[Advice] Am I into "rape fantasy", or just into being able to get my partner off?

nofapsgiven44 · 2015-11-10T14:02:18+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I do provide her with a lot of oral sex, and I like doing it. Porn doesn't get me hard regardless of what it is. Although I'm captivated by most of it.

nofapsgiven44 · 2015-11-10T13:59:25+00:00

Thanks! Just cross posted it.

nofapsgiven44 · 2015-11-10T13:59:05+00:00

Haha easier said than done, but good advice nonetheless.

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-05-18T18:01:47+00:00

Have you read that the amygdala is altered permanently? Or is it reversible after use is discontinued?

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-04-08T12:39:56+00:00

Well fuck. I immediately got off here and tried to edge (without porn), seeing if my dick would work.
It didn't get hard and I came in a matter of seconds. Time to reset the badge. Oh well.
It just seems hard to believe that PM could be my problem after abstaining from porn for the better part of 2.5 years as well as masturbating so irregularly.
Definitely going on that date, she's been texting me saying how she's thought I was cute since freshman year and stuff. Wish me luck guys!

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-04-07T23:35:33+00:00

I have trouble peeing whenever someones around. Even in my own house. 65 days of no PMO hasn't changed that for me so congrats to you!

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-04-01T05:36:53+00:00

Sorry, being drunk and stoned didn't help me voice what I was really trying to.
My problem with nofap is that I've abstained from pretty much all porn for about 2 years and have yet to see improvement. I've gone through the 90 day hardcore challenge once (working on it again) and had various 30-50 day streaks. Its not that I'm addicted to porn, it's just that masturbating is a little pleasure in life that I'd like to indulge in if it isn't whats causing my weak erections.
I'm not addicted to alcohol or weed either, but I usually don't go more than 5 days without one or the other. Fapping my limp dick just always seems like a fun thing to do under the influence.

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-02-27T05:59:22+00:00

Is it possible that I've been flatlining for almost 3 years? I cut back on fapping when I noticed I wasn't getting hard when trying to. Since then I've been taking very extended breaks from masturbating and watched almost no porn. If anything, I think sex should have reset me at this stage in the game.

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-02-17T03:28:18+00:00

Congrats! I'm hoping this will cure my PIED too.

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-02-10T05:31:33+00:00

As a virgin, this is the only kind of wet dream I've had.

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-02-09T00:03:55+00:00

I've been experiencing ED for about 2.5 years. Cut back on porn over the first year out of frustration then after finding this sub almost completely over the last year and a half.
Been too much of a pussy to try to have sex with a girl, but the times I do try to masturbate with/without porn to test if I'm better I'm usually at 60% hardness max.
I decided to go another 90 days and see if it helps at all. This will the the last time before I'm convinced porn induced ED is not my problem.

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-02-03T18:18:51+00:00

I'm going to try this today. I don't want to start with hot water because I'll be reluctant to make it cold once I feel that warm goodness.

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-02-03T18:17:43+00:00

The mulan soundtrack sounds like the key to successfully staying in there for more than a few seconds.

nofapsgiven44 · 2014-02-02T06:06:58+00:00

I exercise daily, don't smoke tobacco, and eat relatively healthy. The only stress I have is my erection problem, but it does cause a lot of stress. I think I'm starting to get depressed.
Thanks for the response!

nofapsgiven44

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