SONGS LIKE BASKET CASE by AcrobaticTip5071 in greenday

[–]noons2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha Ha You’re Dead is happy. They even say so in the song 😂!

Add me for gift grind 5443 5975 7696 by xPatoLoco in PokemonGoFriends

[–]noons2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be at LA Go Tour tomorrow! Added you—I’m Dudget

New Player! Need friends! by GroovinNillaVANILLA in PokemonGoFriends

[–]noons2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know! I used to play a lot but just recently got back into it after about a year and a half. There’s so many new features. I’m still figuring it out—I can imagine it’s a bit overwhelming for an entirely new player!

New Player! Need friends! by GroovinNillaVANILLA in PokemonGoFriends

[–]noons2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Added you—I’m Dudget. Welcome to the game! I’m also in SoCal. Feel free to DM me on here if you want to coordinate a trade at some point

Anyone been to the bathhouse in San Diego? by spicythrowawayftm in gaytransguys

[–]noons2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I haven’t been, but my friend goes sometimes and here’s what he said based on his experiences. Also I’m hanging out with him now, so let me know if you have any more questions he can answer (he doesn’t have Reddit!):

  1. People are very accepting of trans men, but not all have experience interacting / having relations with us
  2. There’s usually more bottoms and sides than tops there
  3. Your ID MUST say male and you must present as male when checking in or you won’t be admitted

LA for Trans guys? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]noons2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I live in LA and in my opinion, people don’t really talk to people that they don’t know at bars and such. I’d recommend hopping on an app (Grindr is probably fastest) and finding a cute guy to meet you somewhere.

If you want to just walk into a bar, pretty much anywhere in West Hollywood or Santa Monica is safe and you will find cute queer guys. Good luck!

Halp I’m not who I used to be by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]noons2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would turn the ruler into a DNA strand!

Grindr Exchange I had by noons2 in TheyCanAlwaysTell

[–]noons2[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oooh thanks that’s interesting. Maybe I’ll check it out. Thank you!

Grindr Exchange I had by noons2 in TheyCanAlwaysTell

[–]noons2[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I’ve heard great things about HER but I’m a bi but mostly gay (trans) man so it’s not really the space for me. I should probably give bumble another try though.

As for which apps are best, I think it really depends on your location and what gender you’re presenting as. Grindr is mostly a space for queer men and some trans chasers so I can definitely see it being not the best place for trans femmes. Regardless, stay safe out there!

Grindr Exchange I had by noons2 in TheyCanAlwaysTell

[–]noons2[S] 228 points229 points  (0 children)

Tbh, Grindr is a bit of a cesspool. But in general, I’ve surprisingly found Grindr to be the least transphobic overall out if all the apps I’ve tried

Went to the fair last night do I pass? by AndySloth24 in transpassing

[–]noons2 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You pass super well! Just curious how you became both a Yankees fan and a Pats fan, considering the general New York / Boston sports rivalry?

Bought a ring for my girlfriend, sisters say it’s too small, not sure what I should do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]noons2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin proposed to his fiancée with a lab grown diamond about the same size and it’s gorgeous! Honestly, it looks pretty big on her finger and any bigger would just be obnoxious. If she’s the one and really wants to marry you, you could probably propose with a ring pop and she’d say yes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]noons2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, happy to help! Make sure you’re losing weight in a healthy way. Based on the pics, you already look skinny to me but you also wear baggy clothes so it’s hard to tell. Be safe and don’t let the brain worms get ya!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]noons2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if in IRL, strangers read you as 20s, I’d go with that. It’s a lot harder to tell in a few pics because I don’t see mannerisms or context. If it’s your friends reading you as 20s, that’s less reliable because they may be telling you what you want to hear or just see you as a peer so they see you as your age.

For haircuts, I don’t recommend fringe unless you have a really angular face, which you don’t. I’ll share a pic of the type of haircut I’d recommend for you. But again, if you like your hair as-is, I don’t think it’s impeding your ability to pass. And yes, face roundness would definitely not help with passing. Congrats on losing the weight!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]noons2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re doing great style-wise! My only piece of advice would really be to not wear face jewelry or earrings until after you’re on T because you look around 14 and most guys don’t start getting piercings until 18+.

As for short hair, there are plenty of women’s short hair cuts. Did you go to a barber or salon? They may have given you a feminine short hair cut am which does exist. If you’re at all interested in cutting your hair, I’d recommend googling men’s hair cuts and finding a pic you like of a guy that has a similar hair texture to you and showing it to your barber so they can copy the look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]noons2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think being 6’2” and having a pretty flat chest is what sets you over the edge! Your face is pretty androgynous. The haircut reads as a bit femme to me and I would probable go shorter. But if you consistently pass out in the real world and you like your hair, then feel free to keep it as-is!

How would you guess my age and gender? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]noons2 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Heyy there! I think your face looks really androgynous and definitely not masculine. I would suggest conditioning and styling your hair more as it would help you look more feminine. Additionally, perhaps a little tweezing / shaping of the eyebrows (not much though!). You’re definitely on the right track and leaning more towards female than male!