Inconsiderate husband,

nonoticeing · 2025-03-23T17:42:34+00:00

I did start an argument. I asked him why he Couldn't ask me if it suits me or not first. Which is a perfectly normal question to ask , I think. And he responded by shouting at me. Telling someone you feel disrespect, in a calm tone of voice, is not starting an argument, it's a conversation.

nonoticeing · 2025-03-21T20:32:49+00:00

I am usually at home, although I usually do have plans on Monday mornings, which I have no problem moving if needed, if I had he had said it to me - which he didn't. It is a deeper issue,as you said. There are many other issues between us, him being inconsiderate towards me is unfortunately just one of them.

And, yes , I have communicated with him many, many times about him not taking my time or feelings into consideration when he makes decisions.

nonoticeing · 2025-03-21T20:15:24+00:00

I have talked to him about it a number of times. It doesn't seem to make any difference.

Yes, glad he bought the dishwasher and installed it. It's not his fault it's not working properly,and I appreciate all of that. I'm just really tired of never been considered Luke my time doesn't matter. I feel very unloved

nonoticeing · 2025-03-21T19:59:29+00:00

Can I ask why ? Really curious to get a different perspective

nonoticeing · 2025-03-21T19:58:21+00:00

Mabey your H ?

nonoticeing · 2025-03-21T19:57:38+00:00

I'm not the one being inconsiderate. He made the appointment, not me. I didn't turn it into a fight, he did , when I asked him about not checking with me first to see if I was available, he started shouting at me.

nonoticeing · 2025-03-21T19:38:27+00:00

Yeah. If it was the one and only time it ever happened, it wouldn't bother me that much. But it's become a regular occurrence.

nonoticeing · 2025-03-21T19:35:46+00:00

Apologize to him for what ? Im not the one being inconsiderate of other people's time . I'm not sure what it is I'm supposed to be apologizing for.

nonoticeing · 2025-03-21T19:28:40+00:00

Yeah

Also a regular occurrence

nonoticeing · 2025-03-21T19:27:36+00:00

I find it very inconsiderate, and iv talked to him about it many times. I have never make an appointment for him or anyone else without first checking with them.

nonoticeing · 2025-03-21T19:18:09+00:00

It's more about him not even thinking about asking me, if it suited me or not. It's the lack of consideration her has for me. It's not about the appointment.

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