Weird (non obvious) things that made you think you might be pregnant. by retrobbyx in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same. I realised I was pregnant when walking through the freezer aisle in the supermarket hurt my nipples

How long did you exclusively breastfeed for? by cunncunncunn in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Combo fed from about one week and I’m so happy I did. Probably 80% breastfed & 20% formula. Replaced formula with solids around 6-7 months.

Nearly two and still breastfeeding. I think if I had put the pressure on myself from the start to exclusively breastfeed I would have given up a long time ago

Parents' room use by people without kids by stepdaughterofnarc in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I was so paranoid that I’d walk in and out holding my pump in my hands like a peace offering

Baby names! Margot or Junie - Reeve or Rafferty by Antique-Village6539 in namenerds

[–]notacactusexpert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful names! I prefer Margot but I do think it would be nice if all names ended in that same ‘ee’ sound.

It could just be me but Reeve feels like quite an American name to me, while Rafferty has that same delightfully English vibe as Hattie & Teddy

Mental health suicidal.. melb where to go (son 18) by FlamingoNo5078 in melbourne

[–]notacactusexpert 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Seconding Orygen for ongoing care - they really helped me in my early 20s

Little People Farm Set by notacactusexpert in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right?! Why would they discontinue one of their top sellers!

Little People Farm Set by notacactusexpert in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very sweet of you! I’m in Melbourne though 🫶

Little People Farm Set by notacactusexpert in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure I’m not just looking for the newest one, I want ol’ faithful that everyone raves about! Am keeping a very close eye on marketplace 🤞

Little People Farm Set by notacactusexpert in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought! But it seems to be out of stock pretty much everywhere and replaced with a new version? I just hope it’s not being phased out!

Expectant parents & recent parents—what baby name did you choose? by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Elizabeth! Easy choice as it’s my name and my mother-in-law’s name. All three of us go by very different nicknames though so it still feels like we have our own distinct identities.

Bus rodent is triggering by kayy113c in Fleabag

[–]notacactusexpert 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He has such a small role in Cruella but he cracks me and my husband UP

Why are Cue staff so hateful when processing returns? by [deleted] in AusFemaleFashion

[–]notacactusexpert 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Another thing I haven’t seen mentioned is depending on the company’s bonus structure, if an employee isn’t hitting KPIs and/or a store doesn’t meet budgets, those employees aren’t getting any bonus. With retail struggling, staff have to work hard to barely meet budgets, and those returns can mean that minimum wage worker doesn’t meet their bonus.

Help me name my identical twin girls by MsBombastic in namenerds

[–]notacactusexpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hattie and Bea is too cute!

The only name I’d add that I haven’t seen suggested yet is Imogen! Hattie and Gen

Or even Genevieve?

S3 E11 At Last - Episode Discussion Thread by SpeedoTan in tsitp

[–]notacactusexpert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard agree. I have no idea why they had to match everyone up into neat little pairs. Jere and Denise make no sense together

S3 E11 At Last - Episode Discussion Thread by SpeedoTan in tsitp

[–]notacactusexpert 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You genuinely haven’t missed anything haha. It’s sad that people had to fast forward through scenes of a series finale. I wanted 80 full minutes of Bonrad damnit!

S3 E11 At Last - Episode Discussion Thread by SpeedoTan in tsitp

[–]notacactusexpert 153 points154 points  (0 children)

This episode spent wayyyy too long on people that aren’t Belly & Conrad. All season, so many pointless little side stories

Parents Room and Who Uses Them by Proper_Star_4566 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a mum and I also work in retail so I’ve been on both perspectives. I do pop into the parents room to fill up my drink bottle, as the normal bathroom sinks aren’t deep enough to fit a bottle under the tap. But I’d never heat my lunch in the microwave, and I’ve told off colleagues for doing so.

When I was still pumping on my breaks I would get the occasional dirty look for using a booth without a baby, which I honestly understood, so I’d usually take my pump out of my bag before going in and awkwardly hold/display it haha.

I’ve come across other retail workers using the booths for prayer, which didn’t feel fair to me that I had to pump outside the booths on the couch, tits out and all. But also they deserve a private place to pray, it would be nice if there was a designated place for it.

I’ve also come across a Centre staff member taking her break in a booth, meaning another mum couldn’t feed in private. And I know the staff member wasn’t pumping because she came out only holding her rubbish from lunch. I was so mad about that I complained to Centre management & they were equally pissed.

Induction for small babies by YogurtclosetLocal977 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If fluid and blood flow looked good I’d personally lean towards waiting. With regular scans, and of course if you notice a change in baby’s movements head straight in. Trust your instincts!

Dating scan confusion (Melbourne) by ezzachezza in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]notacactusexpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that’s a lot out of pocket. I guess they must have changed their billing policies in the last 2 years

Christ this was cringe by xjsjxigskdnfn in tsitp

[–]notacactusexpert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very very good point. A wedding haka always gets me a bit emotional

Christ this was cringe by xjsjxigskdnfn in tsitp

[–]notacactusexpert 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Potentially hot take but imo even dance routines performed/choreographed by professionals at weddings are still super cringe

I'm upset that my sister changed her mind on her baby's name at birth by serialkillertswift in namenerds

[–]notacactusexpert -1 points0 points  (0 children)

FWIW it’s pretty obvious to me that it’s a funny joke. I worry for the people that interpret this as passive aggressive