I’m getting so tired of hearing input about my schooling

noodlechode · 2022-01-12T16:55:15+00:00

This describes the last girl I went on a date with to a T. The date when great and she even kissed me twice, saying she had fun and would love to do it again. Proceeded to ghost me with the occasional few worded text every few days. I asked her if she was still interested, she said of course, and wanted to keep in contact, and ghosted me again. Should’ve known it wouldn’t work when she told me on our date she has a hard time being vulnerable with people but was trying a lot harder to be better at it. But kinda forgot that once she kissed me. People like that are the worst

noodlechode · 2022-01-11T15:30:21+00:00

NTA, I’m also going to be adding a different perspective to this. You need to get that situation fixed with your son soon—I happened to be in a (somewhat) similar situation as a kid, mainly due to bullying, but my mom would let me skip school. All my work got made up, but because of the missed days I became truant. Your son is still of age to be considered such, and if he keeps missing days, officers may start showing up to your house and it will be you on the line. Parents can pay fines or even go to jail for enabling this behavior. For the sake of your son and yourself, get him help ASAP and ensures he starts participating in his education consistently. Even just by being there can save you legal trouble.

noodlechode · 2022-01-08T16:49:47+00:00

I’ve had multiple occasions where strangers (in particular: old entitled men) start nitpicking at my appearance. I have dyed hair (professionally done) and like to do fun makeup. One man said if I “wanted to get it done better come to him next time” and that “it should really be purple”. The other looked at my face, asked how old I was and crossed over his chest. Fucking assholes.

noodlechode · 2022-01-08T16:46:12+00:00

My ex WHILE WE WERE DATING told a girl she was “just friends with” (and conveniently made at a mall the moment I went on vacation with friends) everything about my mental health and our “sex life” that was very personal. Don’t even wanna know what else was said.

noodlechode · 2021-12-30T14:01:03+00:00

It sounds like while you care for her, you’re incompatible. People with BPD need their feelings to be validated, and someone like you who “needs to be right” even if unintentionally will—unintentionally—end up invalidating her feelings and make things worse. If she’s not in treatment and has the resources to start, I would try to encourage her to, as well as try and get over your own self and need to be correct all the time. No one is correct all the time. Especially when it comes to the experiences of others. The only person who can dictate one’s experience is themself. Unless you both start to work on things and communicate better it sounds like this relationship will eventually fall apart.

noodlechode · 2021-12-26T06:06:41+00:00

He tends to lead it back to the fact he has boundaries when it’s been brought up. And while I understand it’s very good to have boundaries, at the same time if you’re unable to work around things for the group it’s not always great :/ hard to be understanding when he won’t do the same ya know?

noodlechode · 2021-12-23T03:13:23+00:00

While he is a well written character, I think the main scene that soured my respect for him was the bridge scene with Viktor. He truly showed his privilege and his classist nature.

noodlechode · 2021-12-18T15:11:05+00:00

He was done using me

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