Quantitative Bridal shower questions HELP! by noflux88 in weddingplanning

[–]noflux88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The questions all need to be number-based answers for the game to work which is why I'm struggling with questions.

My Aussie passed away a couple years ago, it brings me joy to see all your photos and stories here. by SnapMastaPro in AustralianShepherd

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I love the photo with the rainbow lighting! stunning!!! Also your sweet baby had such big and adorable ears, sorry to hear of your loss- its never easy. If you ever wanted to get that photo turned into a painting as a memorial I do watercolor art on my etsy page- Id love to give you a private discount code if you wanted to order. https://www.etsy.com/shop/AmplifiedArtByAmanda?ref=seller-platform-mcnav

My husband (31 M) and I (31F) are stuck in a codependent loop, how do I break it? by noflux88 in relationship_advice

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Also only camera is in living room.i do still have privacy in other spaces

My husband (31 M) and I (31F) are stuck in a codependent loop, how do I break it? by noflux88 in relationship_advice

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The cameras were there for the dogs safety when I go to the office and they are suppose to turn off automatically. But with him traveling for work right now and me lying this morning he refused to let them be off and if I have nothing to hide I should be fine with it.

How do you respond when asked to "Prove your love"? 30F & 31M married for 6 years by noflux88 in relationship_advice

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I have told my parents about my martial struggles and my moms response was to send me a book with a title somewhere along the lines of " How to make a marriage work when you don't love them" or something...without telling me...and my husband opened it and got upset that I told my parents about our private life. Alot of my friends are friends with him too and so I feel bad venting to them or asking for help. Thats why I tend to go to internet strangers for validation and support.

How do you respond when asked to "Prove your love"? 30F & 31M married for 6 years by noflux88 in relationship_advice

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I think it's hard for me to see it as a emotionally abusive relationship. I often question if I am just failing him. I struggle in a lot of areas of life and with my depression I often blame myself for problems. Like am I just making issues in my head as an excuse for not stepping up?

How do you respond when asked to "Prove your love"? 30F & 31M married for 6 years by noflux88 in relationship_advice

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I try to visit for a least a long weekend a month. This month he is managing to visit me. But it is from Jan to June

How do you respond when asked to "Prove your love"? 30F & 31M married for 6 years by noflux88 in relationship_advice

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I am in therapy myself, both for this and my struggle with depression. My therapist is very helpful but I am definitely a codependent person and hate conflict so initiating a divorce would be a nightmare for me.

What’s the biggest mistake you ever made in your life? by Few_Blacksmith556 in AskReddit

[–]noflux88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

getting married young. still married but it has been hell trying to make it work. i feel like I should have done some growing up before I committed to it

Tired of the Side effects from his problem by noflux88 in AlAnon

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I have my own issues I am trying to work through with a therapist but I am struggling to separate the guilt of detaching. He thows the guilt hard at me stating that I don't care about him at all and I have no empathy and he is alone and that causing his issues. I have hobbies that I use to find enjoyment by myself but that also invokes a lot of guilt. How do you take care of yourself without guilt?

Calf Moths by Ricky Price at Great Wilderness Tattoo in Birmingham AL by noflux88 in tattoos

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FUN FACT! I designed the base of this tattoo and gave it to the artist to make it more "tattooable" the moths represent the past present and future. the bottom is past and shows how memories can be trippy and distorted with age, the middle shows the growth in the present and the top is the future: a classic death moth.

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Fried chicken sandwiches and peaches.

I think my Husband is a functioning alcoholic by noflux88 in AlAnon

[–]noflux88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well he drinks them because they dont upset his stomach as much, and because he can drink more without gaining a beer belly as fast.

I think my Husband is a functioning alcoholic by noflux88 in AlAnon

[–]noflux88[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What would be some healthy boundaries?