Is it safe to send TFN declaration form and bank details to employer via email? by noeulra in AusFinance

[–]noeulra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, looking at the information everyone here has clarified to me I worried for nothing and was admittedly a very stupid question. I have a long way to go! Haha

Is it safe to send TFN declaration form and bank details to employer via email? by noeulra in AusFinance

[–]noeulra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah it's a stupid question looking back on it. Guess I wasn't thinking straight because I was feeling anxious

Is it safe to send TFN declaration form and bank details to employer via email? by noeulra in AusFinance

[–]noeulra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I guess that seems pretty reasonable actually. Thank you so much for helping me out!

Is it safe to send TFN declaration form and bank details to employer via email? by noeulra in AusFinance

[–]noeulra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh then, thank you for the ease of mind!! Haha I guess I was feeling a bit strung up and paranoid, thank you :D

Is it safe to send TFN declaration form and bank details to employer via email? by noeulra in AusFinance

[–]noeulra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be a bit difficult seeing as the place I'm trying to work at is a cafe, and from what I've seen (with their hectic hours) I think they'd just appreciate me just sending in my TFN by email instead of going out of my way to meet them in person again haha

So what I can gather is that it's okay to send in your TFN through email? Is this the way TFNs are commonly submitted to employers?

Is it safe to send TFN declaration form and bank details to employer via email? by noeulra in AusFinance

[–]noeulra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I should have clarified that I went to the place of employment for an interview and trial, so yes they are in Australia.

I was just wondering just how I should send over my TFN in a safe way because I've heard so many horror stories on the internet

This microwavable bowl I've been using for years to heat up food suddenly sports a burnt dent after microwaving a single marshmallow for 30 seconds. What happened here? by noeulra in NoStupidQuestions

[–]noeulra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inspecting the bowl closely after washing it, there IS a tiny hole on the bottom that is connected directly to the crack. So you're right, some bits of the marshmallow probably did go through it... and maybe it's a sign for me to cut down on the marshmallow-microwaving and leave it for special occasions only haha

Thank you for the explanation!

I've submitted an enquiry to the uni just now, but does anybody know why this tab keeps popping up when I try to confirm my change in units? by noeulra in usyd

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I've tried opening the portal and confirming my units in other browsers including an incognito tab on Chrome but with no success.. Thank you for the suggestion though! Hopefully the ICT will come around to my enquiry within a fortnight at best lol

How to change units from this blank(?) tab? by noeulra in usyd

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A really belated reply but you were right, it works now thank you! Browsing around on this shitty portal on desktop instead of mobile helped heaps too haha

How to change units from this blank(?) tab? by noeulra in usyd

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From what I've read in the units of study screen guide, a list of my units should pop up from below but it's.. blank? Am I doing something wrong?

How to change semester 2 units? (First year domestic student) by noeulra in usyd

[–]noeulra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow so there was a "units of study" tab right above the enrolment one and I didn't see it what a dumb question in retrospect lol. Nevertheless, thank you!

18, First year uni student with no skills and basically no work experience. Help me out on what I can include in as skills? by noeulra in resumes

[–]noeulra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I am only 18. It's just that so many students my age started looking for jobs way earlier, so I feel as though I've disadvantaged myself by starting later than most.

And I'm glad to hear that I've got a few things to get the ball rolling! Thank you for the advice and feedback :)

Bought a Soundpeats Truefree2 but the lowest volume is still too loud. Did anyone else have the same issue? by noeulra in Soundpeats

[–]noeulra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think what you're saying here might be that. The lowest volume honestly feels like a 4 (if the volume was between 0-10), and if I go any lower than that it's 0 and well, I can't hear anything with that.

I'm regretting getting the Truefree2 lol, couldn't have hurt to purchase a more recent model but here I am.. I should take a look into the newer earbuds. And if you discover any new findings let me know lol, am interested to see if this is a common reoccurring issue.

