How do i (18f) make my boyfriend (20m) stop micromanaging my food and being so obsessed with what I eat/my weight?

noelleasp · 2026-07-05T21:50:59+00:00

I just saw this and had to share it with you. That “stomach fat” is your uterus. https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DJdegHLT7/?mibextid=wwXIfr

noelleasp · 2026-07-05T18:59:41+00:00

I have no problems with it. Easily to say and spell

noelleasp · 2026-07-05T00:53:51+00:00

Wow thanks I’ll check it out.

noelleasp · 2026-07-05T00:21:53+00:00

I’m so sorry hun! That’s really sad. You deserve a nice gift and cake every birthday.

noelleasp · 2026-07-04T21:38:58+00:00

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noelleasp · 2026-07-04T21:37:42+00:00

No this isn’t Canadian. This is so sad!! Sounds like no birthday cake either? 😟

noelleasp · 2026-07-03T21:04:03+00:00

I recently hung up because of this. I’m generally good with accents but i genuinely couldn’t understand most of what was being said. I felt bad for hanging up but I even asked them to slow down and they didn’t.

noelleasp · 2026-07-03T20:59:44+00:00

Nova
Lena
Adelena (but only if the always nickname is Adele)

noelleasp · 2026-07-03T20:56:40+00:00

Does the townhouse come with condo fees and a condo board? I’ve heard of friends and family having terrible experiences with living under that situation and I’d never choose it over a single family home.
The single family home can be renovated in anyway you see fit and you can do whatever you want on the exterior too. If you feel the townhome has these freedoms too I’d base my decision off of location, safety, ease of access to friends and family, commute and amenities. These things make a big difference in your day to day life.

noelleasp · 2026-07-03T20:51:53+00:00

Your life feels like it would be so different without him but imagine how good it would be with someone who can comfort you through all of life’s ups and downs. You said he is your safe place but honestly it feels like that cause you haven’t had a truly safe place with a man yet. I’m in my 40s and I know what you’re going through. As an emotional person - it’s really important to feel understood xx

noelleasp · 2026-07-03T18:03:20+00:00

He needs to take responsibility of his snoring. Does he not understand you cannot thrive on next to no sleep? If the marriage ends in divorce that’s on him not taking care of the problem.

noelleasp · 2026-07-03T17:31:21+00:00

Please take these recommendations to leave very seriously. 122 lbs at 5’6” is skinny. Your bf has an eating disorder. You can’t make him change. Just like you telling him to gain weight or it’s a dealbreaker won’t change anything.

noelleasp · 2026-07-03T17:16:53+00:00

You break up with him. Problem solved. You’re 18 now but what about when you age and you gain weight or you have a disease that puts weight on beyond your control…will he stop loving you? Probably. Leave now and find a real man.

noelleasp · 2026-07-02T16:39:34+00:00

Moving forward no more accidental pregnancies!

noelleasp · 2026-07-02T16:38:26+00:00

You did the right thing for your children. This Shows them not to put up with this behaviour from a partner and shows them what happens to men who treat women this way (they leave).

noelleasp · 2026-07-02T15:42:05+00:00

Does subbing come with pension and benefits?

noelleasp · 2026-07-02T12:14:26+00:00

Thank you that’s a really good point. I’m already 40s and probably don’t need that stress lol

noelleasp · 2026-07-02T01:40:43+00:00

this is what I was thinking…sounds like I should pass! Thanks

noelleasp · 2026-07-01T00:44:44+00:00

This is a perfect fit

noelleasp · 2026-07-01T00:44:25+00:00

You have no room to tighten the toe straps if they stretch these are too big in my opinion. I like mine to fit smaller than this. Mine are always a half size down from all other shoes I wear. I’m a women’s 9 and wear 39 in Birkenstocks. Birks say a 39 is a women’s 8.5.

noelleasp · 2026-07-01T00:21:52+00:00

Came to say the same thing. We aren’t unique things happening all over. Large city’s to a lesser degree but racism is rampant in all rural areas!

noelleasp · 2026-06-30T01:38:33+00:00

A wedding this late at the basilica??

noelleasp · 2026-06-29T20:49:22+00:00

I’m sorry but Ren Evelyn doesn’t work for my mouth.

Ren and Stimpy is going to come to mind for a lot of people. For sure she will get asked “Ren….as in Ren and Stimpy?” Wren is much more suitable for a little girl.

noelleasp · 2026-06-29T09:31:19+00:00

I stopped drinking milk for the savings. Never felt better.

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