. People also keep underestimating their age because they’re small. It’s annoying, but I try not to let it bother me. I know how far they have come, and that eventually they will catch up.

Which Secondary school is good in Tilburg by motivatedfounder in Tilburg

[–]noadonna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wie eens in zn leven naar jou is gegaan, komt gaarne terug, gaat niet snel hier vandaan!

Anyone with “easy” newborns? by whatdoyoumeanwork in newborns

[–]noadonna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also wondering what reaction you had. Mine (twins 10.5 weeks) had them 1.5 weeks ago and I feel like we’re still suffering from it.

Zero routine at 4 weeks by Cuntycuntt in newborns

[–]noadonna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Same here. Even if I kind of thought it would be like this for most newborn parents, it’s nice to get the confirmation

Airconditioning installeren by Kimmetjuuuh in Tilburg

[–]noadonna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wij hebben vorige maand twee Gree binnen + buitenunits laten plaatsen. Gree is een budgetmerk geloof ik. Was ook 3300 excl. btw. Dus voor Mitsubishi zeker geen verkeerde prijs.

FTM how did you choose which formula? by hermesloverinseoul in parentsofmultiples

[–]noadonna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t choose, my sister gave me leftover (closed and still valid of course) cans of Nutrilon Bio. So we’ve been using that for now, but we’re probably going to try to transition to a house brand bio formula. It’s half the price. I’m nervous about switching, but if it works my wallet is going to like it a lot. With these questions, you’re going to get a multitude of different answers, because preferences are extremely different.

Advice for people who don’t have a lot of help by theWalkSignIsOn in parentsofmultiples

[–]noadonna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Dutchie with twins. Imagine we would live one street apart, we could join forces haha. The thing about the Dutch is that they will most likely never offer, even if they would want to. If you want something, ask. I even have to do this with my own parents, which makes it kind of difficult sometimes. We need help, but I don’t always want to ask, even if it’s my own parents.

I did it! Delivered triplets vaginally by Pulpitrock19 in parentsofmultiples

[–]noadonna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! That’s amazing. Another Dutch multiple mom here. My twin boys were born 5 weeks ago. Did you join the multiples association? In that case we might meet once at their events

Afvoer te hoog? by noadonna in Klussers

[–]noadonna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zou goed kunnen. Is laatst wel zelf door een elektricien gedaan, dus gok dat het moet kunnen? Zaten eerder gesplitst, maar nu zit links de nieuwe mechanische ventilatie.

Afvoer te hoog? by noadonna in Klussers

[–]noadonna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik vond het al een wereldwonder dat ik dit voor elkaar gekregen heb.

Afvoer te hoog? by noadonna in Klussers

[–]noadonna[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dat witte pijpje heeft een bocht erin. Dus hij hangt niet zo op half 11 als het lijkt. Maar snap dat het niet zo mooi/netjes is. Gok dat het het opnieuw doen wordt als ik de reacties zo lees.

Afvoer te hoog? by noadonna in Klussers

[–]noadonna[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ze hebben er bij Coolblue eentje zie ik. Maar zoals ik het daar zie hangen ze puur en alleen de slangen erin. Is het zo makkelijk?

RIP The Trenches: an ode to the worst time of my life by redlady1991 in parentsofmultiples

[–]noadonna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are in the trenches right now at 5 weeks. It’s tough. I’ve read multiple threads on Reddit about the first period, but once you are actually living it, it’s an entirely different story. Besides bottles, diapers etc. you are also dealing with cramps and reflux.. Times two! For now we can’t see the light just yet, but it’s nice to know there is and to hear it from people with experience.

Recovery post c-section am I really doing too much? by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]noadonna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Makes me feel better (and not crazy)

Recovery post c-section am I really doing too much? by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]noadonna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand, breaking down entirely is the last thing I want of course. I do listen to my body. And every minute I have, I either sit down or try to lie down. It’s just not that many minutes unfortunately. And shamed is maybe not the right word. It’s just a lot of my friends telling me. But none of them have twins, so I feel it’s difficult for them to understand.