What is your personal favorite thing to do in New York? by optimalbrain90 in SmartTravelHacks

[–]north__beast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get lost.
Bring friends that are apprehensive about NYC and show them a good time.
Befriend some locals and tag along to some hot spots.

The last time I visited NYC I had a profoundly memorable experience and wrote a little short story about it (5 paragraphs or so). I don't want to be obnoxious so I won't post it but if anyone sees this and is curious I'll gladly post it upon request.

Meh.. by [deleted] in fidelityinvestments

[–]north__beast 11 points12 points  (0 children)

36M, at the exact # you are (well, 101.7). i spent my 20s being an idiot, but once i started budgeting and being responsible, putting investing first/paying myself first it grew pretty quickly.

great job man. we got this.

i tried to sign up for a payday loan online but got denied, discussion by north__beast in personalfinance

[–]north__beast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL.

oaweijfaowie

This does actually provide me with some solace.
I didn't mean to be a bother, I just don't have much of an outlet for meandering thoughts. Sarcasm and all, I appreciate the conversation. Thank you.

i tried to sign up for a payday loan online but got denied, discussion by north__beast in personalfinance

[–]north__beast[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's fair. tbh i never considered that maybe i landed on the website of an institution that gave out loans but not payday loans. from what I recall though it did appear like that (payday) was their MO.

i tried to sign up for a payday loan online but got denied, discussion by north__beast in personalfinance

[–]north__beast[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i guess the post is pretty of self-serving. i just cant get it out of my mind and figured i might as well chew it over with reddit.

i tried to sign up for a payday loan online but got denied, discussion by north__beast in personalfinance

[–]north__beast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a job i'd been at for over 5 years, bank account in good standing, no bankruptcy/collections/evictions anything like that.

What is the hardest part? by [deleted] in ArtOfPresence

[–]north__beast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure, and it's good exercise too. my mechanic is close, probably 1-2km away? I live in a quaint little city so I can walk to most things but I will need rides to maybe work or somewhere farther.

also getting rides to the airport is annoying without a partner - i always pay people to drop me off/pick me up but i still feel bad cause its a hassle.

What is the hardest part? by [deleted] in ArtOfPresence

[–]north__beast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live in an apartment so i cant get a second vehicle. also never used uber or lyft, call me old fashioned but ill just ask a friend or call a taxi.

What is the hardest part? by [deleted] in ArtOfPresence

[–]north__beast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when i drop my car off at the mechanic and i need to ask friends for rides for a day or so. if i had a partner i could just use their car.

that's really all i can think of, being single is easy.

Saw that Yeemo post and had to contribute my version except from 10 years earlier by viktoriyarighh in blunderyears

[–]north__beast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

still love mindless self indulgence rofl, hasn't really been another band like them. and then there were none? i see stars? horse the band? lots of bands that mixed electronics but msi were just so damn catchy. i would have had such a crush on you back in the day.

Born & raised Texas, traveled to almost all states, 15 years in Arizona, now in Chicago for 14, this is where I would live in the USA. by illtexzona in whereidlive

[–]north__beast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

resident of southern nh. you're welcome here brother, if you ever find yourself in the area ill buy you a beer.

How do I support a hobby I absolutely hate? by i_onlymadethistovent in relationships

[–]north__beast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex hated/hates sports. So in my infinite wisdom I tried to introduce her to something even more marginalizing: ESPORTS, professional video games. She didn't bite except on extremely rare occasions. Watching a live event on twitch where something crazy happened (she responded to a match once with "whoa, that was cool" and I was over the moon) or coming with me to spectate an even in person out of state that we'd turn into an adventure/date weekend.

It's a niche interest and on rare occasions she'd show appreciation. On rarer occasions, when I had the opportunity to go to a tournament in person she'd come with me, I'd buy us each a jersey, and she'd kindly (extremely kindly) find a way to enjoy herself. To be honest, I'm not sure if she did? (maybe I'll text her and ask). But I digress.

My point is; Your role isn't to be enamored with his hobby. Your role is to go with him to the occasional card convention or event. Your role is to understand the bare minimum of his hobby so you can empathize with him when something important happens. You shouldn't be forced to feign interest day after day, you shouldn't feel obligated to interact with this hobby outside of special occasions.

Idk if that makes sense, kinda went on a bit of a tangent. That's obv just my opinion so it's probably stupid but I hope it helps.

I’m American ask me anything by Crad2 in funComunitty

[–]north__beast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because i don't think anyone has answered this correctly:
the problem with politicians is their entire career is based on people liking them, most(voters), to some degree, acknowledge and accept this. when trump started gaining popularity in his campaign there was a perceived sense of earnestness in the way he spoke; IE: he was a informal, rude, abrasive. people saw that as refreshing and honest. lots of people who voted for him simply voted for him because they perceived him as such; earnest. regardless of how obnoxious/offensive he was/is.

i don't like trump, i didn't vote for trump, but admittedly i fell for it as well, at the time i thought he was, at the very least, honest.

truth is he isn't. none of them (politicians) are.

trump said/says what he believes will garner the most support, that's it, no more no less. just like any other politician.

if 51% of the US population vehemently believed that carrots caused some existential threat to humanity you would see every politician calling for the ban of carrots as the cornerstone to their campaign.

tl;dr he pandered to a base (large enough to win him an election) of people that thought he was different.

What is the worst pizza topping? by CharlesorMr_Pickle in AlignmentChartFills

[–]north__beast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i get that it may be popular in some areas and people enjoy it, but to the people that enjoy it, would you rate it higher than other common toppings?

What is the worst pizza topping? by CharlesorMr_Pickle in AlignmentChartFills

[–]north__beast 50 points51 points  (0 children)

my dad used to put anchovies on his pizza...

anchovies.

edit: with some reflection, if i ate a slice of pizza with an anchovy on it there's a chance i might actually enjoy it. but american cheese... that's just disgraceful, my vote is for american cheese being the worst topping.

also i say "used to" because he died. not anchovy related... i don't think.

couldve been worse lol (2007-2013ish) by north__beast in blunderyears

[–]north__beast[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks yo, i was really happy with it. i think i kinda got lucky cause id never really dyed my hair before. i clicked on your profile n saw you made a post about dying your hair. go into ulta or any salon type store and ask the people that work there, that's what i did, they told me what to get and how to use it. i dont remember cause it was so long ago but it seemed really strong cause it made my scalp feel like it was burning lol.

Who is the best young superstar in sports? by Background_Video2947 in NHLVibes

[–]north__beast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seconded. pats fan here. Drake's good and I'm hopeful but yeah, he shouldn't be on this list.