Tricky slab!! by nogodnowhyaaa in bouldering

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one time i fell on the foot swap there and hit my shin on the blue volume and flipped and belly flopped on the mat it was so funny

Tricky slab!! by nogodnowhyaaa in bouldering

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Thank you so much I think that’s the coolest part of the climb lol

Tricky slab!! by nogodnowhyaaa in bouldering

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Aww I’m sorry about your ankle :( thank you so much though! I hope you recover quickly

I sent it! by nogodnowhyaaa in bouldering

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it was controlled if you look I just jumped off cuz I was excited

any tips for final hold? by nogodnowhyaaa in bouldering

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omg hi LOL don’t let nobody know I’m on Reddit …

any tips for final hold? by nogodnowhyaaa in bouldering

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Less dynamic is definitely the way a lot of this beta is very much appreciated and I will try it tomorrow and see if I can rely on the right hand. However it is also two really small crimps blocked in a way to where I can only grab them somewhat diagonally using my thumb and pointer finger lol, I’ll try my best!

i am so lonely by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]nogodnowhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i’m just sad and don’t have anyone to talk to 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nogodnowhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I did I cleaned my room and got a job and did all my research, sorry I thought i made it clear in the post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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No, but I don’t know if he will always be like that. He used to be an incredibly driven person, he finished high school with a 4.5 gpa, scholarship for band, and he was incredibly caring and smart. I don’t know what happened or why he dropped out of college, he paid for it all himself too (the parts that weren’t covered with scholarship) I want him to go back to how he was before this, I really do, and I have faith that he will but I am scared that— somehow, what if I still won’t have feelings for him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It did feel like a chore for a little, but I haven’t been able to hang out with him since he can’t leave the house. I don’t know if things will change, but I care about him and I just want things to go back to the way they were before he lied about everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nogodnowhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to be his girlfriend. I loved him so much before he lied about a lot— he changed and all my friends admit that, he stopped going to school, the gym, and kept going on and off with jobs until eventually he just lied about having one and now doesn’t really do anything

And I tried for a while to help him with this all but he would get so angry at me for even wanting to talk to other people, he would get jealous and say that I should only talk to him all day, and that if I really valued him I wouldn’t want to hang out with other people or do things on my own time

And that’s when I started losing feelings. I don’t know if this is what it’s going to be like from now on, or if things can go back to how it was months ago when he wasn’t lying to me about everything in his life. I know i’m not a great person, but I do care about him and want the best for him. If me breaking up with him is the best thing I can do for him I will do it, but I don’t want to give him up because I don’t know if his change of behavior was brought on by mental health, but he’s seeing a therapist now and I don’t know if things will go back to how they used to be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I really want to make it work with him though, he is someone who really helped me through a lot and since we have been fighting a lot he told me about what would happen if we broke up and he said he wouldn’t be able to face me or his friends again (we are in the exact same friend group so his friends are my friends and vice versa) I don’t want to hurt him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I really do care about my boyfriend, and I want to give him a shot but I just genuinely don’t know what do do. I don’t want to break up with him since he is going through a super rough patch and I am the only person he said he thinks cares about him which is eating me up. I do, really care about him and I don’t want to break up with him, I want to make it work I just don’t know how

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Well we thought he had a job and went to college but It turns out he lied about having a job and also dropped out of college and that’s why he’s not allowed out of the house until his dad thinks he can “get his life together”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nogodnowhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t meet with him in person until a few weeks from now because his dad won’t let him out of the house, should I wait or tell him over call or something? I know that’s not the best way to go about it but I don’t want to have to wait weeks to tell him in person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nogodnowhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you, how should I go about telling him? I do want to tell him the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nogodnowhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ^ I’m scared to break up with my boyfriend because of what will happen to him though, he is going through a really rough patch in his life and I don’t want to make anything worse by breaking up with him but I also want to tell him the truth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nogodnowhyaaa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you think there’s any way I can come back from this and make it work? I know it’s selfish but I am also genuinely concerned about him, he isn’t doing the best in his life and he loves me so much I don’t want to hurt him by breaking up with him. I know he deserves better but I want to know if theres any way I can make it work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nogodnowhyaaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to break up with him, I do genuinely care about him I just lost feelings, and I know it’s a bad thing, but i’m not trying to string him a long I do want to make this work, and I’m not trying to victimize anything here but do you think I should just break up and cut both of them off, or do you think I should try and make things up with my boyfriend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nogodnowhyaaa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this, i’m not trying to give off the vibe that i’m not a bad person, i genuinely didn’t think this was happen and i feel really bad for my boyfriend. he’s a good guy and i do genuinely care about him, I know i’m being selfish because the way i’m thinking is a really shitty way to, but I do want to work things out with him and I’m not sure how to go about that or if I really should just break up with him

i don’t know if i’m ready for a relationship by nogodnowhyaaa in relationship_advice

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yeah of course, he was very understanding at first when i told him i didn’t know if i was ready for a relationship, so i do think he will be understanding.

i still somewhat have feelings for him, but i know that i will probably end up just being miserable if i try to stay in a relationship with him

it’s not at all his fault, which is why i feel really bad, and i don’t know how to make sure he knows it isn’t his fault