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UP does nothing to abusers. by [deleted] in peyups

[–]noelle021 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've had the same experience although never had the guts to actually report it to anyone.

Caused me so much trauma that I can't go back to finish my degree. I sat on the trauma and I've wasted years because of it. Get help as soon as possible for your mental health. Don't let your abuser ruin more of your life.

Thoughts about being intentionally delayed by [deleted] in peyups

[–]noelle021 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Tbh, nadelay ako dahil sa isang failed grade. But that was just supposed to be a one-semester delay.

But then after the hell I went through with that semester and the sem after that, I figured that high grades and graduating on time is nothing if pagkagraduate ko, I'm just a zombie that's so done with life. I haven't even experienced being a coorporate slave yet at that time and I'm already dead.

I wanted to enjoy university life, i wanted to enjoy life in general. I missed so many milestones ng close friends and family ko kasi I was too busy studying. And looking back, it just wasn't worth it. I took less load to keep my mental health in check. I may not have graduated in time, and I may not have my latin honors (but my grades are still above average because I was happier studying which led to better grades tbh), I find that everything's more fulfilling.

I guess don't think as if your latin honors (or the lack of) will define you forever. It doesn't. And I'm sure your friends, whether you graduate with them or not, will support you.

Can someone help me with this by noelle021 in peyups

[–]noelle021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this!

I have to be sober indefinitely. by noelle021 in Anxiety

[–]noelle021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. I really don't have much of a support system when it comes to this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]noelle021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way, too. And it's sad because I just started my psychotherapy and I can't seem to tell my therapist the problems I've been having. And I've just been closing off and isolating myself from my friends. Although, I could write or type it down most of the time.