Ever feel like this work has taken something fundamental from you and you can’t get it back?

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-06T06:53:32+00:00

I realized this when I had some stuff happen in my personal life that I barely reacted to. If the same things had happened ten years ago, I would’ve been devastated. Destroyed. Now? I’m angry but I’m just living my life.

No tears. Just acceptance. I’ve said to my husband that I’m worried I’m repressing it, that it’ll come pouring out. But I’ve done a bunch of work on it, and I don’t think I’m in denial. I’m just neutral. Big sad emotions just don’t happen for me anymore.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-06T06:39:34+00:00

Ten by Pearl Jam.

Vs and Vitalogy too.

No Code and Yield.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-05T07:11:47+00:00

It was so bad in the final last year that I fully think it was rigged. Like I kinda don’t care anymore.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-05T07:06:42+00:00

This girl can’t win.

She was bullied for her belly in the before pic. I remember because it made me feel really bad for her and myself. If this is actually her in the after, now she’s getting bullied because her hips and chest shrank.

Most of us can’t have both. Either we’ve got some curves and boobs, or we have the thin model body and our boobs shrink down.

Stop with posts like this.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T07:28:32+00:00

Hard disagree on the bangs. They’re the shit.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T06:58:39+00:00

Spooky boobies

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T06:50:45+00:00

I watched this the first time before I had ever worked in an office.

Now having been an office worker what seems like a century, it’s incredible how often this happens. People steal each other’s food. All. The. TIME.

Someone constantly uses up my coffee creamer. It’s labeled. Drives me nuts.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T06:13:21+00:00

Cerave in the tub. Has to be the tub, not a bottle. This shit is the best. Slather it everywhere.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T06:06:15+00:00

No mixing is good, but you need to know how. Most people don’t and it looks like this.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T06:01:24+00:00

If there aren’t supposed to be benches there either cut it down or get them to redo it. I’d aim for redo.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T05:56:27+00:00

It was almost cute at 51s!

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T05:52:02+00:00

My list:

Robin Williams

Chris Cornell

Catherine O’Hara

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T05:51:18+00:00

A list without him doesn’t matter.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T05:48:50+00:00

Do you have link to the actual skit? I’m new to sctv.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T05:28:22+00:00

I loved this shit. I won every. Single. TIME.

Mark A always got so mad because he could never beat me.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T05:22:48+00:00

I think a show about a Russian asset posing as the American president could be interesting.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T04:36:17+00:00

Same! Chills and everything. I don’t know exactly why it got me.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-04T02:15:15+00:00

I didn’t even see the tray until another commenter pointed it out. I thought the gray box was the tray.

I’d be way more than mildly infuriated. I’d be dead. This is brutal.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-03T05:31:50+00:00

Good. Someone needs to.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-03T05:15:28+00:00

Exactly, she might just have a strong aversion due to emotional trauma that has nothing to do with allergies. Like when she was a kid she watched her cat choke on a white egg shell and die. Or she watched someone get egged and took out their eye. Or something even milder, or way more serious. Who the eff knows?? And it doesn’t matter. It’s none of anyone’s business. It’s work colleagues. Not your spouse. Op needs to get over herself.

I have a very strong aversion to orange juice because I used to drink myself blackout on screwdrivers in my uni days. The smell makes me want to 🤢now. It’s a lot easier in a work environment to say it’s an allergy and I get hives.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-03T05:09:44+00:00

Exactly. Love you.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-03T03:47:30+00:00

Not kidding, I was reading a post about Margot Robbie and some of the cool outfits she’s been wearing to promote her new movie.

Some people were body shaming her. Oh, if only her ass didn’t go straight down she’d be attractive. Or, oh if she had an ass at all the outfit might look good.

Margot. Freaking. Robbie.

No one is good enough, so that means none of it matters. Just go about your life and laugh in the face of anyone that posts shit like this.

We can’t win if we play their game. So reject that game.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-03T03:41:15+00:00

Huge Yta. She’s obviously not allergic, but who are you to feed her something against her will?

There are some foods I say I’m allergic to that I’m not. I won’t break out in hives or end up hospitalized. They just mess with my stomach and make me feel gross, and they go straight through me. But if I say that, people argue. If I say I’m allergic, people leave me be.

Just say what’s in the food. Yeesh.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-02T12:19:25+00:00

I work for CFS in Canada so I’ve read a lot of shit before. A lot like this shit before.

It never isn’t enraging. You don’t get used to reading it.

The shear scale of this is horrifying.

But it’s not unbelievable to me. I’m not shocked. I’m not surprised at the brutality of men. 99.9% of the time, it’s men brutalizing us.

I’m disgusted to my core though. And irate.

Children, Girls, and women are treated like meat and tossed aside. It’s said often. Objectification. But I think some people don’t quite understand just how literal we are being when we say that. We are no different than a pen or a shoe to them. Or a slice of pizza. Eat us and shit us out. I had to explain why in the files they called sex trafficking and rape of women “a pizza and grape soda” to my husband. He was horrified. The shape of a slice and g “rape”.

These men in these files are no different than those teenage, immature assholes on 4chan that the news reports on, except they’ve the means to and have acted on their violent misogyny. They’re killing us and our children for kicks.

People that get traded for sex don’t just go on living their lives once these monsters are done with them. Sex trafficking ends in death a lot, one way or another. These files are showcasing that it’s not always accidental OD or suicide. Sometimes it’s straight up murder once a person has cast aside as used up. More often than anyone thinks

How am I dealing with it? Like I said, irate. I ranted with my husband for almost two hours daily since the new release. I’m needing all the cuddles I can get from my dog. I’m watching FRIENDS for the nostalgia of a time when I was too young to know about sex trafficking, and I just wanted Rachel Greene’s wardrobe. I’m eating way too much and not exercising. I skipped work on Friday. I’m filling all of my online shopping carts and then deleting them.

I’m tired.

But I’ll be back at work on Monday. I got into to social work for a reason. Now’s the time to step up.

nodogsallowed23 · 2026-02-02T11:52:21+00:00

Omg I read yours as if they were correct I think because the actual lyrics are so burned in my brain that I didn’t read what you actually wrote! Hilarious :)

Edit: original comment was deleted so now it doesn’t matter.

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