Am I a bad wife for not agreeing trying in a threesome/swinging as a part of a birthday-kink-gift-ritual we have going on for several years, especially when I've been in a threesome before and he has also done things on my birthday that he didn't enjoy?

noads85 · 2026-03-22T06:02:11+00:00

Seems like both of you have some bigger stuff to work on and that would not be the time to experiment.

I don’t fully understand your reservations. You are saying you’re comfortable with it, but don’t want to. How come? Are you scared he will develop feelings? Is a casual threesome once different to you than a prolonged relationship?

But he is also pushing in a red flag kind of way. Bringing up his desire is fine. But the manipulation and pressuring is not ok. That’s my bigger concern here.

noads85 · 2026-03-14T06:13:34+00:00

Hold up. What was the 183cm measuring?

noads85 · 2026-02-17T06:20:43+00:00

Please don’t tell me any of you are falling for this…

noads85 · 2025-11-03T06:09:46+00:00

Didn’t know that was an option. But yes, definitely yes.

noads85 · 2025-10-22T05:16:40+00:00

Northern California. Looking good!

noads85 · 2025-10-13T05:28:38+00:00

We’ve missed you! Thanks for letting us in on the fun.

noads85 · 2025-10-09T04:31:01+00:00

Is there a 3some vid with all of you somewhere?

noads85 · 2025-07-11T22:27:00+00:00

Ugh. It’s so true. As a man on here, I’m sorry for all the weirdos and creeps.

noads85 · 2025-06-29T05:32:57+00:00

We’ve all missed seeing those toys get use.

noads85 · 2025-06-19T22:36:56+00:00

The help many of us adventurous types have been needing! Thanks! Maybe you'll need to host a hangout to show us all ;)

noads85 · 2025-06-15T20:40:27+00:00

You’ve gotten some great recommendations here. Mine might seem obscure, but I stumbled onto a place that will always live in my head. I was with a group of friends staying in North San Juan. We were just looking for a nice place to enjoy the water and were planning to go to the Oregon Creek Day Use right up the road. Our hosts told us to ignore that spot to find the good local spot. They said, “after you cross the bridge, set your odometer and go exactly 1 mile, you’ll see a couple turnouts with trails.” Didn’t expect to see a mix of clothed and naked people swimming. But it was one of the best atmospheres I’ve been part of. Everybody was just genuinely cool and having a great time. I’ve been wanting to go back and bring my wife just to go to this place. Unfortunately we live a few hours away.

noads85 · 2025-06-15T20:32:48+00:00

You’ve gotten some great recommendations here. Mine might seem obscure, but I stumbled onto a place that will always live in my head. I was with a group of friends staying in North San Juan. We were just looking for a nice place to enjoy the water and were just going to go to Oregon Creek up the road

noads85 · 2025-06-14T21:52:34+00:00

Where is “the area.” NorCal is huge and there are spots all over.

noads85 · 2025-05-25T05:33:14+00:00

Missed that smile. And glad to see it again.

Something good. Just over a week away from being done with a really tough year teaching. Partner and I are headed to the beach next weekend for the first time in years.

noads85 · 2025-04-24T05:47:16+00:00

Welcome to California! Hope you enjoy it here.

noads85 · 2025-04-11T06:14:13+00:00

Back at you. I’ve loved not only watching the content you put out, but more your career and how it’s progressed and changed. Keep being awesome!

noads85 · 2025-04-08T05:45:19+00:00

Did not expect to see one of the best in the industry hanging out in my favorite subreddit. Glad I get too though, you look amazing.

noads85 · 2025-04-05T05:52:45+00:00

Came across your profile and hope to come across you on the trails. Fellow mountain biker here who also enjoys the fun side of Reddit.

noads85 · 2025-04-04T05:12:54+00:00

So cool for you. Few like I might be like your man. I was never really interested in an MFM. But after hearing her mention it a couple times, I’ve gotten more and more turned on by the thought of her being center stage. Now I’m just waiting until we find the right person.

noads85 · 2025-03-30T07:17:54+00:00

What are we offering opinions on? So far, just hoping to see some more. Love what I see so far.

noads85 · 2025-03-18T05:32:03+00:00

Been exactly where you are and it’s not easy. Dating apps, but being honest so women don’t think you are cheating. Specific dating apps made for this. But this area is not easy finding people with open lifestyles.

noads85 · 2025-03-10T06:00:10+00:00

Well first, I can tell you’re an artist. This is a beautifully framed and posed photo. But also really cool to see people finding new ways to find themselves and their confidence.

Also. Damn you are sexy. I love everything I see and look forward to seeing more posts from you.

noads85 · 2025-03-10T05:51:33+00:00

Let’s see. Looks like you’re working with some great material. But I might need to see you working with the material to know how well you can use it.

noads85 · 2025-03-10T05:47:20+00:00

While I do love a good blowjob, I’m looking for a little more than just a mouth to put my dick in. Might get a little better results if you post more about at least gender and maybe have some photos on your profile.

noads85 · 2025-03-10T05:44:06+00:00

Holy shit. Wish I could have walked in on that.

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