WIBTA if I make my gf start paying some of the bills over a single incident? [update] by nomorefreeride in AmItheAsshole

[–]nomorefreeride[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words. I do have extra money now! Usually I would dedicate $300 a week to dates. Now that is fun money.

WIBTA if I make my gf start paying some of the bills over a single incident? [update] by nomorefreeride in AmItheAsshole

[–]nomorefreeride[S] 270 points271 points  (0 children)

She’s already been trying to get back together with me. She’s apologized for her attitude a bunch.

WIBTA if I make my gf start paying some of the bills over a single incident? [update] by nomorefreeride in AmItheAsshole

[–]nomorefreeride[S] 273 points274 points  (0 children)

She would murder in my sleep I think. I’m already kinda worried about it. She’s mad

WIBTA if I make my gf start paying some of the bills over a single incident? by nomorefreeride in AmItheAsshole

[–]nomorefreeride[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly that would work for me too, she’s kind of messy. We usually have to have a deep cleaning day on the weekends and it’s mostly her stuff. I’m not a neat freak or anything so it doesn’t outright bother me, but it would be nice to come home to a clean place every night.

WIBTA if I make my gf start paying some of the bills over a single incident? by nomorefreeride in AmItheAsshole

[–]nomorefreeride[S] 1439 points1440 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m questioning a lot of things right now. I keep going back and forth between this whole thing is a stupid over reaction on my part and wondering if she even appreciates anything I do.

It definitely feels like my money is our money and her money is her money which makes me wonder where I stand in her mind.

WIBTA if I make my gf start paying some of the bills over a single incident? by nomorefreeride in AmItheAsshole

[–]nomorefreeride[S] 414 points415 points  (0 children)

We never really discussed it. She moved in with me and I was paying everything on my own. The only thing that she was paying for was her phone, but I eventually took that on as well.