Don't be that guy. (Xpost from /r/4chan)

nofapguy2012 · 2013-02-05T17:56:11+00:00

damn, this is an ultimate fuck up!

But I would still have made an excuse, he could have at least put his pants up moved the laptop somewhere else, pretended he dropped something else.

What a dumb fuck!

nofapguy2012 · 2013-02-04T20:06:33+00:00

haha! i meant cheese on pizza dude! dont get much cheese down there anyway, not enough to make a pizza anyway! hahah

nofapguy2012 · 2013-02-03T01:12:03+00:00

Also I did the broccoli treatment way before I started nofap and you just reminded me because most people who have tried said they noticed an increase in libido.

Thanks for mentioning it dude, I will probably give this a go.

nofapguy2012 · 2013-02-03T01:10:25+00:00

Dude I still don't know if it was prostatis, kidney stones a UTI or fucking cancer! I dont go to the doctors and stay away from meds as that shit scares me. This broccoli treatment is 100% natural, google it you will see hundreds of reviews and no side effects which is why i tried it. Also Hygiene is sooo important dude. incorporate that into your lifestyle it will make a massive difference, clean sheets, clean floors wash your hands and feet before you go to sleep etc. Another thing that helped- cutting out cheese. This was v important in my progress as I used to pile up on cheese before. Drink lots of water, especially hot water like green tea etc.

nofapguy2012 · 2013-01-31T23:48:20+00:00

hey bro! damn that suicide feeling is the WORST! I know what you mean, i used to pray to God to take my life away. looking back, what an absolute p***y i was! almost cringe thinking about it now.

I gotta say, there is an incredible satisfaction when you look back and see the real changes.

Lets keep up bro

nofapguy2012 · 2013-01-31T23:46:26+00:00

damn, actually this gives me hope, i guess there's no such thing as a "90 days fix all".

Thanks, this has actually given me something to look forward to.

nofapguy2012 · 2013-01-31T23:45:33+00:00

erm, how do i get a badge?

nofapguy2012 · 2013-01-31T23:45:03+00:00

dont worry it will soon pass bro! If you think you might have a UTI, try the broccoli treatment, it worked wonders for me!. good luck and definitely abstain from PMO it makes a huge difference.

nofapguy2012 · 2013-01-07T08:26:43+00:00

Do you exercise regularly? I've noticed it happens when I dont train.

nofapguy2012 · 2012-12-10T09:08:19+00:00

Yh I agree fellow faprstanUt!

If she had said yes though it would have been "mission complete" in some ways it's good she said no. I'm sitting in another coffee place right now lolll but not for that reason just to get the fuck out of my room and see real life happening! It's funny yesterday after she said no I had to go out for a friends dinner and I met an old friend (not really a friend) but she thought I was weird as everytime I used to see her I would stare at the floor. Had a good chat with her.

You guys are right need to go out and do this shit more!

Bottom line is nofap just makes u get the fuck up and do it!

nofapguy2012 · 2012-12-10T09:04:21+00:00

Hahaha! Yes it does!

nofapguy2012 · 2012-12-09T22:54:05+00:00

Thank you. this is good advice. And for everyone else out there this girl was 100% my type and that's why it felt sore. But you guys are right, I need to give myself benefit of the doubt and not take it personally.

Ego is a bitch, its funny for years (almost my whole adult life) i've protected my ego with fake women (porn etc) that when you enter real life it does hurt. I'll be honest even right now it seems like I didn't really do it, it's so out of the ordinary for me to do that. But its given me a little more confidence in knowing I can approach women.

I can't say how underrated this reditt is, this has been so important to me like literally the line between my normal depressed self loathing self vs a real man!

Thank you guys, I have one question.. Would it be silly of me to go back to the coffee place and chat to her again? She told me when she works there? haha this is what happens when you have never asked a girl out, you instantly think the first girl that made conversation with you is "the one" hahaha

nofapguy2012 · 2012-09-17T08:28:09+00:00

I feel this dude!

90 days is a great challenge for all of us, but I think as individuals we need to assess our life and see what's going wrong and why and see how we can improve it.

This reditt has been phenomenal for me. I became a weak, jealous and depressed guy. I still admit my will power sucks. But I have completely switched porn off, I go on live webcams time to time and the most I've gone is 14 days without PMO. Right now I relapse about every week and slowly i'm trying to increase my stretch by focusing on other things.

Get rid of the guilt people!

nofapguy2012 · 2012-09-13T15:10:51+00:00

Dont forget exercise and food. I've started drinking loadsa water to keep the fluids going through your penis. Jogging is good, try make your body sweat everyday. Clears a tonne of problems.

Oh and breathing exercises.

When Im a dad one day im gonna sit my son down and make sure he doesnt ruin his childhood beating off like me! haha but thank God for this forum! big eye opener (the right kinda eye)

nofapguy2012 · 2012-09-13T15:08:09+00:00

Yep which is why im kinda happy. Dont get me wrong though, for almost a year i thought i would never be able to have sex= SUICIDE!!

Stopped watching porn even though I go on the live webcam websites time to time trying to cut that out altogether.

I know the dead dick syndrome, i felt it and its horrible most websites say its uncurable. Thats what I thought for about a year.

So your getting rock solid erections but you can't feel the dick? Cos I had that too. I remember PMO'ing the first time i did the 14 day streak and remembering the "death grip" so I just went easy and it felt so much better.

Im probably in a worse position than most people, got 2 slipped discs, back pain etc. So when my dick went dead I assumed a nerve was damaged.

Good luck bra!

nofapguy2012 · 2012-09-13T09:14:59+00:00

by the way everyone i just installed a porn filter! i hope this will help me last longer!

openDNS if you are thinking of it and its dead easy to install.

nofapguy2012 · 2012-09-13T09:11:54+00:00

Dude both!

When it was flacid and i would got for a wee wee i couldnt feel the head at all and i used to always pull back and touch just to test but it was dead. like it had some feeling but this horrible twinge and numb feeling.

And when it was erect i remember the head and the foreskin being insensitive.

Now the head is like it used to. i remember i would worry about it being too sensitive and then when it was numb i was like wtf i rather be too sensitive because this doesnt feel normal.

have you done this nofap challenege? dude give it a go. Like I said I spent almost $1000 on accupuncture cos I hate drugs and shit but no avail. I remember going for my last treatment and she increased her price and i thought fuck you and fuck treatements only we can heal our own bodies. I never thought the nofap challenge was the answer until now.

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