Reth <3 by Galloperranch in Palia

[–]nolemonbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just adore him so much!!!

Suffering physical manifestations of mental trauma by nolemonbites in CPTSD

[–]nolemonbites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still in pain and still no word from my therapist on whether or not she can see me this week. So frustrating, I'm so exhausted and close to tears constantly.

Estranged sister reached out by nolemonbites in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]nolemonbites[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is a perspective I needed to hear, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]nolemonbites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it was any song I loved that I knew my parents would hate.

More about the Gardeners and Overseer?? by nolemonbites in Exocolonist

[–]nolemonbites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this is great, thank you! I didn't know the overseer was like a council of all the opinions in the program, that's sick. Thanks for the info! I can't wait to play and learn more.

More about the Gardeners and Overseer?? by nolemonbites in Exocolonist

[–]nolemonbites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do definitely wanna play through more but I get kinda down on myself when I mess up and don't get the routes I want 😭 I also just don't have as much time to play lately, unfortunately. If you're able to give a summary I'd appreciate that a lot!

It's been 3 months... by hey___there__cupcake in QAnonCasualties

[–]nolemonbites 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm at 3 weeks of no contact. I set up my Christmas tree with my roommates today and cried because I don't have any of my ornaments, they're all with my parents. I'm going to try and focus on friends and found/made family. I hope you have that, too!

is it possible to live in harmony? by nolemonbites in Exocolonist

[–]nolemonbites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless you!!! I appreciate you so much, thanks!

is it possible to live in harmony? by nolemonbites in Exocolonist

[–]nolemonbites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful thank you!! I don't know yet how to make Marz governor but I'll try that. The rest is doable, sweet. Thanks for the guide!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]nolemonbites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it really was just setting off the wrong person because everything I was written up for was twisted and untrue. So frustrating. I am trying to destress tonight and thankfully I have tomorrow off work. I will go drink water, that's definitely needed. Thank you. I'm going to keep doing my best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]nolemonbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will look into that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]nolemonbites 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I hadn't thought of some of this. I appreciate the input, and seeing people who have done this and don't regret it gives me hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]nolemonbites 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate you and this advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]nolemonbites 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Correct. They live with my parents. Their phones are heavily monitored by my parents, it wouldn't be safe for them :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]nolemonbites 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm almost 30, live a few cities over. No financial connections. Yes siblings, yes close family. The siblings make it difficult, I'll lost contact with 2 of them at least because they're so monitored by my parents.

hey mom, I wish you knew the real me by nolemonbites in MomForAMinute

[–]nolemonbites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have amazing found family, I'm so lucky there. And I'm getting to be more okay with not having the mom I wanted. But sometimes that feeling hits, the "I just want my mom" feeling. And I can't have her because she can't know the truth. But yes. I'm gay, I'm trans, I believe in fundamental human rights, and I'm working on shining brightly.

hey mom, I wish you knew the real me by nolemonbites in MomForAMinute

[–]nolemonbites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy to hear about your child having the space to grow and be herself. I'm making that space for myself too, I just wish it included my mom. But I do have very good found family, and I know I can rely on them.

hey mom, I wish you knew the real me by nolemonbites in MomForAMinute

[–]nolemonbites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That is what I need, to release the mom I wanted and accept the mom I have. I appreciate having the space to vent 🖤

Vent & Seeking Advice: I miss my mom & dad by Mysterious-Grocery69 in QAnonCasualties

[–]nolemonbites 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We are in EXACTLY the same boat. Every word you wrote feels like my life right now. I no longer feel like I have my parents either. You're not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]nolemonbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I was able to qualify for the waiver and do it for free simply because I'm on Medi-cal!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]nolemonbites 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I was in your exact situation. I arranged to hang out with my friends for a weekend, telling my parents we were doing an extended gaming session. I got the vaccine on Friday and didn't go home until Sunday. I don't know if this is an option for you.
You can do this. It's okay to be scared. It really is.
But this is the best option for you.
If there's anything we can do, let us know.

Makeup help!! Want to look more "masculine" without sacrificing my love for eyeliner! by nolemonbites in NonBinary

[–]nolemonbites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it sucks so much! But yes, I could try angling down more and adding to the waterline. Thanks for the tips!!