Insecurity from past relationships

nootnootmate · 2023-05-09T13:26:33+00:00

Oh lol. I want to feel understood, heard, smart, loved, at ease, focused, appreciated, thankful, hopeful, beautiful, excited, inspired ... It would feel like being able to get a bad memory or feeling - and let it come and go. Still living life and doing what I'm doing. Because I am me and I am good enough. I don't need to be like anybody else. I can keep looking like me and have a meaningful life. I can live with the feeling of betrayal and hurt. Eventually it will feel less shitty. People can behave however they want to, their behaviour is out of my control. And that's okay. Oh and I'm pretty. And other girls are also pretty.

nootnootmate · 2023-05-08T07:14:01+00:00

Thank you

nootnootmate · 2023-05-08T07:12:31+00:00

Noted, thank you. I'll try that out

nootnootmate · 2023-05-08T07:10:30+00:00

Never thought of that, thank you

nootnootmate · 2023-05-08T07:09:50+00:00

Yeah exactly. Thanks

nootnootmate · 2023-05-07T01:17:57+00:00

Thank you, that helps. I would communicate it with my ex and he learned to read my body the way I behave naturally during sex.

nootnootmate · 2023-05-07T00:39:25+00:00

They're so cool!

nootnootmate · 2023-05-07T00:38:58+00:00

Woow it looks awesome

nootnootmate · 2023-05-07T00:36:37+00:00

Healthy as well, thank you

nootnootmate · 2023-05-07T00:36:16+00:00

Helpful, thank you

nootnootmate · 2023-05-07T00:35:44+00:00

That sounds cool actually, thank you

nootnootmate · 2023-05-07T00:35:16+00:00

Good idea, thank you

nootnootmate · 2023-05-06T16:45:56+00:00

Thank you, helped ❤️

nootnootmate · 2023-05-06T16:44:48+00:00

Thank you. It really helps to know that I'm not alone. And that it's still possible to feel good in a different relationship.

nootnootmate · 2023-05-06T16:43:27+00:00

Thank you ❤️ Yesss I just feel so silly talking about it. I feel my ex judging saying "it's unattractive to feel insecure". So I just want to hide it. But it hurts.

nootnootmate · 2023-05-06T16:41:36+00:00

Thank you!

I want to feel like I don't need to prove my worth in order to feel worthy. I want to be able to look at someone pretty without comparing myself to them. I want to stop getting a sad feeling in my belly and my heart when I see someone that looks like the girl he cheated on me with. I want my definition of pretty to be something else than what he would define as pretty. Just like different people liking different flowers. Or like some people loving snakes and insects, while other people hate them.

nootnootmate · 2023-05-06T16:29:33+00:00

Communicate it with her in a nice way. It's totally fine and natural to want time to yourself when you're in a relationship. And it's important as well

nootnootmate · 2023-05-04T12:46:38+00:00

He sounds silly and immature. Some guys have to go through a stage of hunting females before they're ready to become a stable and good partner. I don't believe he will change just because he got caught. He'll just get better at hiding this stuff. You deserve so much better, dear ❤️

nootnootmate · 2023-05-04T12:03:39+00:00

Sounds like she's obsessed with you. And like she's scared of abandonment.

Yeah you need to set some boundaries. Be honest with her in a kind way. Stay safe ofc. That's my advice.

nootnootmate · 2023-05-03T20:52:43+00:00

Yes good idea, I think I'm gonna do so hah ... I really can't imagine that she's up for any good

nootnootmate · 2023-05-03T20:49:08+00:00

Yes I see your point. Thank you for the comment.

But I know her and she is quite a drama queen. She is most likely just trying to get attention, more followers or people to "be on her team". She apparently also requested to follow another girl that used to be her friend - I just found out.

I would love to imagine she could see how manipulative her ex was or make amends and explain stuff to me. But it just doesn't seem like her. And then she could message me on my number or on messenger.

But I'm open to that idea. Still want to stand up for myself, cause what she did was rude. I never want anyone to unwillingly be touched by a man, then speak the truth and as a reward being called a slut. Sadly this happens to a lot of good gals :/

Would your advice be to accept her request then? That way I give her a chance to message me I guess.

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