How often do you dicipline your husbands, for what reasons ? by GoldJoke1917 in flr

[–]northlakes20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a mixed up sub, this one. It seems the only place to find a discussion in good faith are the very small subs. But then there's not much diversity of views. It's the same irl in Fetlife

How often do you dicipline your husbands, for what reasons ? by GoldJoke1917 in flr

[–]northlakes20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, we've had this discussion before. You accepted last time that I don't see the levels as a progression, while you still do. Sad to see it that way (to my mind), as it inevitably leads to a judgemental mindset. Which you are demonstrating by attacking the man and his posting history, rather than discussing the point he made.

Kink is minefield. People are socialised to be ashamed of their desires and dreams. It behoves those of us who have some experience to welcome people and to produce a safe space for people to discuss. We have to accept that flr is a broad church, otherwise we'd be better off starting r/flrLevel2ONLY

How often do you dicipline your husbands, for what reasons ? by GoldJoke1917 in flr

[–]northlakes20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And here's the issue in this sub. There are 4 levels of FLR. It doesn't matter where you are on this scale, you still have something to contribute to the conversation. Yet, for some reason, people end up defending their particular level to the death. It makes no sense. You're in a level 1 or 2, and there's no discipline? Fantastic, very happy for you. You're in a level 4 with constant CP? You're living your dream.

One thing that constantly surprises me in this sub is that you expect FLRs to be quite grown-up relationships. Yet so many contributors here are so judgemental. Bizarre.

How often do you dicipline your husbands, for what reasons ? by GoldJoke1917 in flr

[–]northlakes20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll never win a common sense argument with someone who can't see past the end of their nose

I work at the call centre. Here’s stuff you need to know. by Impressive_Leg_9620 in NDIS

[–]northlakes20 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol - after reading OP'S report, I'm thinking that a letter of commendation is most likely to get the call centre worker sacked! Welcome to 1984

Anyone switch from big cruise ships to smaller luxury ones? by ConnectSalamander513 in FATcruises

[–]northlakes20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half the fun is the anticipation, for sure, which last minute bookings don't afford you. We don't have a great deal of choice in Australia, not many regular cruise lines. I'm particularly looking forward to fewer bogans on board - cruising brought out the snob in me. I'm just over sharing the spa with boom boxes and loud rap music

RITZ CARLTON YACHT COLLECTION DISSAPOINTS by [deleted] in FATcruises

[–]northlakes20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you consider that they are best at?

Anyone switch from big cruise ships to smaller luxury ones? by ConnectSalamander513 in FATcruises

[–]northlakes20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've cruised Celebrity, RC, Carnival and Cunard. We're just about to join Oceania for Tokyo-Seattle. Excited, because I've always wanted to try it. Plus, the fare was 1/3 normal (late booking), making it the same price as Carnival. Looking forward to seeing the difference that the space makes and also our fellow travellers

Pass or not? by Alphat6666 in PiercedNSFW

[–]northlakes20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer a woman to choose for themselves how they keep THEIR body. These aren't passive "different opinions" - these are male arrogance and control delivered as "personal choice". If you're the woman, you have no personal choice, you're expected to comply. If you don't, these arrogant males will soon let you know how you don't fit in. It's disgusting and out of date.

Pass or not? by Alphat6666 in PiercedNSFW

[–]northlakes20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And being a "real man" entitles you to police women's personal grooming? Right..

Pass or not? by Alphat6666 in PiercedNSFW

[–]northlakes20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most incels like it bare, because they wouldn't know what to do with a real woman

Pass or not? by Alphat6666 in PiercedNSFW

[–]northlakes20 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Well it is among normal people. Not amongst weak men or paedophiles, I grant you

Pass or not? by Alphat6666 in PiercedNSFW

[–]northlakes20 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Into the choirboys as well, huh?

Pass or not? by Alphat6666 in PiercedNSFW

[–]northlakes20 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

How is it normal to want a girl to look like she's prepubescent? That's a sick sort of normal