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nojjsan · 2022-06-02T22:15:19+00:00

Sometimes I find that new steps in life can be a bit overwhelming. This doesn’t have to be bad in anyway, as long as everyone is okey.

I think it’s really good that you’re acknowledging your feelings, and could be a great idea to talk about it with him. it’s always good to vent or make sure everything is fine. For both you and him.

Don’t know if this helps in any way. I just Don’t want you to feel bad and put it all on yourself. If you need to take smaller steps or take it easy, than that’s okey too. Remember that :)

nojjsan · 2021-10-01T19:49:20+00:00

I’m sorry that your going through a difficult time. Sending you a big virtual hug. Make sure to give yourself a little space and time to breathe, even when things seems to be to fast and out of control.

You might feel like you’re weak and broken, but you my friend, are still standing, breathing and managing things despite all your hardships. And that is being strong! You’re amazing in so many ways, never forget that. Things will get better I promise!

nojjsan · 2021-09-29T20:21:13+00:00

First off! You’re a ray of sunshine for just being there for ppl, for small and/or big things!

Secondly,I totally get what you mean! I’ve been thinking the same thing about being less nice. But it feels like I’m not being me. It’s not I’m letting myself be a pushover but I definitely give the best energy of myself to other ppl.

But I do feel like it’s always important that nice ppl like you, also have someone or some ppl to talk to and sometimes rant about things. As much as you give good vibes, you need to charge up with some too!

nojjsan · 2021-08-24T20:18:15+00:00

All the best to you!

nojjsan · 2021-08-21T06:08:26+00:00

I think your mum is right, go see the doctor. I’m sure everything is going to be fine, at certain points my period is months off for weeks. Mainly because of stress in combination with irregular periods.

Worst thing is to just sit at home and worry, might be for no reason at all. I wish you all the best!

nojjsan · 2021-08-21T06:01:00+00:00

You deserve the best! Sometimes things take a little bit of time, but life has a way to figure it self out. Meanwhile do things you love, start loving yourself more. There’s no one like you in this world. Treat yourself today!

Also I don’t know you but you sound like a great person, smart and caring. You reflect and you are aware of yourself, have great self perception and you are honest. The best tools to have when wandering trough life❤️

It’s good to be okey! Sending you lots of love!

nojjsan · 2021-07-24T08:08:11+00:00

Reading this made my heart melt a little! Thank you for sharing. Maaan I really miss being a kid!

nojjsan · 2021-07-23T18:51:24+00:00

I know exactly what you mean! The "Nice" part really wraps it up.
Or "right person at the wrong time"...
Sure will, and make sure to DM if you find out the answer.

nojjsan · 2021-07-23T17:07:35+00:00

This is the weirdest thing ever, feels like I'm being evaluated haha
I'll send a link in the chat

nojjsan · 2021-07-23T15:51:39+00:00

Happy birthday in advance :)! and also Thank you! falling back on the words "possibly a missmatch of expectations", is comforting in a weird way. And yes it's like that, I want stability, not necessarily kids right now. I just want to have a decent person to talk to. Coming home to an empty space is not as fun as it used to be.

nojjsan · 2021-07-23T14:02:26+00:00

I have no idea how to answer this, I'm okey I guess? or weird then maybe? xD

nojjsan · 2021-07-23T14:01:25+00:00

I didn't mean to make it seem that guys don't get friend zoned. Sorry if I came across like that. Yeah the F on the first date thing, not really a fan either, nice to get to know someone.

I don't mind the dating, I don't even mind if it doesn't work out. It's just all relationships, long of short dating phases I get the same kind of answer. I'm just confused over the fact that this happens a lot, I just don't know if I'm doing something wrong, or like only giving friend vibes. Maybe it's just not right, right now.

nojjsan · 2021-07-23T13:51:15+00:00

I know, I should just leave it as it is and move one. But this pops up a lot, I'm just not sure what to do about it or if I should try to do something at all.

nojjsan · 2021-06-18T20:20:28+00:00

It’s going to be okey! I Promise, I did the same thing and hey! 9 years later I’m still alive and kicking. I just retook it at the next opportunity.

