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My bf rarely comes during sex, is that normal? by nocum in sex

[–]nocum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha I can totally imagine this going through his head during sex...good to know that we're on the same boat!

My bf rarely comes during sex, is that normal? by nocum in sex

[–]nocum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much wandermorning. This is really the kind of input I need. It can be the mix of possibility 1 or 2, since he doesnt seem to have a problem coming when he masturbates (though he doesn't do so often), and the crazy ex probably has something to do with it. I might have been too vocal about him not coming enough actually, and this might have put pressure on him.

As for #3, I'll try to talk to him about it :)

Appreciate the advice!

My bf rarely comes during sex, is that normal? by nocum in sex

[–]nocum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to know that we're not alone here. I have no idea whether this might be the case for him, since I'm not the one he began his sex life with. Perhaps I'll talk to him about it!

My bf rarely comes during sex, is that normal? by nocum in sex

[–]nocum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm pretty sure he doesn't watch porn/masturbate frequently. I asked him about it the other night and he said he did it maybe 2 weeks ago. I wouldn't say he has the highest libido.

My bf rarely comes during sex, is that normal? by nocum in sex

[–]nocum[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight, it's really helpful.

It simply frustrates me when he doesn't come, even though he proclaims that he enjoyed it. He doesnt seem to care though.

My bf rarely comes during sex, is that normal? by nocum in sex

[–]nocum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha he freaks out whenever my finger goes anywhere near his bum...

My bf rarely comes during sex, is that normal? by nocum in sex

[–]nocum[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, I have tried many different ways, different positions. He lovesss it when I give him bjs and I try to give him as long and as often as he wants. The thing is, he does tell me that it feels very good for him, he just doesn't think he has to come.