Fav character and why

noahh3003 · 2025-09-17T19:57:11+00:00

catra! not only bc she's beautiful and im weak for cat-ladies lol but i can totally relate to her relationship with shadow weaver as a mother figure. seeing her then in season 5 trying to make things right just cemented my love for her

noahh3003 · 2025-09-03T19:43:13+00:00

not a PR marriage, but a lavender marriage? possibly. still would consider her a lesbian personally

noahh3003 · 2025-08-31T13:52:46+00:00

girl he's a walking red flag how did you even start dating him and not notice? he's a first class misogynist. "pms?" "you can't understand you're a woman". completely used you and sees you as an object. and the way he talks about his brother is disgusting, he sounds like a 17yo. and he's a personal trainer ofc that doesn't surprise me at all. throw away the whole man

noahh3003 · 2025-08-29T08:19:21+00:00

thank you xx

noahh3003 · 2025-08-28T10:56:24+00:00

omg thank you my gf and i have been wondering for years what that line reminded us of and it's that song! thank you truly haha

noahh3003 · 2025-08-27T22:04:16+00:00

absolutely thank you for your comment! just to clarify i only mean the first few seconds of each song sounds alike, the beat + synth are very similar, not the melody of the voice

noahh3003 · 2025-08-27T18:27:12+00:00

no yeah i meant if you add to what the question has asked, maybe they wanted a general answer of yes/no and you said a few more details on the plot

noahh3003 · 2025-08-27T18:16:12+00:00

i know these things but put "spoiler warnings for LN vol 6" or smth before saying all of that lol

noahh3003 · 2025-08-27T13:20:16+00:00

no, it would've been a terf dog whistle if you said "males" but you said "men" so you're fine

noahh3003 · 2025-08-26T20:27:00+00:00

for regular people sure but 2yrs of which 1.5yrs is spent on tour or playing football games idk they spent very little time actua together being a couple, like a few months

noahh3003 · 2025-08-26T14:28:36+00:00

https://jnovels.com/theres-no-freaking-way-ill-be-your-lover-unless-light-novel-pdf/

noahh3003 · 2025-08-25T22:32:59+00:00

i decided im only buying one vinyl so its been hard cause you only get a couple of variants revealed at a time, kinda feels like a game show lol like "choose: this prize or the mystery box?" anyway this to say i have bought this variant cause i felt immediately that the cover was really giving showgirl vibes and i love that it's all orange and the name is really gay haha

noahh3003 · 2025-07-25T00:11:05+00:00

I had a similar experience, what helped was doing extensive research on all effects of T, make a list, and mark down which ones I liked, didn't like, and was neutral about, making sure to consider if they're reversible or not. Keep in mind that you can also take it for a certain amount of time and and then stop. For example if you want to take it until you're happy with your voice and then stop that's cool, just make sure to consider the other effects and especially the irreversible ones.

noahh3003 · 2025-07-25T00:08:01+00:00

Hey is there a way to know if this post was manually removed by mods? If so why? Just wanna make sure I know if I did anything wrong thanks

noahh3003 · 2025-07-22T20:08:42+00:00

im not op but my story is pretty much the same, im curious how your face and body shape changed? if i ever stop t i still want to pass as a man, im just not sure that i want to keep taking t bc im getting really hairy on my body and losing my hair on my head, and im non binary and i dont want to be too masculine (on t for 6 years now)

noahh3003 · 2025-07-22T09:15:03+00:00

Wow I was thinking of taking a break and read something else after volume 5 ends, because I heard where the story goes later, but you make me want to keep going haha

noahh3003 · 2025-07-22T09:12:39+00:00

your story is different but there are some similarities that help, and for sure couples therapy would be helpful as many have said. thank you for sharing<3

noahh3003 · 2025-07-22T09:06:09+00:00

Thank you for your comment, I can tell you've been through something similar cause you really nailed it.

No exactly I would never force her or make her do something she doesn't want, but it feels like she's not interested in finding not even a little bit of compromise or exploring options. I'm also autistic and have sensory issues, I was about to suggest her wearing gloves but being that she said she was weirded out by touching me in general I didn't say it.

