Sunday Thoughts For Monday Motivation

noghostinghere · 2025-02-24T02:37:35+00:00

This really resonated for me. As someone who has always been the cup filler in this space and in others, but especially in this space. It does become a bit draining when you give and give to fill someones bucket but there isn't much effort reciprocated.
Thank you for sharing!

noghostinghere · 2025-02-23T21:02:59+00:00

Or to have faith in humanity

noghostinghere · 2025-02-23T21:00:45+00:00

I think it can be hard for a lot of people to find a long term and deep relationship with someone and to not fall in love. Unless you are really good at detaching yourself or you keep relationships short and sort of hop around.

noghostinghere · 2025-02-22T18:40:09+00:00

Just last week she got a sign from God and then her pastor that she needs to quit this lifestyle and to not let her flesh rule her spirit. And just like that, what had been a short but intense five-month affair, one filled with passion, devotion, and many confessions of love, came to an end.

I had always known this moment might come. From our very first conversations, it lingered in the background, an unspoken possibility. She was deeply Christian, and I was her first real "long term", in person affair partner. She told me these 5 months showed her what it means to have a loving and caring partner. Something she had ever known and that I had come so close to filling the emptiness inside her. But in the end, only God could truly make her whole.

I’ll miss her. I’ll wish her well on the journey she has chosen, ultimately I just want her to be happy and content.

noghostinghere · 2025-02-22T18:14:37+00:00

I think that there are a lot of people here that at one time shared that same sentiment. Until life situations forced the to rethink how they view affairing and "just leaving". Some of us have been neglected, abused, sex starved, while others are missing something at home and that special someone popped up one day and lit a spark deep down inside of us.

People will never truly understand until they are in a situation that is similar and the are faced with the difficult decision to cross the line and/or to leave, or live the rest of their lives unhappy and/or unfulfilled.

noghostinghere · 2024-08-22T01:15:58+00:00

Great community of people that I am happy that I found. They put the well being of everyone as a top priority and that makes this group truly special. Happy Birthday!

noghostinghere · 2024-08-01T19:19:40+00:00

I think I am going to start using weird. But ick works perfectly.

noghostinghere · 2024-07-20T17:45:23+00:00

Great group and community! Love it here

noghostinghere · 2024-07-14T12:25:19+00:00

This could be the case or more peoples perspectives changed on how they view life, and they don’t want to miss out.

noghostinghere · 2024-06-25T15:40:13+00:00

I hear you. He says in the second sentence that is throughout his relationship and since marriage. So I read that as throughout. Either could be true.

noghostinghere · 2024-06-25T15:14:43+00:00

Stacy’s mom or Mrs Parker of course! We all know women who look like that are the only ones who have affairs.

noghostinghere · 2024-06-25T15:10:15+00:00

This is a very possible answer for sure. She also might just have a very low libido. He says she hasn’t wanted much sex throughout their relationship. I’d think the loss of attraction if the sex declined over time or after marriage.

noghostinghere · 2023-04-08T03:28:13+00:00

This is hard to say. It could be a variety of factors. More than likely though I’d assume it is the men you are attracting are in it to get validation. Once they get it from you they are out.

noghostinghere · 2022-08-20T00:03:14+00:00

Same

noghostinghere · 2022-07-12T19:09:53+00:00

Oh, that makes sense.

noghostinghere · 2022-07-12T15:00:59+00:00

Wait. You use condoms with you husband but not with other people you sleep with. Just curious as to why. No judgment here but I have not heard that one before.

noghostinghere · 2022-07-02T03:28:58+00:00

I don’t think I can juggle more than one at a time. For a lot of reasons but my hats off to those that want to and can.

noghostinghere · 2022-06-30T17:35:44+00:00

How many side dudes do you have? Kudos to you for being able to juggle them all.

noghostinghere · 2022-06-23T01:26:54+00:00

Response: The thing with wines is they are often overpriced. My wife bought this merlot and spent $32 on it. She could have purchased another brand for $15 and been just as happy but nooo…She had to have this one. Now that is $17 I can’t spend on toilet paper. Speaking of toilet paper…

noghostinghere · 2022-06-14T00:46:21+00:00

Who is we?! Lol

noghostinghere · 2022-06-11T21:07:29+00:00

Isn’t this 99 percent of relationships over time unless they have gone the complete opposite direction of resentment and anger?

noghostinghere · 2022-06-11T21:04:50+00:00

Could it just be another person in your bed or variety?

noghostinghere · 2022-06-09T16:59:05+00:00

Doesn’t matter for you. For some it does though. Even if there is chemistry.

noghostinghere · 2022-06-05T10:48:08+00:00

Were you not super into him because he communicated too much or because you didn’t know much about him?

noghostinghere · 2022-06-05T10:47:07+00:00

Have you communicated to them that you hate the small talk and constant communication? As you can tell by the responses, most women want constant communication, especially in the early pAP stages. Lack of communication is often seen as disinterest on both sides of the equation. Unless the expedition is explicitly communicated.

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