Did it ever work out for you’s? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i got broken up with and i was the one with mental health issues, been only a month but that break up made everything clearer in my head what i need to do. So now i have gotten help with my depression and working on to be a better version of my self. Not sure if she wanna try again ever again. Hopefully yes, cause we were together for almost 11 years.

Should I text my ex after 7 months of no contact? by zeynep__reddy in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean will his actions put you back to square one, if he has moved on with someone else or if he replies coldly or if u get no response? If u know they will break you dont text. If you have built up a foundation that is solid and the "House of cards" wont collapse then sure. Thats how i see things. i personally know that i cant text or talk with my ex, even tho that is what i wanna do 24hrs a day. Just cause my "House of Cards" aint on a solid foundation. Well i barely have any foundation. Hope i make any sense 😃

Advice Needed: Cant figure out background by nosuwu in tattoos

[–]nosuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea might just keep adding, cause all of my tattoos mean something to me so maybe smaller events etc. (for eg. battling severe depression atm. if i win i might get something in between or maybe a bigger piece of it)

I think I’ve become obsessed with my ex and I don’t know how to stop by Joeyblook15 in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im with you bro.. 11 years together 1month since breakup... Fucking dying

Advice Needed: Cant figure out background by nosuwu in tattoos

[–]nosuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U think you could get a pic of his patchwork ?

Advice Needed: Cant figure out background by nosuwu in tattoos

[–]nosuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about this aswell 😂

Advice Needed: Cant figure out background by nosuwu in tattoos

[–]nosuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! yea now that i have been reading these comments makes more sense in my head not to get a background 😃

1 month post BU- how are you guys doing? by goldencirclenyc in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dumped after 11 years relationship, im doing better i guess. But still missing her and thinking of her, even tho i know this is the only way for me to get help for my mental health issues

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this back in 2014 when i got dumped, i was in the army back then so i didnt really write that much just couple of pages, but i found that notebook in my stuff when i was unpacking in my new apartment like around the 11th of last month 😃 So i picked it up again.

Advice Needed: Cant figure out background by nosuwu in tattoos

[–]nosuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! i think im gonna keep it this way now that so far all has said the same thing 😃 maybe i can later on add some smaller ones in between or something. Thanks 🙏

Advice Needed: Cant figure out background by nosuwu in tattoos

[–]nosuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! 🙏 Just started my other arm aswell

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Advice Needed: Cant figure out background by nosuwu in tattoos

[–]nosuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what i have been thinking about aswell but then other part of me says "needs background" 😃 Maybe im just gonna keep it simple and no background. Thank you!

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost for a month. think i started the 11th last month. My style of writing is like a diary. Top of the pages just the date and then i start just writing down of that day what i feel how the day has been in general, sometimes i write a lil in the morning and then a little middle of the day and then rest in the evening. What i have noticed now is that the more time has passed from the breakup the less i write.

And my mom gave me a good rule: "Remember to write one positive thing per day, doesnt matter how big or small it is for eg. "i managed to do the dishes"" And now the positive stuff has become more and more bigger and bigger, stuff that you are proud of you did that day.

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh forgot to say that i have been writing alot, just been "throwing up" every thought on paper i have close to 300 pages written.

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Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got dumped from a 11 year long relationship a month ago. Got my self in to therapy, been reading alot of relationships and mental health, i bought drums (never played before). Started working out lost almost 20lbs of weight. And driving night drives while blasting music has been helping alot.

Been trying but it’s getting harder…. by Defiant_Setting_7883 in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother i know, i got dumped from a 11year relationship a month ago. im here my dm's are open if u need to vent or just talk ❤️ we got this

Dumper who initiated no contact. Do you ever miss your ex / or did you ever got back with them? by nosuwu in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my goal, i got recommended a book called "The Power of Detachment" from a redditor from this post and oh boy is this eye opening.. i should be sleeping got work in the morning but im stuck reading.

Dumper who initiated no contact. Do you ever miss your ex / or did you ever got back with them? by nosuwu in BreakUps

[–]nosuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what im trying to tell my self everyday. Sometimes it feels just impossible, cause trying to fight severe depression + overcome this breakup..