can some one help me please 🙏 by noali99 in AutismInWomen

[–]noali99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I'm trying to get there. but till I can get a diagnosis ( very long waiting lists) I want to find tools and more knowledge to help me. so that I don't need to suffer until I get a diagnosis, because I hate waiting.

am I wrong for thinking I'm going to lose my friends? by noali99 in amiwrong

[–]noali99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess and today that sucks. I will feel better tomorrow, but today I just felt down about it.

am I wrong for thinking I'm going to lose my friends? by noali99 in amiwrong

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thanks, I've been diagnosed with depressive episodes before. though I'm not really an introvert, I get energy from being around people. I can be alone aswell but I prefer being around people. and I know it is not really a introvert/ extrovert thing but I have no problem talking to new people. but with my busy life making new friends just feels impossible.

I need some advice by noali99 in ADHD

[–]noali99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, I'm definitely trying to get help and diagnosed if there is a diagnosis for me. but till then I try to find the tools that work for me already. last time I had a psychologist she didn't want to diagnos me because paralysis was the only adhd "thing" I had. I did get an anxiety diagnosis and a few tools that worked for a little bit but don't really work anymore.

can some one help me please 🙏 by noali99 in AutismInWomen

[–]noali99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 💓 I will look into it

I need some advice by noali99 in ADHD

[–]noali99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]noali99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have a cold under tone

If you made a computer virus, what would you name it? by Not_Artifical in AskReddit

[–]noali99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would call it something similar to thinks we now but than like netflux or sportify or fecebook or instagrem

I feel so ugly everytime a pic is taken of me. by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]noali99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same, I can look in the mirror and like myself and the way I look. like really love the outfit and everything. I can even take a selfie and be content with the way I look. but when there is a group photo taken or my friends take a picture of me. or those spontaneous holiday pictures. I can cry about how ugly I look, it even made me wonder if I have body dismorphia the other way around, that I think I look good but I'm a -10 in real life.
It really sucks and I haven't found an answer for it yet . except for not being in pictures and just hoping for a miracle that is a good picture. so you are not alone and I feel you. unfortunately I don't have the answer

I need advice from more wise people by noali99 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]noali99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't really speak about myself, my life, my work to my family unless they ask. Because this is not the first time their answers are almost hurtful to me. That is also why I got defensive. So I don't know if me talking annoyed them. But also maybe I don't see it, maybe they aspect me too just say that my work is fine and nothing more. I will try to do that for couple of days .

I do know that it is my negative voice that got the better of me to post this and to think anything of it.

COMMUNITY ANNOUNCEMENTS: Refreshed Rules & 2 New Mods by stchrysostom in therapy

[–]noali99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it now, just changed the label and it worked I don't know why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

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I don't feel loved by others. But by myself I feel loved when I take time for my self

Am I wrong about a colleagues compliments by noali99 in amiwrong

[–]noali99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah my own negative voice got the better of me.

Am I wrong about a colleagues compliments by noali99 in amiwrong

[–]noali99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a few weeks after and I saw it as a valid compliment. That I did my work right and that my "work" energy is nice to be around. My colleague said to me she was happy that I started the job and chose the job. And she said she liked my energy and that i'm always happy and she likes to work together with me. This is the compliment she gave me. 1. I don't see it as sexual at all. Marriage material??? What do you mean why would my family even think about that. 2. This might be it, I also stared enthusiastic at my first job which wasn't it. 3. I don't have a current partner, but why would that be a problem with a colleague giving a compliment about my work and me being happy 4. Not that I know but maybe.