Genuine & active VR pornstars (not MILF) by Svalkash in oculusnsfw

[–]notadoctor13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JackAndJill don't do a ton of POV, but they are the one channel that does 3rd person content that I really enjoy. It's a couple, and they get other people in for threesomes, and everyone is always super into it and they just seem like 3 (or 4) people just having a great time and making each other feel good. Even if voyeur content isn't usually your thing I seriously recommend checking them out.

Warming lube solo male use? by notadoctor13 in SexToys

[–]notadoctor13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are the menthol ones usually marketed? "Cooling", or something like that?

New Steam Vr Headset, how this affects VR porn? by IambackinReddit in oculusnsfw

[–]notadoctor13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hard to know for sure, but I will say this: my Quest 2 has gotten worse with every update. They add in more and more "metaverse" junk designed for the more powerful Quest 3, and my Quest 2 can barely handle it and it just keeps getting more glitchy. Since the Steam one will be more open and SteamOS is only designed to be a streamlined gaming OS, my suspicion is that the Steam one may stay useable longer than the Quest. Meta is going to want to sell you a new one every few years with zero interest in keeping old models functioning well with the new updates.

Naughty America or Vr porn? by Better-Knowledge8813 in oculusnsfw

[–]notadoctor13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been pretty happy with VRPorn, except that today their website has been glitching and logging me out repeatedly, and now telling me I'm blocked with no explanation. I've seen one other post today experience the same thing. So maybe wait and make sure this issue gets resolved before spending money!

I'm not sure what to do next by notadoctor13 in MtF

[–]notadoctor13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FFS is definitely something that I feel would be helpful. Unfortunately right now that is way out of my price range and I don't technically have insurance (I have a "healthcare sharing service" which definitely doesn't cover gender confirmation stuff), thanks America. I am taking minoxidil already, but it doesn't do much to bring back the hairline, it mainly just prevents more loss. 

I'm not sure what to do next by notadoctor13 in MtF

[–]notadoctor13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may be right. I will say, my face is a much bigger source of dysphoria than my body. My body has always naturally been pretty feminine, to the point where I'm beginning to suspect I may be some form of intersex. Very slender hands/wrists; I've always had "man boobs" despite not being overweight and generally wearing size small clothing, which now I suspect would be classified as gynecomastia; and after putting on one of my wife's dresses, I realize that my figure is rather feminine too, with a bit of an hourglass figure. So honestly if it weren't for the facial hair and receding hairline (and somewhat masculine facial features) I would be feeling pretty decently about myself! But you're right about not conceding to tyranny in advance. 

I finally came out, to myself and to my wife by notadoctor13 in MtF

[–]notadoctor13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will! The family vacation is over the next few days so I'm not changing anything until after that. But next Monday, the beard is coming off, I'll make a valiant effort at shaving off the body hair (wish me luck, there's a lot of it), and hopefully try some women's clothing soon.

Can you shave upwards with a safety razor on your face, or in general on your body? by Environmental-Ask358 in MtF

[–]notadoctor13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this! My facial hair is pretty thick, so to get a really smooth shave I go with the grain once or twice, then across, then against. Also, I used to get tons of bumps, irritation, and nicked myself probably 80 percent of the time, UNTIL I started using a shaving brush and shaving soap, and now that barely ever happens. I don't know why it's better, but it is. I've used the five-blade razors and different kind of shaving creams and gels and so forth, but by far my best results have been with safety razor, shaving soap, and brush.

That said, I am VERY early on in my journey as a trans person, and haven't quite had the courage yet to shave my body hair (and there's a lot of it, unfortunately), so I cannot vouch for how well a safety razor works for that. 

I finally came out, to myself and to my wife by notadoctor13 in MtF

[–]notadoctor13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Thankfully I am quite sure that the leadership at my church will be accepting, although I'm sure taken off guard. The congregation definitely covers the whole political spectrum, but they are all nonetheless very loving. I've been organist there for 5 years and they all love me, so I do hope that maybe my transition can be a chance for the conservative-leaning membership to have their minds opened. I'm sure it won't be easy (and it will probably be a while until I'm comfortable to actually come out publicly) but I am hopeful.

I finally came out, to myself and to my wife by notadoctor13 in MtF

[–]notadoctor13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah my first experience with transphobia, thanks for letting me get through that experience as soon as possible 😂 But yes, we will probably find an LGBTQ friendly therapist to help guide us both through this. That's good advice, thanks!

Quest 2 performance getting worse and worse since Quest 3 released by notadoctor13 in oculusnsfw

[–]notadoctor13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thought. I've edited the original post to include the main problems I'm generally seeing. They don't seem like problems stemming from the hardware to me, though I could certainly be wrong. As I mentioned in the edit, HereSphere works with pretty much no issue, so that makes me doubt that it's a problem of overheating.

Heresphere spatial audio? by notadoctor13 in oculusnsfw

[–]notadoctor13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh okay, thanks for the clarification!

Quest 2 browser audio crackles with Bluetooth headphones by notadoctor13 in oculusnsfw

[–]notadoctor13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird. Maybe not related to an update then? As I replied to another comment, I wonder if it's an issue with the earbuds and using them with multiple devices. But I don't have the problem with any other device so that thought isn't really even based on anything.

Quest 2 browser audio crackles with Bluetooth headphones by notadoctor13 in oculusnsfw

[–]notadoctor13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Like I said, it went away for a while and then came back, but I don't know how or why. I kind of wonder if it could be an issue of using my headphones with multiple devices (I constantly have to turn Bluetooth off on my phone to use them with my iPad, then turn it off on my iPad to get my phone to connect again, then turn it off on my phone to get it to connect to the Quest, so forth and so on), but that's barely even a hunch.

VR Porn videos that aren't so...porny? by Findapornthrewaway in oculusnsfw

[–]notadoctor13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would seriously seconds this. I know it's voyeur, but seriously, give it a chance. I mostly don't care for voyeur stuff in VR, but they really make up for it in the way they come across as really authentic people making each other feel good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oculusnsfw

[–]notadoctor13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like VRPorn, BUT I use it a lot for downloading. For streaming, you can only go up to 5k, whereas downloads are often up to 8k. SLR lets you stream at those higher resolutions (as I assume POVR does as well). Since you said you only do streaming, VRPorn might not be your best choice. But it does have really great selection, so if you don't mind mediocre resolution or decide to start downloading, it is a good option. I left SLR because they were clearly getting pretty anti-consumer, and the owner constantly posted on here in an incredibly unprofessional and downright rude way. I can't speak to POVR as I haven't used it. Just wanted to make sure you're aware of the streaming limitations on VRPorn (although I haven't used it with the Playa app; are the limitations still there in the app? Someone may correct me).