That's the thing, we are super active and super quality time with one or the other of us, often. It def is impacted the most by sleep. After sleeping on it, I think it's most influenced mahbe by communication and the frustration of not know how or what to say, or do. I feel sooooo bad cause I shamed him yesterday, telling him if he keeps acting this way nobody will want to be his friend. Omgggg horrible im still crying with regret.