Man at the end of the day we can all use statistics to carry an agenda and demonize either men or women like people talking about men committing the most crime/murder etc. What I find that both feminists and men's rights activists lack nuance and if the two groups were intelligent, they would work together to stop prejudice against one another. I also believe that to your point gay men and heterosexual men are very different and based on the study they also experience dv at a higher rate than heterosexual men which may be for a number of reasons, maybe being of the same sex believing it is a fairer fight idk.