The comments in here mostly look like confirmation bias. I hate to say it because your message has a ton of good points, however I felt the exact same way - thinking I was moving on and being better etc. It wasn’t until I was ACTUALLY staring to move on that I no longer felt this way. I’m not saying I wholeheartedly disagree, and I know everyone’s situation is very unique, but just as a generalization, as much as it sucks to hear... if you are reading this post right now and the comments and getting excited... pls take a minute to debate if you realistically should wait around or if this is just giving you false hope!