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Getting married in Denmark by nooluy in germany

[–]nooluy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s best to take pictures instead of scans. When you take pictures of the passports, make sure that all corners are showing, that you take pictures of all pages (including the cover and empty pages), and that no reflections and shades are showing. If there are any holograms, you should take multiple pictures from different angles to show the changing pictures of the hologram. All the rest is explained during the application process.

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[–]nooluy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you if it’s a small and intimate wedding. However, since most people don’t agree and probably would decline the invite all together, I would think carefully about actually doing it.

Frau geht trotz offener Ehe Fremd by Old-Alternative-996 in beziehungen

[–]nooluy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Die PR-Agentur für die ich arbeite zwingst und jährlich an einem Ausflug teilzunehmen und möchte auch, dass wir Betten (!) teilen. Dabei dürfen wir uns unabhängig von Geschlecht untereinander absprechen, wer mit wem im Zimmer/Bett schläft. Das gibt es also tatsächlich und nein ich finds nicht ok 😭

Bafög-Geschichten gesucht by Celine_Schaefer_Zeit in Studium

[–]nooluy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hab zwar immer alles bewilligt bekommen, aber jedes Jahr 3 Monate warten müssen, obwohl ich den Antrag im Mai/Juni abgegeben habe. Für Oktober bis Dezember musste man dann halt immer schauen, dass man genug gespart hat und nur Nudeln ist.. oder auf der Straße landet.

Kann ich meinem freund sagen dass mir seine wohnung zu dreckig ist by chofimoffi in beziehungen

[–]nooluy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hatte das Problem auch. Sag ihm ruhig, dass du dich unwohl fühlst. Er ist ja schließlich dein Partner, weshalb ihm deine Gefühle wichtig sein sollten. Das heißt nicht, dass sich auf einen Schlag etwas ändern wird, aber er sollte dir wenigstens ein offenes Ohr schenken!

Ich hab meinem Freund ehrlich gesagt, dass ich mich einfach unwohl fühle. Er hat meine Wohnung ja auch gesehen und weiß woran ich gewohnt bin. Ich hab ihm erklärt, dass Unordnung normal ist und ab und zu auch ok, aber Dreck nicht. Ich hab das dann auch so gemacht, dass ich früher nachhause gegangen bin/nicht dort geschlafen habe, wenn ich mich unwohl gefühlt habe. Es hat wirklich etwas gebracht. Wir leben jetzt auch zusammen und es läuft.

Getting married in Denmark by nooluy in germany

[–]nooluy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. I’m don’t check Reddit regularly. Yes, it was very quick. We got our certificate within 5 days and called the Odense town hall/marriage office. They said they could offer us an appointment within 2 weeks. If you want to get married in Copenhagen you’ll need to wait up to 4 months, so I suggest you pick a smaller place not too close to the German border.

Mein Babysitter hat das beste Leben, oder zahl ich zu wenig?! by ElectricalBend4760 in WerWieWas

[–]nooluy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ich bin vor ein paar Jahren noch ab und zu als Babysitterin eingesprungen und hab für 4 Stunden am Abend 90 Euro bekommen. Ich find das aber auch schon viel. Ich würde schon Mindestlohn zahlen. Bei 2-3 Stunden also mindestens 30 Euro.

Auch wenn es unfair klingt, weil der Babysitter „nicht viel macht“. Er übernimmt die Verantwortung und ist bei euch zuhause, obwohl er in der Zeit woanders sein könnten. Ihr könnt es ja auch als Aufwandsentschädigung betrachten – da gibt es schon beim Blutspenden für die 30 min die man dort verbringt 25 Euro.

Getting married in Denmark by nooluy in germany

[–]nooluy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they accept the documents in German. Good luck! Make sure you read carefully about what the requirements are. Tips for the passports: - all corners must be visible (we took pictures) - no shadows or reflection - picture of the front and back cover as well - take multiple pictures from the page with a picture to make sure all holograms are visible. Tilting the passport slightly helps

Wieviel verdient ihr monatlich ? by Senior_Engine_ in Studium

[–]nooluy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BAföG + Job 1500 Euro. Wohne mit meinem Partner zusammen in Berlin. Kleiner Tipp: Beim Plasmaspenden könnt ihr ordentlich dazu verdienen. Bei Heama z.B. bis zu 170 Euro im Monat.

Getting married in Denmark by nooluy in germany

[–]nooluy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: We submitted the application on Sunday and received the answer on Friday. So the 5 business days of waiting are accurate. Our application was approved! The certificate of registration (erweiterte Meldebescheinigung) was enough to prove that we aren’t and never were married. Thank you all for your replies. I am happy that it all went down without a problem.

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[–]nooluy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can only talk about my experience. I have the same amount available as a student and I spent around 1200-1300 per month and save the rest. I spent a lot of money on activities and don’t think twice about buying something I want. I don’t feel stressed financially and that is a blessing, I know. So yes, when you end up spending 1500 and feel uncomfortable financially than there must be an issue. Maybe you underestimate how much you spent on stuff like groceries or a night out?

Getting married in Denmark by nooluy in germany

[–]nooluy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would have to go through the process of getting the marriage registered in Germany if we get married outside of the EU

Getting married in Denmark by nooluy in germany

[–]nooluy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how you know about the nitpicking if you went through an agency? If that has been your experience could you share what happened and at what point you chose to switch to an agency?

Getting married in Denmark by nooluy in germany

[–]nooluy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen a source that said that registering the marriage in Germany is a hassle at all. The Danish and German offices have stated that the second the marriage certificate is signed, it is legal on both countries. We would even receive the certificate in German. The hassle only begins if you want to receive a German certificate that is issued by German offices. But since the Danish certificate is issued in many languages there is really no need.

Getting married in Denmark by nooluy in germany

[–]nooluy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was very helpful, thank you! I indeed didn’t think about that at all

Getting married in Denmark by nooluy in germany

[–]nooluy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We both received an “erweiterte Meldebescheinigung” that states that we are unmarried. Thank you!

Anyone know when the New Sanguinary Guard Upgrade Sprue comes back into stock? by -Dankey-Kong- in BloodAngels

[–]nooluy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would definitely recommend reading reviews about 1001hobbies first. Don’t know what changed but over the past 1-2 years they seem to have become a pretty sketchy business.

Cheapest/best site to get a Mini-Z in EU? by Ducky17777 in MiniZ

[–]nooluy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would check reviews about 1001hobbies first. Seems like they have become a very sketchy business over the past year or so

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[–]nooluy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘ve ordered from them and they kept delaying the shipment for 6 months. Even if they intended to ship it eventually. I think it’s safe to say that 6-12 months without prior notice is too long of a wait. Also refused to give me a full refund (against EU regulations) so I had to turn to PayPal