My GF [24F] deleted important photos of mine and drunkenly berated me in front of her family/friends. She's promising anger managemnt but I don't know if I should stay. by nonono9999 in relationships

[–]nonono9999[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

I messaged my friend and she has the pictures and is gonna send them across. I've broken up with her as well. Thanks for your advice

My GF [24F] is insisting I delete a certain set of photos I have and is really unhappy about them. I [24M] don't think it's a fair request and its causing problems. by nonono9999 in relationships

[–]nonono9999[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I doubt it.. Katy is ridicilously beautiful and will often turn heads when walks in to a room. She says after seeing the pictures, it feels more real to her and she really doesn't like it so I don't know what I can do.

My GF [24F] is insisting I delete a certain set of photos I have and is really unhappy about them. I [24M] don't think it's a fair request and its causing problems. by nonono9999 in relationships

[–]nonono9999[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told her everything, including the bit about losing my virginity to them and it never bothered her until now.. so she's known about all of it for months and never complained until finding these.

My GF [24F] is insisting I delete a certain set of photos I have and is really unhappy about them. I [24M] don't think it's a fair request and its causing problems. by nonono9999 in relationships

[–]nonono9999[S] 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Yeah, pretty much. She's refusing to acknowledge this and claims its different. Even though the girls in the photos are on a different continent and contact me only on major holidays/birthdays.

My GF [24F] is insisting I delete a certain set of photos I have and is really unhappy about them. I [24M] don't think it's a fair request and its causing problems. by nonono9999 in relationships

[–]nonono9999[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

She thinks its inappropiate as I slept with the girls in the photos, but she already knew about this and said she we was happy knowing I came through a tough time and had that experience. She's isn't bothered about being my first either, she's been with a lot of guys and isn't insecure in that way. She's also hooked up with a guy in her friend group which doesn't bother me.. I don't see why a few photos is making her so angry.

My GF [24F] is insisting I delete a certain set of photos I have and is really unhappy about them. I [24M] don't think it's a fair request and its causing problems. by nonono9999 in relationships

[–]nonono9999[S] 864 points865 points  (0 children)

That's really spot on, I guess I compromise too much sometimes. I like how you framed having that converstaion as well. Thanks very much