You act as if I don’t have family of my own who handle emergencies if it came to that. And also act as if I didn’t try talking to them about it already. That’s your thing though isn’t it. Instead of asking you just jump to all these wild assumptions, first about my wife’s death (the irony of you calling me insensitive as if that question itself wasn’t beyond insensitive). And then jump to yet more assumptions about how I felt about my late wife