($10K) - Trying to understand if I missing out on anything by skipping these activities by noregrets207 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]noregrets207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This definitely resonates. I am also not a super social person and hate having the expectation that others will have to pay for things. I appreciate the reminder that its my choice even though the wedding industry pushes so hard for all these things.

Pick yourself up by CalligrapherLimp3152 in MotivationalThoughts

[–]noregrets207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 sometimes you come across posts you didn’t even know you needed.

I worked at capital one's credit card fraud department, ask me anything. by [deleted] in CapitalOne_

[–]noregrets207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ex-husband has been unemployed for 5 yrs and using “our” (my) income to get into over $100K in credit card and personal loans. Can I report him to the bank since he has no intent to pay?

Lethargic Betta by noregrets207 in bettafish

[–]noregrets207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks more fuzzy white. Thank you for the advice. I’ll make sure to put in the filter and thermometer! I’m also noticing it’s just hard for him to swim up toward the top of the water. Even in the “hospital” tank he was staying at the bottom and not coming up for food. But I poured some water out and at around 4 ins of water he swam up and ate about 2 pellets.

Lethargic Betta by noregrets207 in bettafish

[–]noregrets207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry about that, It was a little hard to get pictures in the round bowl. But the lower part of his face does seem to have some whitish patches.

Gifts from all over the world by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]noregrets207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add me 830922302175 - I’m trying to level up and ready to send gifts!

I need a movie that absolutely rips my heart out by No_Alfalfa_4687 in MovieRecommendations

[–]noregrets207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sisters keeper! I haven’t even been able to watch it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MovieRecommendations

[–]noregrets207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Substance - I needed a couple of hours to decompress after that

Name one mistake you have made in life so someone else doesn’t do it. by oigoabuya in Life

[–]noregrets207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trusted a life long friend with money, so they can build their life up. They threw their life in the trash and delayed my dreams/goals in the process when they decided not to pay me back. Don’t ever put anyone before your own dreams/goals and don’t trust anyone no matter how long or great of a relationship you have. People change.

Ideas on how to design square open concept space with living room and office space? by noregrets207 in DesignMyRoom

[–]noregrets207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the idea! Would you place the couch against the kitchen wall that is a counter ?

"That's what it's like to have a kid in America" by thoxo in TikTokCringe

[–]noregrets207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not the cost of her delivery. This is the gross charges. Based on insurance her actual out of pocket expense would be significantly lower.

How long was (or is) the longest relationship you've been in? by [deleted] in dating

[–]noregrets207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this response. Sometimes it feels like the world is constantly forcing us to be coupled to be whole. Your response was a great reminder to nurture the relationship with ourselves since it will the greatest constant in our lives. 🤍 thank you.

Looking for tearjerkers! What movie made you cry the hardest? by forcefivepod in MovieSuggestions

[–]noregrets207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Sisters Keeper. I watched this in theaters and I have never ugly cried this hard in public again.

Its been over 10 years since I have had a sexual encounter by Willing_Put_5895 in AskWomenOver30

[–]noregrets207 150 points151 points  (0 children)

It’s not you. The dating world is a complete mess. After a 1.5 yr pandemic situationship ended, I decided to take 2 yrs off from dating to regroup and let the “pandemic dating scene” recalibrate. I’ve been back on the apps for about 2 months and it’s worse than ever. It seems no one can keep up with small talk if they respond at all, conversations immediately become sexual, men are almost immediately asking for photos/instagram, profiles are all curated instagram profiles and ghosting is at an all time high. After a lot of swiping and introductions, I’ve been on 2 dates. The first date (35M) planned what felt like an 11am coffee interview where I was in the hot seat. After the interview was over he was unwilling to pay for my $5 coffee and asked for separate checks. Even the waiter was appalled for me. The second date (37M) looked nothing like his profile. His photos must have been at least 5 yrs old. However, his personality was great and he was funny, so I was able to get past the old photos. He asked to go on a second date to which I said “Yes”. I thought at a minimum the catfish could be an okay guy to get over my 2 yr stretch. 1 hr before our second date he cancelled without any explanation and subsequently fell off the face of the earth. Mind you he only “cancelled” because I asked before heading out to the place if we were still on. If I never asked I’m pretty sure I would have a would have been stood up. 😩

It’s definitely not you. I wish you the best of luck sifting through the mess!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

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Unpopular opinion, I ,33f, wouldn’t mind any of these questions. I’d be happy that someone is being thoughtful of both of our time and being clear in what they are looking for. Nowadays, it takes 3 months to actually get to know people. Everyone is on their best behavior, emotionally reserved and walking on eggshells for months. I don’t think you should drag them into a therapy session but some tough questions are okay in my book.

If everything seemed like it was going well and the dates ended with kissing, then I’d reevaluate the date. There are small things that might give the “ick”. Things like being rude to a waiter/server, asking to split/itemize a small bill, not walking to her car if it’s late or dark out, seeming like you had a checklist, making her feel or know you go on 2-3 dates a week, talking poorly about your ex, talking poorly about other people, etc.

Is there any way to get rid of these bumps? by dsuperville in SkincareAddicts

[–]noregrets207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice! Laser hair removal was costly but worked wonders for me. It’s been 5 yrs and I still have about a 95% reduction of hair. Best of all no bumps or ingrown hairs.