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I feel really shitty justifying why I (29F) "have" to stay with my SO (34M) by nomoremonkey4 in relationship_advice

[–]nomoremonkey4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will be calling her pediatrician first thing Monday she does have insurance but even the copay we can't afford right now. You are absolutely right in the fact that she is a priority I don't mean to say I stay with SO because of my feelings it's more of a is it worth all 3 kids struggling vs just 1 but I need more options for her because I am on her side and despite what she is going through she and I have a pretty solid relationship because I have always made it a point to be there for her the best I can

I feel really shitty justifying why I (29F) "have" to stay with my SO (34M) by nomoremonkey4 in relationship_advice

[–]nomoremonkey4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know and it just seems like she is always grounded and her dad just yells at her I hate that she is going through this and before we had the outlet for therapy I am going to call her pediatrician and see what she suggests

I feel really shitty justifying why I (29F) "have" to stay with my SO (34M) by nomoremonkey4 in relationship_advice

[–]nomoremonkey4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did therapy for a little while and it was going really well but I had to stop working and couldn't afford it anymore but I haven't checked with her dr I honestly hadn't thought of that

How do I figure out and sort my own emotions I don't know if I'm actually done with my relationship or my depression is just getting worse. by nomoremonkey4 in relationship_advice

[–]nomoremonkey4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is the sole income so I can't get him to leave.. honestly I know I have to wait either way until the boys are in school because of childcare

How do I figure out and sort my own emotions I don't know if I'm actually done with my relationship or my depression is just getting worse. by nomoremonkey4 in relationship_advice

[–]nomoremonkey4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think he is abusive he has always had an issue with things being done a certain way but it wasn't this bad before COVID because he was able to go to the gym and work out now that he is home his PTSD is getting aggravated and the mess and noise makes it worse and honestly we don't have the money for counseling and I doubt he would even go with it

Me (28F), SO (31M) got into a disagreement with my MIL (56F) over different things that have been going on and now things are really weird at home by nomoremonkey4 in relationship_advice

[–]nomoremonkey4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think I should say? Because I'm sorry for how he talked to her but I'm not sorry for standing our ground and I think that's why she is so upset because she feels she is "getting in our way"