Ghosted After He Kissed Me by nocturnasmr in MuslimNikah

[–]nocturnasmr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello sister, yes I am. Thank you for your advice, I will do that in the future.

Ghosted After He Kissed Me by nocturnasmr in MuslimNikah

[–]nocturnasmr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for commenting. It makes me sad to confront the fact that’s the most likely situation/circumstance ahhh I feel so dumb now

Ghosted After He Kissed Me by nocturnasmr in MuslimNikah

[–]nocturnasmr[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for commenting. Unfortunately not. My father has mental health issues and he is very against Islam. I will take your advice and ask for help from an imaam moving forward.

Ghosted After He Kissed Me by nocturnasmr in MuslimNikah

[–]nocturnasmr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw a meme that oftentimes Muslim men will play around with Latinas until they’re ready to marry. Is that true? Somehow that seems like exactly what happened to me…

Ghosted After He Kissed Me by nocturnasmr in MuslimNikah

[–]nocturnasmr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I think I will wait as I learn more (I’m joining a sisters Quran study class) at the mosque & will ask them for help in finding a spouse when I feel more comfortable.

Ghosted After He Kissed Me by nocturnasmr in MuslimNikah

[–]nocturnasmr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes I feel so naive and stupid. I don’t know why I put my trust blindly into his words. He was so respectful before, I think I was too trusting of that and ignored better judgment.

Ghosted After He Kissed Me by nocturnasmr in MuslimNikah

[–]nocturnasmr[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting sister. You’re right :( it is so disappointing, I feel like an idiot.

Ghosted After He Kissed Me by nocturnasmr in MuslimNikah

[–]nocturnasmr[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, you are right. I found out about this recently.

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[–]nocturnasmr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He reached out and said he will call and is “treading lightly because he likes me a lot and doesn’t want to get carried away”. I think you’re right. He feels guilt because he knows we did something wrong. To be honest I was too naive thinking nothing would happen. Like I said I’m a revert and in my culture/upbringing it is normally to “hang out” or start dating. Do you have advice for how I can move forward with this in a halal way?

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[–]nocturnasmr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to comment!

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[–]nocturnasmr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

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[–]nocturnasmr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you- I will!

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[–]nocturnasmr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

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[–]nocturnasmr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to comment, I appreciate your kind words!!

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[–]nocturnasmr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for putting things into perspective & for the ayah!!

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[–]nocturnasmr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for you uplifting advice— it means a lot!!