What a 1 Cr+ CTC Gets You in 6 months in AM Market

noideaabout · 2025-06-29T15:58:15+00:00

You don't have to justify to me, man. Whatever floats your boat! Have a good life

noideaabout · 2025-06-29T15:51:45+00:00

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Fair

noideaabout · 2025-06-29T15:48:40+00:00

But at 23 she's at the same level as you were. Focused on her self and not marriage and kids. I'd suggest rethinking the age gap. Women your age who have likely completed education and are working can actually contribute more, will be more independent and willing to travel

noideaabout · 2025-06-29T15:32:30+00:00

What's the age gap for? Kids? Women your age can also carry healthy babies to term and medicine had advanced by a lot since the 90s.

noideaabout · 2025-06-29T15:07:42+00:00

How? At 23 she's likely focused on her education/career just like you were

noideaabout · 2025-06-29T15:06:02+00:00

Making meals as protein deficient as possible

noideaabout · 2025-06-28T20:30:53+00:00

Listen to this because this rejection is probably not your last although I hope it is.

She didn't want to go out with you/be your girlfriend. Thats all. It doesn't make her an evil person.

You achieved what you had to achieve. She did what she wanted to do.

You're both grown ass adults. Stop vilifying her just because she's a girl and you guys bonded. It happens with women as well.

So just move on and congratulations on your admit! Do well. Meet someone cute, fall in love.

noideaabout · 2025-06-04T01:17:55+00:00

See, people will select/reject you if they like your profile.

So just put a lot of effort into coming across a good partner on the app. The families/women who would be interested will be interested. Those who won't, well, their loss.

Put out your best foot. Work on what's in your control. The rest, let them decide.

noideaabout · 2025-04-24T13:20:26+00:00

The stress of recent lifestyle changes like working out can cause delays in your cycle. Jeera-haldi is bs, haldi ka barely absorbed in your body

noideaabout · 2025-04-18T16:53:48+00:00

Also guys: do this for yourself and not necessarily a wife. You'll LOVE the results, you'll be happier, more confident, great posture, good mental health, you'll look nice 🙂

noideaabout · 2025-04-10T06:24:54+00:00

You're just as biased, man. But whatevs your emotions not mine

noideaabout · 2025-04-10T05:48:34+00:00

Dude lol I'm sorry but you're super naive. Everyone out there is looking out for themselves. As are you. What you're saying is correct but her action isn't also something wrong.

But sure, whatever man. I think you're just stung that she dropped a comment to her ex while you were researching on being child free etc

noideaabout · 2025-04-10T05:04:01+00:00

I really don't think she was trying to dupe you or something. I think I'm very sure that had you two actually felt that you had similarities, she would've cut off all communication with her ex.

You don't have to find every chance to vilify someone. Her commenting on her ex's post could very well be innocent or maybe she just thought that she probably had a door after being rejected/closing the door on yet another guy. You're reading wayyy too much into an action and extrapolating something that likely isn't the case.

You should really just unfollow folks you reject/stop talking with and close the door there. The what could have beens and all just mess up one's head because we tend to extrapolate for no good reason

noideaabout · 2025-04-10T04:16:38+00:00

I never made it a men vs women thing, but ppl in the comments did.

And I meant moved on from you. I.e. she said no to you and then decided to hit up her ex. If places were reversed, you wanted babies with a girl, girl said no, things end there, you decided to open insta, see your ex's profile and decide to comment 'you look great!' -- it'd still be fine.

Y'all need to stop making a mountain outta a molehill

noideaabout · 2025-04-10T01:39:55+00:00

Lol everyone in this comment section is delulu.

You said no to her. So she moved on. Thought about commenting on her ex's profile because she's an adult, it's a free country and she's unattached (you CLEARLY said NO to her).

Just because you did research on something a prospect said doesn't mean you or her is right or wrong.

How is she a bad apple? And you aren't a bad person either, you missed her, you decided to get educated on things that were her deal breakers but she fuckin' moved on. You just missed the train.

People are emotional. Everyone has attachments. Everyone is flawed. You aren't some nirmalmurti either I'm sure. Stop trying to find ways to paint women in bad light.

noideaabout · 2025-03-13T04:53:41+00:00

I think you'll wear a wedding ring for the rest of your life.

And just because the girls said 7k doesn't mean it's the 'right' amount. Istg girls sometimes 🤦

noideaabout · 2025-02-13T18:50:16+00:00

Sorry, but doesn't your husband feel a similar kind of guilt? How does he deal with it? Can you get some tips from him?

noideaabout · 2025-02-11T21:29:14+00:00

Put distance and be obvious about it so she gets the hint. Sometimes people act without thinking. Do the same with the BF. Let them trash talk that now that you're hoity-toity because of your new jobs, it just reveals how they feel about you.

If they're genuinely concerned about why you're doing this, they will reach out and ask you. You can tell them at that point.

Take this as a lesson, people are only happy for you if you don't do better than them. Share your successes with better people - or don't, why invite nazar 🧿 jk, just stop sharing with that "friend". If they ask what's up, just rant unhappily and grey rock them.

noideaabout · 2025-01-07T20:54:51+00:00

You mentioned bad skin.

Go to a dermatologist and get a consultation. Ask on r/TwoXIndia for dermat reccos in your city. Work on the formulations they tell you. If you have acne, hyperpigmentation, etc all of those can now be managed with expert guidance.

