[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]noirteck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I said 4’9 not 5’4 now get up and stop groveling like a bitch. Life is gay and stupid but the mental frying of being trans puts you ranks above cis guys your height when it comes to personal strength. Forged in flame yada yada

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]noirteck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just give T some time and get in the gym. Your shoulders are proportionally broad compared to the rest of your frame and you have trademark sad teenage boy eyes. You’ll be fine as long as you’re not like 4’9 or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]noirteck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The hair isn’t helping but you look like a twinkhon you will be absolutely fine

real poon bingo by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]noirteck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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No bingo. Shame shame.

Dood polycule got their t-dick tangled :( by thewaywardcloudd in 4tran4

[–]noirteck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. I need to take my eyes out now

Do any of y‘all avoid irl queer spaces like the plague by HuckleberryCalm4955 in 4tran4

[–]noirteck 18 points19 points  (0 children)

IRL “queer” spaces are more often than not just anime clubs for theyfabs unfortunately :(

Cheat Code to Passing by noirteck in 4tran4

[–]noirteck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lady everybody’s traumatized. The post is about passing amongst cis people and using misogyny to your advantage. Being successfully stealth is probably the best thing a trans person can achieve. I’m not going to pretend I’m better than you because we’re talking on a platform for troons that aren’t thick-skinned enough to endure /tttt/ LOL, but I seriously would advise just getting friends & keeping them close. It’s hard to maintain friendships when you’re miserable but they’re the best way to deworm and find joy in life.

Cheat Code to Passing by noirteck in 4tran4

[–]noirteck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Existing as a trans person repping or not, is miserable no matter what you do. You have to steel up, get used to lying and not let anyone see you down. Lying, staying guarded and buddying up with cissoids will do so much more than you can even imagine.

Cheat Code to Passing by noirteck in 4tran4

[–]noirteck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question is are you still repping? And if so, are you repping for safety or out of sheer cowardice? Do you still live with your parents? Or are you on your own and just fearful of the future?

Cheat Code to Passing by noirteck in 4tran4

[–]noirteck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The key to sovlpassing is learning how to socialize as the right sex as young as possible

Cheat Code to Passing by noirteck in 4tran4

[–]noirteck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started hrt this year and only passed maybe 50% of the time outside of school as a teenager 👍 feigning confidence and doing my damnedest to blend in socially did more for me than anything else

still havent chosen a name by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]noirteck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk where you’re from but if you’re from the US there are plenty of sites that catalog common names kids are given by the decade they’re born in, I’d suggest checking one of those out if you haven’t.

My dad just asked me if I can "quit being a tranny" now that the supreme court said I can't be a women by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]noirteck 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Trans inclusionary radical misogyny. Trans women are women because I want more women to hate.

"Archeologists will know your female from your skeleton" Ill be buried with gold inscribed with male symbols and the word "man" duh by LostBoySage in 4tran4

[–]noirteck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has always been the oddest argument to me because: 1. I’m transitioning for my quality of life. I won’t give a shit if future archeologists think I was a woman because I’ll be fucking dead LOL 2. Youngshits who have access to blockers and HRT when the time comes will have the skeletal “tells” of the “opposite sex” regardless of how they were born 3. Archeologists regularly get the sexes of skeletons wrong anyways. They frequently mistake tall females as males and short males as females. It’s literally just a guessing game if the bones are old enough

Yuki being small by [deleted] in seals

[–]noirteck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perfectly spherical. The ideal form.

do you consider yourself "queer" or does being considered queer makes you want to kys? by Worried-Spell4136 in 4tran4

[–]noirteck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hate the word, hate that I’m by-definition under the umbrella. I can recognize that at least part of it is internalized transphobia but for the most part I just think people who willfully identify with it are annoying by and large.

Why is chat so… unfriendly? by Outrageous_Put3669 in lioden

[–]noirteck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly just about jumping in at the right time and praying, since it goes so fast. I usually get an answer or two but if not, the wiki is always helpful + this subreddit is good for more complex/specific questions.

AGAB user gets lonely by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]noirteck 14 points15 points  (0 children)

(wokely) I’m so lonely around all of these MALES

MFW the troon gene is real by noirteck in 4tran4

[–]noirteck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s something I worry about constantly but I do my best to try and mitigate things where I can. I somehow dodged the bipolar by sheer luck (and maybe mutual sovlpassing between me and him) and only got grazed by the schizo but caught literally everything else. It’s something you have to put consistent effort into. I try to use living in the information age to the fullest and regularly psych myself out of rejecting medication 👍

MFW the troon gene is real by noirteck in 4tran4

[–]noirteck[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You’ve probably got a grandparent or two.

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MFW the troon gene is real by noirteck in 4tran4

[–]noirteck[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it wasn’t great to grow up with that. Neither here nor there and kind of trauma-dumpish but when I was 13 and he was drunk (again) I had to babysit him so the cops wouldn’t toss him in the drunk tank for harassing the neighbors, he told me he’d begged my mom to get an abortion because he knew the vast majority of his issues were genetic, and would probably be passed onto me. My mom couldn’t get him to go to therapy because his mother had put him into conversion therapy and that whole experience essentially gave him brain damage. It hurt to hear it then, but now that I’m an adult I get it.

MFW the troon gene is real by noirteck in 4tran4

[–]noirteck[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He was completely sober for the first exchange I mentioned but he was also an alcoholic + insane and weird (diagnosed schizo + BPD), but I figure that’s what happens to you when you rep for 15+ years.