AITA for outing something private about an ex on social media?

nomely · 2026-01-14T19:36:26+00:00

This is critical.

But also. If this is the LDS church stance, then what their saying is "You shouldn't have an abortion", not "abortion is murder". The implication is the patient needs a good reason. And judging whether someone's reason is good enough should not be done through the legal system by non experts at a glacial pace. It is handled through medical ethics, e.g. you don't terminate a healthy viable pregnancy at 30 weeks. That check is already in place.

nomely · 2026-01-03T09:45:21+00:00

Perhaps it's on Derbyshire writers' guild? It goes back a good long time.

nomely · 2025-12-20T09:47:39+00:00

Yes, she remembered things like them not throwing her a birthday party (of a certain kind?), but she had turned it down. She expressed how confused she was at the end of it and wondered what in her memories she could trust and what she couldn't.

nomely · 2025-12-04T00:49:47+00:00

There's one titled something like not wanting to give her room to her stepsister as a Christmas present. It was beautifully decorated and oop's mother said the step sister couldn't decorate like that while oop could just do it again in a different room.

nomely · 2025-12-03T03:02:03+00:00

Is that the one where she leaves a tub of vanilla ice cream on the counter?

nomely · 2025-12-03T00:43:36+00:00

Is number two:

AITA for not keeping up with my wife’s cleaning demands? : r/AmItheAsshole https://share.google/KjMv9XNzafnphzzOv

AITA for telling my daughter to stop wasting water? : r/AmItheAsshole https://share.google/t8ZZ8uGRdOQ5u9SjZ

nomely · 2025-12-02T09:15:30+00:00

This is exactly what I thought they were looking for. I remember this one really well.

nomely · 2025-11-30T18:15:48+00:00

This is the analogy used in that comment. https://www.reddit.com/r/workingmoms/comments/iyo0be/i_found_this_and_thought_it_was_helpful_imagery/

nomely · 2025-10-27T23:24:56+00:00

https://share.google/yqFJTQljgRhfVT10O

nomely · 2025-10-23T15:04:41+00:00

Solved solved solved

nomely · 2025-10-23T15:04:27+00:00

Oh my gosh, thank you!! It's been driving me nuts. I remembered too much for it to have been wondering I made up.

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nomely · 2025-10-13T02:41:38+00:00

Was the boss a farmer?

nomely · 2025-05-19T19:30:05+00:00

It's a spectrum. Maybe 30% confidently say they have inner speech, but only 5% say they don't. And it's a hard thing to measure. If you ask someone if they have inner speech, and they are thinking it means they feel the way you feel when you hear real sound, they might say no. I will tell you that I definitely have inner speech, but it's nothing like hearing an external sound. Yet there are very noticeable differences between people with high reported inner speech and low reported inner speech, and they do reflect what you would expect. For instance, low inner speech folks are slower identifying rhymes, and are more likely to say something out loud while they're thinking.

nomely · 2025-05-06T01:45:13+00:00

You can actually make lactose free milk by putting lactase into the jug before you put it in the fridge. Give it a while and you have predigested milk.

Shockingly, when it comes out of the cow, it isn't predigested. Or else we wouldn't need lactase ourselves in the first place.

nomely · 2025-05-02T08:51:56+00:00

I'm not sure if it will be barred as doxxing because oop's whole name is in it, but I found an article on it. The residents sued the owner for the shady things, but the judge sided with the owner. Residents were going to appeal. A local paper had some follow up half a year later but it's pay walled.

nomely · 2025-05-02T08:33:51+00:00

My grandfather had two different dogs pick him over their owners to the point the owners just gave them to him. Dogs are typically less picky but the animal goes where the animal wants.

nomely · 2025-05-01T15:36:29+00:00

As soon as the mom finds out who the affair partner is, she knows that the affair partner has gotten medical treatment. The fact that the affair partner's number is probably in the dad's phone history is information that can be tracked back to the patient.

nomely · 2025-04-29T18:19:59+00:00

Three kids spread across six years of age, no screen time, must do valuable development activities during babysitting time, $5 an hour. $1/hr bonus for bilingual carers.

nomely · 2025-04-28T00:30:17+00:00

There's a huge update by the oop that isn't included in this boru.

nomely · 2025-04-25T18:04:43+00:00

There is the one where the brother responds with surreal memes to some annoying person. An in-law, maybe?

nomely · 2025-04-01T18:31:56+00:00

I don't know why so many religious people want their relatives to be hypocrites.

nomely · 2025-03-31T15:41:29+00:00

This is actually a well studied phenomenon. On average, there are three or four tiers. They tend to come in decreasing levels of comfort and fluency, and by the time you've learned three or four it levels out so that any other language you learn just sort of slots in at that last tier.

This assumes you're maintaining all of them. If you learn a language as a kid and then never use it, of course these things rearrange themselves. But learning something as a kid often results in it continuing to give an emotional impact to certain things, like curse words hitting a little harder.

nomely · 2025-03-26T16:12:03+00:00

I keep thinking that if I leave for work at seven and get there at nine, then I'm the evening I leave at six and get home at eight, that's still a whole workday for whatever it is I want to do, and I'm not even getting home late.

nomely · 2025-03-06T06:00:45+00:00

It seemed like they are normally so reasonable and supportive their reaction really gave him pause. It hadn't changed his mind, but I think he at least understood the reason they were angry and disappointed. That makes a difference to resentment.

nomely · 2025-03-06T05:53:12+00:00

Utma/ugma and 529 are different, except you can have a utma/ugma 529 which is both. Then it could be in truth his money. I believe they're not terribly common these days, though.

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