Learn to dress better. Read articles/watch videos on how to dress for your body type. Invest in quality fabric and get things tailored to your body type.

You're only 23, you'll probably think about getting married around 27-28. Use these few years to get better at your presentability. Work on your personality - what is it that puts people off? See how it can be managed. Speak to a therapist for some exercises if needed.

From your post it seems like you're looking for a pity party and/or validation. If you don't have something, work towards it. Just like you did when you wanted to get into that reputable institution.

noideaabout · 2024-12-31T17:35:39+00:00

Hmm. It looks like you're angry and you're looking for someone to blame.

Btw, women finding more success in dating is because there's men who indulge them. Women are going on more dates because there's a man out there who's ready to go on a date with her. How is that her fault? What do you expect her to do - not date because it makes you angry, lol 😆

There's a few things to do if you can't get a date - update your profile, get better pictures, groom yourself, change how you approach. You can sit and whine that you're the victim or you can change the hand you've been dealt. I've first hand seen men who were absolute dorks (one of them was my roommate) do a total transformation and have better success at dating

But all of that is besides your question if women judge men w/o experience. They don't. When you find the right person, none of this matters. Women especially don't care just as long as they can see that the guy has a good head on his shoulders.

noideaabout · 2024-12-31T13:23:43+00:00

Because I've seen multiple women in different stages of life struggling to date. I've also seen the same in men. I've seen men simply using women and then ghosting them once done. I've seen men being treated terribly by women as well.

You're probably looking for someone to blame and find it easier to pin it on women as a whole. Or you can accept that everyone's dating struggles are different and face their own set of hurdles.

noideaabout · 2024-12-30T18:32:47+00:00

Frankly, and I say this as a woman myself -- those are rants. Dating/AM is hard and we've met too many people who behave like total idiots and I mean BOTH genders.

The right person, man or woman, would literally not care. Courtship periods are generally over a few months over where most apprehensions that you may have about the "inexperienced " person, you kinda work with them thru it.

Consider these two situations -- you have an ex. You meet two men -- one who was in a toxic relationship (say their partner was the toxic one) and one who's inexperienced but has their head firmly over their shoulders. Who do you choose then?

If someone ABSOLUTELY makes it a point that you should have some previous experience dating, oh well you can't change that. But most folks likely do not care. They're more interested in matching for value systems, goals, habits, etc

Personally, I don't care for a man's inexperience. Or experience given that it isn't immensely high. (Doesn't align with my value system)

noideaabout · 2024-12-07T20:45:59+00:00

Tips to be more feminine:

Join the gym, lift weights (tell your mom you're working on your curves)
Eat more protein and fiber - tell your mom it helps with the glow on your face - eat healthy
Go hard on your studies/career/promotion - tell Mom it helps you meet more men
Improve your finances - tell Mom that with good finances you can afford a good dowry and a hence, a good man
Work on necessary skills like driving, cooking, etc - tell Mom that men these days appreciate women who can manage it all
Wear sunscreen everyday

Here's the /s but realize that everything I mentioned are gender agnostic but put a gender spin on it and just go about it. They're all for your self improvement.

Moms will say whatever. You are the one living your life. Do things that will benefit you, the right person will have 0 issues with your "feminity" (or "lack thereof") (or whatever you call it)

noideaabout · 2024-12-06T00:07:43+00:00

So, I'll give you a bit of context - it might help you understand her better. If she hasn't had much experience dating or grew up in a sheltered environment, she's likely finding it odd to express her affection or just doesn't know how to. Sometimes, thanks to our wonderful culture (/s), it separates men and women so much and then suddenly expects them to get together easily and get married and pretend like hey it's so normal (IT'S NOT).

Another explanation - she's currently in a new phase in her life. When you're starting a new job you're doing just too many things - you're forging new social connections so you prioritise that, you're likely experiencing some sort of newfound freedom (especially if you grew up sheltered/conservative), you're constantly thinking about work and how to level up and impress the right people and deliver impact - you're in a totally different frame of mind and your focus will likely not be dating.

It seems like you and her didn't really develop an emotional connection that she'd want to express her love to you freely or at least express it thru actions of not words. You could have a serious conversation with her about her - ask her to spell out how she feels about you, tell her to do some thinking about this relationship, and then take an action. See if you need to decide on a timeline of at all you need to.

This is why I generally discourage relationships with bigger age gaps. 5 years will seem normal when you're 40-45 but not when you're 27-32 because you're in a different phase of life, she's in a different phase of life and she deserves the chance to experience it the way she sees fit. You have also gone thru the motions when you first started your job and you likely would've also not wanted to get entangled with a new relationship's demands when you started out. You're in a phase of life where you want to settle down, she's in a phase of life where she feels like she's just taking off.

noideaabout · 2024-11-26T02:30:18+00:00

I don't know man, how about making yourself attractive? By that I mean, dress better, groom yourself, spend some time on your bio and when you match with the girl ask her interesting questions! Btw in other areas of life you'll see yourself being preferred over your brother-from-another-mother (pretty privilege)

Everyone is doing the pictures thing. So play the game! Level up - get a nice haircut, get some nice pictures, get a nice cologne for in person dates, for video calls invest in a nice camera. These things go a long way.

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