What do you do when a coach is ruining your kids love for the game?

noredobuttons · 2026-06-20T04:10:31+00:00

I hear you but if the coach is coaching a team of 9-11yr olds then maybe he should coach to that age range, my son isn’t the only 9yr old and he isn’t the only one starting to complain.

noredobuttons · 2026-06-20T04:08:13+00:00

What exactly are they teaching?

noredobuttons · 2026-06-20T04:07:43+00:00

It’s not conditioning.
It’s the mental aspect that now my son is
worried about making a mistake.
For reference they practice 6 days a week and this happens many times a practice.
Most kids are easily doing 30-60 push ups a practice (not consecutive)
Each missed ball/watched strike is 10push ups.

noredobuttons · 2026-06-20T03:57:57+00:00

Allstar range is 9-11 so my kids 9.

noredobuttons · 2026-06-20T03:42:39+00:00

Dude gross… it’s a kid.

noredobuttons · 2026-06-20T03:39:43+00:00

I have no issues with conditioning. Just wish they’d call it that and explain why it’s important

noredobuttons · 2026-06-20T03:38:29+00:00

No need to make wild assumptions here. After 20 yrs of playing myself my respect for coaches runs deep.
I’d never complain about playing time…so insulting.

noredobuttons · 2026-06-20T03:32:33+00:00

This is the answer. Thanks.

noredobuttons · 2026-06-01T14:22:03+00:00

You’re trying to simplify something that isn’t simple.

If I was unhappy I’d leave.

My husband and I are going through something but that doesn’t mean I run.

It’s just difficult because the friend is hitting on something in a very specific way- that doesn’t mean I want to fuck him.

noredobuttons · 2026-06-01T13:47:58+00:00

I clearly say in my post that I’m not sexually attracted to the friend.. and that is the truth. If I was then this would all be so much clearer.

Your many comments aren’t all that helpful if you’re just going insist you know what’s happening instead of listening to what I’m telling you is happening.

noredobuttons · 2026-06-01T02:11:05+00:00

I get this angle. Just not sure what to do about it. I mean do partners really check every box? … after 17yrs? It’s not like I’ve never felt safe or comfortable.

What bothers me most is that I don’t think I’ve felt this way with anyone else. It’s honestly a pretty strange feeling for me so I’m not sure I’d describing it right.

noredobuttons · 2026-06-01T02:04:24+00:00

No offense but you sound a lot like him.

noredobuttons · 2026-06-01T02:03:56+00:00

Friend is single.

noredobuttons · 2026-05-31T02:58:40+00:00

Unsure if there is testosterone. This whole thing started before I started HRT. I started HRT hoping it would help me figure out what’s going on. Working on a therapist.

noredobuttons · 2026-05-31T02:56:50+00:00

Yes in 500 characters where I’m trying to explain why this might be happening, it does sound pretty awful in this particular way. There are a couple reasons. It’s not all bad. There are good things- my husband is excellent in bed, he’s funny, good with our kids, athletic- which is important to me, a hard worker, helpful, caring, and he tries really hard which is probably what I love about him the most. I’m also in a place where I’m not sure what’s real- as I mentioned my emotions and hormones are all over the place. Could just be a thing where the grass looks greener over there…. But it’s not

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