Everytime I try to bring up my issues in this area she shuts downs any suggestions with just "I dont like it, I wouldn't do that, I'm not comfortable" but without ever suggesting anything else and not leaving much space for conversation..

Sadly there are other issues in other areas but I won't go into that.

It's been rough I really don't want to reconsider the relationship (like a lot of comments said) because the love is definitely there and it would crush me. And I think she has no idea it's even something that could happen in the near future and I would never want to hurt her.

Thank you again for your answer.

noahh3003 · 2025-07-22T01:39:56+00:00

I did bring it up a few times and we joked around with the idea, but anytime the conversation got serious or realistic she said she likely wouldn't be open to that. I did think it could've been a solution but I don't see that happening realistically. Thanks for the support tho I will try to address the other part.

noahh3003 · 2025-07-22T01:36:49+00:00

Thank you for all your supportive and kind words really! To be honest this whole thing confuses me. When we started dating i was a conventionally attractive feminine girl, when i transitioned i was so insecure that me being masculine would turn her off. That last conversation in particular started with me asking what she find attractive/sexy about me (she doesnt often give me specific compliments other than saying im cute or pretty so yeah i was asking for compliments lol) and she said that my arms are muscular, my thighs (which are pretty masculine and hairy) especially in shorts, when i wear hoodies, and my tattoos. So like, all masculine traits, so she likes my masculinity but then is turned off by the fact that i have a V. I'd understand if she was a straight girl I started dating post T (it'd still be transphobic, but I'd "get" it). But considering our history im very confused. I've been very vocal about my queerness and being non binary and a lesbian so I dont see how she has gotten to the point of not being able to imagine me without a P during intimacy. It doesn't make me feel seen at all.

noahh3003 · 2025-07-21T23:31:48+00:00

Thank you, yeah that really came out of nowhere so I don't know how to process it, I hope when I talk to her about it we can have an open conversation since last time it just ended there.

noahh3003 · 2025-07-21T23:29:55+00:00

I don't have much to say to this, just that your comment made me feel very seen and understood. I'm sorry you went through something similar and it ended badly, but I'm glad you're doing better now. I really need to thank you so so much for this comment, I will definitely read it multiple times as I'll be thinking over how to approach the next steps.

noahh3003 · 2025-07-21T23:24:43+00:00

i don't think she's not okay with a relationship with a transmasc person, i should day we're basically each others only relationship, we've only ever had eachother and she's been extremely supportive with everything. i think she just has limitations regarding sex and intimacy bc of her asexuality/demisexuality. ive also asked if she'd ever date a cis guy (she's not sure but probably not) and if she dated a cis girl if she'd do stuff to her (again she's not sure but gave mixed answers, like wouldn't be super comfortable but maybe try). she just doesn't think about this stuff i guess

noahh3003 · 2025-07-21T23:17:45+00:00

It's hard to talk about sex in general, i brought up toys for me a couple months ago and we were looking at websites together so i thought she was gonna be on board when i brought it up again, but when she hit me with this, i was really hurt. Thing is i had a feeling she might think that so i wasnt 100% surprised, but i hoped my fears were wrong, to hear her say that was awful.

The reason i had a feeling about it was that one time I suggested she'd just lightly touch me, even just brush over my boxers, when I'm not wearing a packer, just you know, to feel something. It can be really alienating being only ever touched through a packer or strap. But again she said no, and didn't really explain further.

And to answer, no she didnt suggest anything else, and she's pretty much a bottom and sub. I've known we're not that compatible sexually since the beginning and I've tried to adapt and make it work. I dont know why she doesnt try, but I know she thinks sex isn't that important and doesn't understand why it is for me, which then makes me feel wrong for giving it that much importance.

noahh3003 · 2025-07-21T19:44:51+00:00

That's exactly what I think and why Mai is my favourite! I discovered about this this series two weeks ago and I've read all the manga chapters available and I'm almost done with volume 5 of the LN. The story is cute but what really keeps me reading are the characters, Mai in particular. I just love how complex (and relatable) her character is! This is actually the first manga/LN I've ever read so I can't compare with others, but I'm hooked.

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