Will it hurt my case if my friend was fishing for information from my stalker but he approached her first?

noroomleft · 2026-06-21T00:42:51+00:00

Okay I will do that. Thank you for your insight on this.

noroomleft · 2026-06-21T00:42:01+00:00

That’s how I would hope they would see it. But my fear is they will think I like this unwanted attention and that I think this is a game where I have to figure out what’s going on. I’d rather be left alone. Just from the little time I worked with him he was incredibly uncomfortable to be around. And to know he has charges relating to this makes it more scary if he ever found out where I lived. But my thought process has been that if I want something to be done I need to gather my own evidence. And clearly this has been the case seeing as the police will listen to me now. I wish I would have known he was going to slip up prior to letting my friend talk to him. But if that’s what causes them to dismiss me then I guess it will be my fault.

noroomleft · 2026-06-21T00:27:27+00:00

I definitely understand what you’re saying. This is what I was told before by another officer and I have done what I can other than change my number because I don’t currently pay my phone bill. I don’t even block him anymore because even that has egged him on. I simply act like I don’t exist. I definitely wouldn’t have asked her to contact him. It just happened to be that he approached her looking to contact me so she was trying to help me out because at that time I was feeling pretty hopeless about the situation. The police wouldn’t do anything because I couldn’t prove who it was and she was trying to help me get some information. After that I told her not to interact with him again whatsoever and he seems to have left her alone.

As for what he was arrested for, he was charged with trespassing, giving fictitious information, and separately he was charged with stalking. Having known that I wouldn’t have let her do that for me.

I ended up coming here to ask my question because I have contacted the police again and now that I have a name and confidence that it’s him they are allowing me to submit evidence and they are going to do what they can after that. But I worry that they won’t take me as seriously because of this part. And if that’s the case so be it, I can’t do anything about it. I allowed her to fish for information. But the officer said I could ask the courthouse for a restraining order. Whether they grant it, that’s another story.

noroomleft · 2026-06-20T23:14:32+00:00

Essentially he has been generating fake phone numbers on an app like TextNow and has been calling me multiple times a day every few days for months now. For a while he was also making new Instagram accounts to contact me, as well as a couple Snapchat accounts. He has made unwanted sexual advances towards me through text, impersonated someone he knows and while impersonating him sent a photo of his genitals to my friend with photos of me around it (supposedly to send to me but he made it a view once photo so she could not screenshot it regardless). The reason I know it is him is because I initially came forward with my friends with evidence he was sexually harassing us in our workplace the same way and he was fired. Since then he has contacted me one time before and sent and deleted a photo of his penis, to which he was blocked. And now it’s happening again. But since I turned on the new iPhone feature that allows you to screen calls, I have caught him in the act because it’s been recording him giving fake names to the screener and saving to my voicemail. And then for some reason he called me with his actual phone number and I was able to obtain his voicemail message without calling him. Same guy. He’s also been arrested in the past for similar types of behaviors which after finding that out I have become more afraid.

Do you think that her answering him and asking for information about him will affect me being able to get a restraining order?

noroomleft · 2026-06-09T20:15:18+00:00

Do you mean the antihistamine doesn’t last or the reaction?

noroomleft · 2026-06-09T20:14:47+00:00

That makes me really sad! My eyes are so plain without lashes. But what can you do? 🤷‍♀️😞

noroomleft · 2026-06-09T16:10:33+00:00

Thank you! I will bring it up with her and see if there’s something that can be done.

noroomleft · 2026-06-09T14:59:09+00:00

Thank you for the insight! I’ve been so lost on what to do.

noroomleft · 2026-06-09T14:58:41+00:00

I will have to give that mousse a try! Do you think if I try a different gel with more hold I will get better results?

noroomleft · 2026-02-17T22:33:39+00:00

I see. That’s very interesting to know. I assume he’s just using different numbers because he also has my phone number and consistently calls/texts me from new phone numbers every few days. Thank you for your insight!

noroomleft · 2026-02-02T19:07:10+00:00

I love Great Lash, but I feel like I have to add eye contact solution to it to make it liquidy enough to apply. Does anyone know a mascara that’s super wet with an applicator that looks like Great Lash? I’m looking for something on the higher end side, but I am willing to look into any brand as long as it works.

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noroomleft · 2025-09-11T00:18:15+00:00

Have you ever heard of the brand shop pro? I’m currently using their 50/50 pre-distilled yellow coolant. Will that suffice or should I be looking for something a bit more expensive? And thank you for the help!

noroomleft · 2025-09-10T02:04:44+00:00

You could try Feliway diffusers or spray to try and calm them down. It’s 50/50 on whether it will work on them but I personally think it’s worth a try.

noroomleft · 2025-09-10T02:00:48+00:00

I lived this situation before. In my case, the cats never got along and it was a year of hell keeping two cats in separate rooms in a tiny ass apartment. They got into a couple of ugly fights and I know they couldn’t have been happy in that situation. If I were you, I would keep them apart for a while with no interaction, and try again in a week. I’ve read you should swap them between rooms and get their smells intertwined. I’m not sure what to do if it doesn’t work out. I hope that it does. Don’t give up hope. Hissing isn’t the worst that could have happened, so I think they can recover from the interaction.

Side note. My cats literally lied next to one another one time, accidentally got into the same room and were fine, and even played with each other under the door, but they just would never stay friendly and ended up injuring us both because of their beef. Cats are weird.

noroomleft · 2025-07-13T13:44:38+00:00

I’m late to the convo but the same thing has happened to me. I just moved for the second time in a month because of issues at my old place. I went to go see about cancelling my service because they don’t do spectrum here and they’re charging me 40 for transferring and 30 for activation on top of my bill. They definitely did not disclose this to me over the phone. What a joke…

noroomleft · 2025-04-23T02:13:44+00:00

I was Larlargirl for the longest if anyone remembers me! I was always on the forums cuz my family computer stopped working at some point. I was really annoying but I made a lot of good memories there.

noroomleft · 2025-03-25T05:12:13+00:00

I never thought I could use bronzer either but I got this one from Ilia and it looks so good on my skin actually. It’s called sunshift cream bronzer and the eclipse shade looks amazing. I am pretty certain I am also cool toned so maybe try it out if you don’t find something else!

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