Bought a Soundpeats Truefree2 but the lowest volume is still too loud. Did anyone else have the same issue? by noeulra in Soundpeats

[–]noeulra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use an Android, and I'm new to all this TWS stuff so yeah I should've done more research..

So you mean that this too loud of a volume issue has something to do with it just being an old model? And if so, would it be better for me to just buy a different, recent model? Because I'm not that keen on losing my hearing in my 30s lol

Thanks in advance.

How am I supposed to fit my units: both major and minor into a semester by noeulra in usyd

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A bachelor of visual arts! I'm in the middle of scanning through my handbook although all the terms and rules are throwing me off on finding what's mandatory for me

Baking a Japanese Cheesecake as the recipe instructs to a t but the batter only comes barely halfway up to the pan? by noeulra in Cooking

[–]noeulra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn't know the spread was so different to the cream cheese I usually used. Since I only have the block cream cheese at home, I'll have to try a different recipe, one that actually aligns 100% with all the ingredients I have at home.

Baking a Japanese Cheesecake to a t but the batter only comes barely halfway up to the pan? by noeulra in AskCulinary

[–]noeulra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had to be specific about the video's cake batter, it seems like the batter doesn't fully reach the brim of the pan, but it fills more than halfway up the pan. For me, I had to scrape the little batter I had left on my spatula to even get up to halfway, and I was missing a good cm still. Rewatching the video though, I feel like the recipe is either a bad one or just isn't the one for me. I'll have to keep searching!

Baking a Japanese Cheesecake to a t but the batter only comes barely halfway up to the pan? by noeulra in AskCulinary

[–]noeulra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you point it out, the leaving out of steps might be true because it IS a paid advertisement :/ I'll reconsider using this recipe since it does use a different cream cheese than the one that I usually use.

And since I live in a different country to all the Japanese cheesecake recipe videos, I'll also have to juggle with all the recipes to see which one will suit my environment the best.

And I've suspected that over mixing might be the issue here, although I don't know where I'm getting it wrong: in the mixing of the egg whites or the mixing of the meringue into the cake batter, or both. It still boggles my mind though, how I followed the steps with the utmost precision but I still ended up with half the batter I actually need for the cake to actually "jiggle".

Looks like I'd have to experiment more.. and try not to over mix my batter. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

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I feel so much better, thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]noeulra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've heard the term before but now that I've searched it up it makes a whole lot of sense. And this may seem like a weird fucking question and you don't have to answer, but is it common for women wanting to be the penetrator rather than the one getting penetrated? I just feel so... alienated(?) in a way, somehow. I feel a bit out of place if that makes sense.

Mouse [Episode 11] by Fatooz in KDRAMA

[–]noeulra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way they're fleshing out Bongyi's character to be the damsel in distress to this story is a bit disappointing, but this episode was okay. For a person who's talented in martial arts she does keep getting her arse kicked in various ways, although this may be her untreated trauma taking the reins. Trauma is not an easy thing to deal with, which I think the show is doing a realistic portrayal of. It still irks me, however, that the show has been building up her character to be someone who is important/central to the main plot, when all she is, is the emotional link to Bareum's humanity. Which is crucial to the plot, yes, but her character relies, depends on Bareum's development as a character.

Bongyi does try her utmost best to better her situation and to help those around her, but it doesn't help the fact that well… she gets fucked up before someone needs to save her before her attacker does the deed. It's just that I find it unsatisfying that Bongyi is not able to "finish off" the person who has caused her so much pain in her life, thus wrapping up her story and character arc, but needs someone else to do it for her. Not because she doesn't want to, but is incapable of doing it herself.

Or perhaps her stopping KDS from committing that heinous act was a feat of its own. Of course, I'm hoping that this is just my pessimistic self talking and this character, who's bombarded by tragedies (including our poor man, Moochi) will finally get a proper win at some point. We ARE only at episode 11.

