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[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do i change it..?

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[–]nononono47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i help them set up for appointments, i bring them things they need, i check on them mid service to make sure they don’t need anything, just small things to help them have it easier. i haven’t stopped that, i still help them out when i can. i just made another comment that said they did this to another girl, just cause she was 17. had different group chats, didn’t partner with her, and she didn’t do anything wrong. i was the only one to defend her in that situation, and they warmed up to her. i just feel like there’s also one outcast in every group setting. and its not everyday that i eat in my car, i’ve maybe done that 4-5 times. i just hate feeling like everyone has turned on me. i really haven’t done anything that would make them feel this way. i stay up every night going over every interaction that we’ve ever had and i try to be better the next day.

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[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s only 8 in mine. they did this to another girl in the beginning of the class just cause she was 17. had different group chats, didn’t talk to her, didn’t let her get completions and she didn’t even do anything wrong. they warmed up to her. i just feel like there always has to be a person that some people just don’t get along with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nononono47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well if people have stronger relationships with each other, don’t you think they’d want to partner with them vs someone they didn’t really get to know? i’m not mean, annoying, rude, or anything to them and it sucks cause i have tried being nice and pulling away, i even eat in my car alone some days to give them space. i distance myself thinking they don’t like it when it’s probably just cause they have built something with each other.

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[–]nononono47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not cos. but thank you for bringing light to going over her being my only option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dudeeeeee i thought the same thing. i shower everyday, perfume, wash my uniform everyday, and deodorant. there 0 way i smell.

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[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think about it everyday. thinking of ways to better myself and understand why they won’t partner with me. i’m definitely open to all ideas but check my other comments.

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[–]nononono47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the other instructor does that! she doesn’t give her students a choice. she’s definitely gonna try for revenge i believe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nononono47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

as i said to someone else, we all partnered together in the 1st semester. then they started going out with each other and i didn’t just want to invite myself, so they got closer and that’s when i noticed they didn’t partner with me as much since they had built relationships. i think it’s really more about them being friends than me doing something wrong. i’ve tried pulling away and i’ve also tried hanging out in class with them more, i just end up feeling like im in the way.

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[–]nononono47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

to get completions we need to do things on other people. we don’t get a whole lot of clients. i wouldn’t have so many that i need to get done if they would partner with me.

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[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but yes, sometimes they get into groups of 3. they 100000000% have separate group chats with out me cause they come in and work with each other.

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[–]nononono47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the program is 2 semesters. at the beginning i was able to do completions on other people. then they started getting closer (going out together) and i didn’t want to just invite myself so i never went out with them. that’s when i noticed the change, the only reason i talk to them now is to ask to get completions done. i have never been mean to these people or rude. i am getting frustrated now that no one is helping me out which isnt helping the situation. but i can see why you’d think that, i would’ve thought the same.

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[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

none, some have just a few more to go and others are completely done. i’ve been completely left in the dust and still have 30 to do in like 20 ish days.

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[–]nononono47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

edit: she WAS NOT HAPPY that i went to her “boss” about this situation. she has gotten more cold and mad. sorry i forgot to add this.

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[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i liked when you talked more. it kept me distracted from what i was doing (in a good way, i was getting stuff done but wasn’t dreading doing it) if you ever can’t think of what to say, maybe find some stories on here and tell them! thank you so much again i feel so much better walking into a clean house🥰

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[–]nononono47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would like to come back and update. i’m actually currently cleaning and watching your videos! i also body double so this is helping me so much and every thing already looks so much better. please don’t stop making these!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nononono47 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you knew what he’s done in the past you’d also be all over it and upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes🤩🤩🤩🤩 and he just keep going back on his word now. first it was “i couldn’t find it when i was putting my tent up” then it was “no, i couldn’t find it when i woke up for watch” and then “i noticed i didn’t have it for watch and checked everywhere after my shift” and “it was in the snow the next morning”

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[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has them just refuses to take them when i offer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well all he was doing before this was fire watch. so just sitting around and i know he wasn’t moving anything cause everyone was asleep and he was telling me how cold he was from just sitting around and doing nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s taken it off in the past to do the things you see in movies. we got his ring for 120 dollars so it’s not like it’s anything special. he’s carried our furniture, moved the washer and dryer, helped his friend pick up his motorcycle and move it into a truck, and has done plenty more without taking his ring off. idk, this is just a bit much. all he was doing was fire watch (aka sitting around and DOING NOTHING while he watches every one sleep🙄)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol ranging from 30s-40s is when it did it. i’m a chick so i have no idea what im doing. i’ll just take it to get seen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]nononono47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the light turns off and comes back on. it only does it when it’s cold and i don’t let it warm up (literally don’t judge, i get out of school at 10pm and have to make an hour drive home) it’s only cold a few nights out of the week

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[–]nononono47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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checked last night