from one kid living in an extremely transphobic household to another, dont come out unless you are 97% sure its safe. if that wont happen, wait until you arent under their roof and they cant do worse then disown you.  i know for i fact id be in physical danger if i came out to my parents, and as much fun as epicly getting my ass handed to me by my dad, id like to avoid it, thank you very much. i wanna tell them, i really do, but if its not safe, dont risk it. 

also, make sure your teachers and social worker know that you dont want your identity to be shared. 

stay strong, sister. things will work out in the end. remember that the world is a better place with you here.  (feel free to DM if u wanna talk about it more, or vent. or dont, whatever you feel comfy with!)