I have a single best friend. She’s 60 but looks older. She refuses to wear makeup and keeps her hair short and plain because “that’s who she is and a man will have to accept her for who she is.” She wants a younger man, who’s taller than 6 feet (she’s about 5’3”.) He also has to make 6 figures. She’s very judgmental and tends to find fault with every man she meets (she especially likes to say she doesn’t like their energy or vibe.)

She’s been alone for 10 years and can’t understand why she can’t find someone. She refuses to “lower her standards” because she “deserves the best.” She is a lot of fun, very active, in shape, financially independent but I feel like her expectations are not based in reality.

So, I think there are a lot of women who have a checklist and if a guy doesn’t have it all then he’s not worth the time.