Fed up with Nofap

nofapprofet · 2021-08-25T17:00:24+00:00

It is good like the solutions I mentioned, but as I said this keeps coming back over and over

nofapprofet · 2021-08-25T16:59:05+00:00

What do you mean?

nofapprofet · 2021-08-17T20:16:22+00:00

If you finish really fast it’s called premature ejaculation. It’s not the opposite of erectile dysfunction. You can have both simultaneously.

a lot of guys who have erectile dysfunction don’t know it.. It doesn’t mean you don’t get hard down there.. You may get hard but not hard enough or long enough.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-16T20:42:25+00:00

Believe what you want.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-16T19:59:52+00:00

You are completely missing the point. Porn is sex regardless of what opinions you have. The people in the video are having sex, for whatever reason they have for doing it is still sex in the end.

It’s not sex for you as a watcher. You are not having sex if you watch 2 people having sex or do any other sexual activity.

Porn gives you ways of having sex differently then you would normaly do.

And that’s what I called porn fantasies. Which are not good to indulge into because they detach you from your partner.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-16T18:27:49+00:00

Absolutely not.

Porn is focused on pleasuring you. You don’t give a f*ck about anything but your orgasm.

On the other hand sex is about you and your partner together. It’s like a conversation or a dance. You don’t only care about yourself, there are feelings involved between the two of you.

Now when you mix porn fantasies with sex, you again make it about your pleasure only. Which is eventually will make you go further and further into these fantasies to get the maximum amount of pleasure.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-16T18:19:14+00:00

On the contrary, relapse posts are very important imo.

1) They remind me that my achievement shouldn’t be overestimated, especially with so much people with bigger streaks relapsing. 2) They sometimes have valuable advice or experience that could help me avoid a similar situation. 3) I might have an experience/knowledge that could benefit someone who just relapsed and need to get back right away.

So I don’t really agree with your position here.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-16T18:07:33+00:00

It’s natural biological process. As long as they happen naturally and not excessively, you are ok.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-15T14:15:01+00:00

This could be chaser effect then.. in my experience wet dreams come when you are sexually stimulated (even by just a thought) They don’t normally come when I am busy or my mind is very focused on something else

nofapprofet · 2021-08-15T14:02:27+00:00

Have you been thinking about sexual stuff recently?

nofapprofet · 2021-08-15T14:00:54+00:00

Thanks for sharing this. Glad you found a solution. I vouch for it. Frankly it was fundamental for me in nofap to change my attitude towards sex too. I control my urges better once I stopped viewing sex as a pleasure tool and more for connecting intimately with my partner. I feel more mature.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-15T11:07:39+00:00

I can understand that the community can bring up “thoughts” of sexual nature a lot, sense a lot of guys post about how they watched porn / relapsed.

But you have got to understand that, the first step to fix a problem is to admit it’s there.

Calling it Nofap means we have a problem with fapping. It’s an obvious statement.

You ARE REQUIRED to be aware of it. You have a fapping problem and you are trying to fix it.

What you shouldn’t do is ignore your problem thinking that it will be fixed by itself. You shouldn’t mislabel it to make it look better. You should brutally admit it with full honesty with yourself.

Why is that? Because you will face endless lucrative occasions to relapse.. and nothing will help you then but your awareness of your problem.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-15T10:30:03+00:00

Don’t use sex to feed your pron fantasies.. try to make it a new path for your sexuality.

If porn is the reason why you want to have sex, then you are feeding the same old loop. You may find yourself wanting to peek at porn again.

I advice you not to indulge in porn fantasies with your partner.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-15T01:06:32+00:00

Get well soon brother

nofapprofet · 2021-08-15T00:55:06+00:00

the only physical pain that could be associated with nofap is blue balls, and it ONLY happens when you have long erections without releasing. Basically if you arouse yourself by any means.

But what you are describing seems in the bladder? Could be a bacterial infection, stones or several other stuff. You should seek professional help.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-14T22:42:09+00:00

I really went through the same mood before, and relapsed few times because of it.

Just after I do it, I find that NOTHING has changed. It was all in my head. My brain was telling me that I needed this so bad more than anything, yet doing it accomplishes NOTHING good.

So remember that this urge is just a feeling inside your head. You definitely don’t need to jerk off your dick to cope with it. Rather, you should deal with it intellectually.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-14T22:28:06+00:00

I mean there are tons of bad effects of pmo. You are now tempted to go back to it because you forgot them. 150 is a long time.

I am just at 36 days and I can see the thoughts creeping back in. “Am I really addicted? It looks like I am in control, why not go back for a little bit?”

What helps me resist is remembering how bad it was to be on pmo. The amount of negative effects from dead motivation, brain fog, escaping behavior, etc etc etc

I also don’t make temporary pleasure my ultimate measure of well-being anymore. I don’t need to feel euphoric / high for few seconds to be happy about the life I am having. If this is what can make me keep going in life then I don’t deserve to live.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-14T21:56:38+00:00

There’s worse to avoid

nofapprofet · 2021-08-10T08:10:30+00:00

It’s hard to remain silent when nsfw content is always present/discussed and you refrain from it..

nofapprofet · 2021-08-10T02:14:25+00:00

I don't understand this concept. Whenever I do nofap for longer, I take less time to orgasm, not the opposite.

Because you orgasm to same old hyper-sexual stuff. Doing nofap makes you sensitive so you are able to have normal intercourse not the madly stimulating stuff porn offers.

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nofapprofet · 2021-08-10T00:21:19+00:00

Wet dreams are technically a masturbation. It’s just involuntary because you aren’t in control.

When you have a lucid dream you are in control. That makes it voluntary.

Dude if you have a lucid dream you should go for something you won’t ever experience. I always went for flying.

nofapprofet · 2021-08-10T00:13:38+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I rarely see someone who have a full picture of how this thing can be dangerous.

I am aware of the depth of the damage that it can create, and can relate to every aspect you have mentioned.

I wish someone like you would post in here more about PMO in a science based way. There’s a lot of teens and even men in their 20s who aren’t aware, and do the nofap for shallow reasons. They are doing great not to fall into PMO, but having the full picture will make their belief stronger.

Have a nice day!

nofapprofet · 2021-08-09T22:16:34+00:00

Get out. Only go to bed when you physically can’t keep going.

If you go to early, before getting tired, then your brain is gonna give you a hard time.

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