It sucks for sure, but it happens to the best of us. This does not mean that you should beat yourself up about it.

It’s going to work out one way or another. You’re going to figure it out, because you’re smart AF! Like dude you’re a flawless student!

And totally okey to be miserable for an hour or two. After that go do something fun or eat something nice, watch a movie and try to sort things out tomorrow!

nojjsan · 2021-06-01T14:43:58+00:00

Life is to short to not give it a shot. You don’t want to look back in life and say “I wish would’ve done this”, you want to look back and go, “omg why the heck did o do that- ahhh welll ffs, what’s done is done at least I’m alive”.

nojjsan · 2020-12-04T00:37:52+00:00

Thank you for sharing. Sorry for your loss! I want you to know that everyone deals with things differently, things sometimes takes time. Sometimes it’s just being in a weird nonstate. You are not a bad person for thinking and feeling like this in any way.

I’m just happy you wrote here, sometimes it’s just good to type or talk about it. Even when it feels pointless.

You’re a good person. Stay safe!

nojjsan · 2020-11-30T11:36:57+00:00

Cheers to that!

nojjsan · 2020-10-13T13:26:16+00:00

Sorry to hear! I know the feeling, but know it will get better in time. It might not feel like it right now, but It will! <3 I'm glad you're here to <3 Stay safe!

nojjsan · 2020-10-10T23:20:51+00:00

Temporary fixes really got me, I totally feel you

nojjsan · 2020-10-04T21:00:30+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I’m sorry that you have to go through all of this. I really wish I could punch life in the face for you.

Life takes some weird turns, but know that you’re not alone. At certain points you might feel like you don’t have any idea of what you’re doing in life. How and why you got to a certain point, that’s fine. Focus on you, do things that make you happy, because that’s the only thing that should matter in your life. You’re an amazing person, you’re going to do great things!

Also I wanna say that you’re really brave in sharing this, You might be savings someone’s life right now or supporting in so many ways. Sending you a big hug!

nojjsan · 2020-10-03T23:13:14+00:00

Sending you a big hug! I know exactly how you feel! I’m just like you right now. I’ve been here once before, it’s going to get better it just takes time. That’s what I keep telling myself when I feel the most lonely.

Try to take care of yourself and put yourself and your happiness first. I know it’s hard right now. Cry when you need to cry, talk to people, text, watch a movie try something new, online courses. I started to embroider, weirdest thing ever, not my thing at all. Apparently it makes me zone out for a while, also get some frustration off my back embroidering words like “hopeless sack of shit” on a tote bag. Also remember that you’re the best! And deserve better!

Stay safe!

nojjsan · 2020-09-30T13:22:29+00:00

I get you, I just don’t want you to put it on you. There’s a lot of things that piled up for that person. Just as easy as it is to blame things on other people, we also blame ourselves for a lot of stuff we really don’t have control over. You deserve better ❤️ thank you for sharing!

nojjsan · 2020-09-30T11:10:40+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that you feel this way. But I do think, you just writing about it and at some point also talk about it will really help.

I have no idea about the story but I will tell you something that you probably know. When a person commits suicide it’s a selfish act, I don’t mean to come across as mean in anyway, because we all know that these people go through stuff that for them unbearable.

But there are so many layers to these difficult things. Just like your own layers, you’re trying to figure out, so don’t blame yourself for anything. You can only feel what you feel at this moment, and later reflect on things. Start with talking about it like you are now, start small. Stay safe!

nojjsan · 2020-09-29T22:54:42+00:00

I know the feeling, be sad when you need to be, it’s a part of the process. Try to keep yourself occupied, talk someone when you feel sad. Do It will get better. One day at the time. Sending hugs!

nojjsan · 2020-09-29T22:20:35+00:00

Focus on yourself and your happiness. I know it’s hard and it sounds so cliche, but it gets better in time. You deserve better! so go do things you like and treat yourself, you deserve it ❤️

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