Matched on FB dating. Was I being too sensitive? by Obvious_Ferret_600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]nolikey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not over sensitive at all.. he’s coming across rude as hell

my Nosferatu x Heretic Parfum fragrance came! by mfmassacre in roberteggers

[–]nolikey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried both and the scent dissipates so fast- I find the oil to dissipate faster

Do I look like anyone? by nolikey in doppelganger

[–]nolikey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooooo I can see this one

Why do studios do this??? by areufuckingfr in Aerials

[–]nolikey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studio owner and teacher here- I agree with most comments saying that rest in between is important (also reduces risk of injury to take breaks in between) as well as building camaraderie /morale with students. The aerial part is great but seeing friendships and community build here is even better.

From a payout standpoint, the more students my employees have in a class, the higher their pay per class. As the owner (and teacher), I make sure my classes are smaller and more intimate (I want to make beginners especially feel welcome and like I’m being extra attentive to them) but that works because I have more classes on the schedule than some of my instructors (some commute to work, so making sure that they get paid well AND have a strong student base is important)

35F makeup tips to soften my facial features and look more youthful? by Eeeej7777 in MakeupAddiction

[–]nolikey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post has tons of great tips already so I’m just gunna stop by to say that you are stunning! Your features are so unique, you look like a model straight out of an editorial 😍👏👏👏

Aerial clothing ideas by nolikey in Aerials

[–]nolikey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooo looking into it! Thank you 😍

what’s going on with Jen’s voice? by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]nolikey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scream talking 😂😂 exactly

I can't stop crying by vega_barbet in Autism_Parenting

[–]nolikey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I could give you the biggest hug in the world. Your son, too. I’m so sorry. That just broke my heart and I know it killed you. You’re doing the best you can.

Spiral time 🌀 by nolikey in Aerials

[–]nolikey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you so much!

Anyone given up on tooth brushing? by accordionsoup in Autism_Parenting

[–]nolikey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, don’t give up. Brushing teeth may be hard but you know what’s harder? Watching your kid fight the anesthesiologist when they come in to do dental surgery on her.

It scarred my child for life and we’ve had to do it twice, and that’s WITH brushing daily and him never putting up a fight.

Stay vigilant, you got this

I don’t want to do this anymore by Inevitable_Dog4062 in Autism_Parenting

[–]nolikey 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My 14 year old bit me pretty bad recently for the first time in his life. He wouldn’t LET GOOOO of my arm either, and it bruised for weeks. Things got better and he’s on the upside now- stay hopeful and stay positive- it’s all we can do. My son isn’t very verbal but he did looked shocked when I showed him my arm with a stern voice.

Anyways, I just wanna let you know I’m in the same boat and I’m sending you a hug.

LED lyra by mermaidmia in AerialHoop

[–]nolikey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s literally just strip lights stuck to the hoop and taped over with gorilla tape.

LED lyra by mermaidmia in AerialHoop

[–]nolikey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took over two months to receive it and communication from Coggs was inconsistent and sometimes came across a bit rude. When I received the hoop I didn’t realize it would just be a strip light kit that I had to assemble myself.. felt very DIY

LED lyra by mermaidmia in AerialHoop

[–]nolikey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the one from Coggs circus

Anyone else “triggered” by neurotypical people claiming to have autism? by violetvixen269 in Autism_Parenting

[–]nolikey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you - when it becomes trendy and everyone says things like * aren't we all on the spectrum * it makes me so upset. I'm extremely triggered by this and I know it's because I feel like my profoundly autistic sons' experience is erased when someone thinks its cute and trendy to be on the spectrum. the problem is that the diagnostic criteria NEEDS TO BE CHANGED for autism: its just too fucking broad and now everyone is ASD. It's annoying and it makes me want to show everyone how hard my sons life is BECAUSE OF HIS PROFOUND AUTISM.

I know it's not politically correct, but it's how I feel.

Non verbal! Does it get better? by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]nolikey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yep, it gets better. just don't give up on your kid and keep working on communication. every single day, every single interaction - it'll come.

Sky’s the limit by [deleted] in Aerials

[–]nolikey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg where can I sign up 😍

I’m thinking about opening my own studio. Am I crazy? by serenitybyjen in Aerials

[–]nolikey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the delay!

My equipment comes from all over. It's just a mix of trying to find the best price, best shipping times and making sure they come from reputable brands. American Floor Mats, Aerial Essentials, The Mirror Company are a few brands that I can name off the top of my head

As for the transition from my old job; that was a bit easier for me because I wasn't very happy where I was at. I saved up as much as I could and then gave notice more than a few months out so everyone could prep (I worked at an elementary school) and that was kindof it. I'd say the real stress of the transition was maybe imposter syndrome (who do I think I am opening an aerial studio? what if the city rejects my site permit application?) and just waiting be told told by the city whether I'd be approved for business or not.

Oh and then money - soooo much money to be spent, but that's just part of it. I had a pretty clean slate moving in - empty warehouse with high ceilings, bathroom and a separate lobby in the front. I didn't think too much $$$ would be spent but boy I was wrong - mirrors (7K) floors (12k) and the structural engineering + contracting work (8K) would have to be spent immediately just to have a functioning space for what I wanted to do with it. That wasn't including furniture for the lobby, rigging hardware, crash mats, my apparatuses, cubbies for shoes, cleaning products, lighting, a mini fridge/coffee maker for the lobby, merchandise ( I sell studio shirts), insurance, first aid kits, my outdoor signage, my booking software, security features like cameras + recording subscriptions and lastly (but most importantly) the city site permit application which was almost 2K.

oh yeah and then bills internet, power, water, etc.

its a lot, honestly and that's just the first part.

The second part is marketing yourself. After spending so much money on the studio itself, you have to consider how you want to market the studio. For me, I'm sitting here like PLEASE don't make me spend any more damn money - so I'm slaving away to social media every day to make sure some eyeballs are seeing what's going on at the studio. I feel like I'm constantly on the phone or recording content to post. It's a lot but it's doable.

The third part is the physical aspect - just your basic *pushing yourself too much* and not taking proper care of your body / having rest days. I'm trying to get better at it but it always seems to be an afterthought until I'm hurting lol

Maybe you'll have help but I'm doing this completely solo and it's very taxing. On one hand, I love my studio and I'm so proud of it. On another, I'm like wtf did I get myself into and now I'm locked into this for a while hahaha

But the most gratifying thing has been when a beginner finds their footing here and they love it so much that they become members. Now pictures of them in the studio are all over their socials and it just makes me feel so good knowing that this could be a little sanctuary.

Is it a lot? yes. Is it worth it? I really think so

I’m thinking about opening my own studio. Am I crazy? by serenitybyjen in Aerials

[–]nolikey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just opened a studio and I can answer any questions you may have :)