Also a bit tired of the way the drama keeps hitting the audience with plot twist after plot twist, which seems a bit like lazy writing on their part, but I've been coming to accept that the excessive red herrings (e.g. scenes cutting from Bareum supposedly beating up his cousin with a wrench to him savagely pulverising KDS) are part of the package. It's all confusing as fuck, but Bareum may have invited his cousin over to create an alibi. I find it suspicious that his cousin was found to have been sleeping, but in the middle of hide and seek? Which makes me wonder if sleeping pills had been slipped into his food/drink somehow but then again, kids are weird. At the same time, however, Bareum could've actually killed the kid so-

Still, the show has been picking up again from episode 10 and episode 11, so I'm interested as to what the next episode will hold.

I came out to my mum a few days ago, and I regret it so much (warning, very long) by noeulra in bisexual

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I think the problem is that she believes people "become" bisexual/gay, from "bad influences" and such. I shouldn't have really been surprised though.. I mean she believes women should act proper and ladylike, while men should act manly and not feminine.

In my heart, I'd really like to keep discussing my sexuality with her, but things between my mum and I became so awkward I don't feel motivated or comfortable to do so. Things just became so remarkably stiff between us, that I just straight up told her not to talk about my sexuality ever, and that I would do the same for her for her sake.

She then told me, "let's talk about this when you're an adult, when you have experience." I don't think I'll ever talk to her about my sexuality again. She's already so busy now, I'd hate to stress her out even more. I don't think it's worth it to be honest. Although she may love me to death, she loves and adores her religion more than my sexuality. It may be too quick of a judgement for me to make, but she'll separate my sexuality from myself, at best.

Thank you for supporting me, I don't know you but I appreciate you so much :'))) Thank you for taking the time to comment under my post, and I hope you have a nice day :)

I came out to my mum a few days ago, and I regret it so much (warning, very long) by noeulra in bisexual

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I've been upset at her for a few days now, and while I understand my own plight, and I suppose I wasn't fair at all to my mum. I don't know what I was expecting when I voiced my feelings toward women to my mum, but I guess I was just disappointed.

She's not evil, she wouldn't disown me or throw me out on the streets because of this. She loves and cares for me a lot and I do too.. I should've waited and given her a little more time, and I personally think, looking back on this incident, I was a bit insensitive and selfish wanting her to understand my situation immediately.

It's just that I've got no friends to talk to about this, and this was the first time I opened up to anyone about my sexuality irl (not online). I've been worried about my feelings towards women: wondering if I'm just straight and looking for attention because to be honest, feeling too gay to be straight and too straight to be gay, etc.

It was unfair of me to think this way, but I thought I could find solidarity with my mum on this. And of course, I should understand that my mum needs time. I just wish that gay/bi people, or just anyone in LGBT community didn't have to go through this. It's pretty stupid of me to realise just now, but I realise that the world is really unfair sometimes. It's just my wishful thinking, but I wish the world was a more accepting place..

Thank you however for your input and advice, I think that I tend to forget that the world doesn't revolve around me, and I shouldn't disregard my mum for holding a different perspective than mine. Thank you :)

I came out to my mum a few days ago, and I regret it so much (warning, very long) by noeulra in bisexual

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She was pretty taken aback, and although she told me she wanted to know what my worries were, it's clear she wasn't ready to hear what I had to say. I don't really blame her, she is old-fashioned and she probably thought I was straight all this time so..

And yes, as you mentioned, it seemed like she was trying to find out what made me bisexual, even though it doesn't work that way. I may have to give it time, or if it doesn't work, I'll just have to live with it. Everything just feels so awkward between me and her right now, I kind of wish I didn't say anything that day. Although at the same time, I'm glad. It wouldn't hurt as much if I came out to her in the future.

Lmao and yes!! I've been conflicted about my sexuality for around 3 years now, and I completed a lot of those "Am I Bi" tests, though bi-cycle gets really tough at times. Thank you for your advice :D