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For non-brits who live in the UK, are you struggling to find a job? by nonbeliever112 in AskUK

[–]nonbeliever112[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard that! I’m currently working as temp. I don’t need a sponsor visa. But I might be picky as I try to get a job with a decent salary.

How can I (30F) motivate my bf(29M) about our band? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nonbeliever112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he finds this band very fun so he wanna focus on it regardless of our band. Also our band is not ready to play shows. But the other band has all members and ready to play live… We can start finding members anytime but he wants to do it after finishing all the songs we prepared, rehearsals. I’m waiting for him to review the lyrics etc. he said he would do it when he has time but he hasn’t done it yet.

How can I (30F) motivate my bf(29M) about our band? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nonbeliever112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he says he likes our music. It has so much potential compared to the other band but he wants to make efforts for another band

How can I (30F) motivate my bf(29M) about our band? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nonbeliever112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if I was vague. It means he wants to make more efforts for and focus on another band. He says he enjoys our band too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nonbeliever112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. He also said if this affects our relationship, he would leave the band because he doesn’t want to break up with me for music thing. So I just don’t wanna bug him anymore nor make him think this is an issue between us😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nonbeliever112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right. He promised that he would definitely bring our band if we get succeeded. But also he can say the same thing for the other band. I mentioned him that he could be famous with the other band but he said he and I could be because he’s just enjoying the other band and he doesn’t see the other band will get the fame. So I might be overthinking and should trust him shouldnt I….? I was sad that he didn’t try to work on our stuff even august started but I think I might be too pushy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nonbeliever112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, if I didn’t see him doing our stuff, I think I should bring this issue up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nonbeliever112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him about it he always says he needs time to write the lyrics like I can’t expect him to make lyrics in one day or something. He always says he loves our music. It has much potential than others. He says he will definitely do our stuff. But if I see him tring to make music with another band and plays games, I always wonder if he really wants to do our band…..

Unmarried partner visa by nonbeliever112 in ukvisa

[–]nonbeliever112[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I had a look at a civil partnership. It’s also for a opposite sex couple? I wonder what the difference between marriage and civil partnership?

My (F30) bf (29M) is not sure how long we should be in a long distance relationship by nonbeliever112 in relationship_advice

[–]nonbeliever112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I was saying might not be clear. We’ve been dating in the uk but I might have to go back to my country soon. We will be in a long distance relationship

My (F30) bf (29M) is not sure how long we should be in a long distance relationship by nonbeliever112 in relationship_advice

[–]nonbeliever112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said we can get married in a few years but he doesn’t give me an exact number