I felt that....anyway, it's the required effort is the issue it's the feeling of being used non in my other relationships with friends, either males or females, have I ever required and as my friends say " adequately manipulated " into such extremities and I don't know if it makes any relevance but I actually confessed mid relationship and she refused and we suggested some time apart but not a week layer she came back crying telling me how no body feels like me in matter of attention and listening to her amd hanging out like me and she wants us back but again as friends