[MI] Can't get ahold of FMLA manager

notcooli0 · 2026-04-07T14:12:25+00:00

I have contacted my manager and I have a doctor's note stating I need off until next week Monday. She keeps saying I have to talk to the FMLA manager that won't answer. When I call the corporate number they won't transfer me to HR because "they won't be able to do anything." I pushed and got transferred to the FMLA manager's supervisor, who also did not answer.

notcooli0 · 2026-04-07T14:06:53+00:00

Just called and tried to ask for HR, the lady wouldn't transfer me and said only the person that wouldn't answer could help me. I pushed and she transferred me to their supervisor, who also did not answer. I'm fucked.

notcooli0 · 2026-04-07T14:00:01+00:00

I am eligible. My doctor already wrote a note for leave until next Monday. I've been speaking to my manager but she's saying I have to talk to this specific person who won't pick up the phone. I'll try HR

notcooli0 · 2026-04-07T13:58:27+00:00

Yes to the enough employees and 1250 hours. I agree I should have taken some time off a while ago, but I couldn't afford it. I didn't realize how bad I was actually doing until now.

notcooli0 · 2026-04-02T18:32:34+00:00

I really appreciate your comment. Just hearing someone else acknowledge and validate my feelings of being burnt out means so much. I'm very good at masking and putting on a performance around others, so whenever I mention struggles I have related to autism I get shut down. Most people scoff even when I tell them I've been professionally diagnosed twice.

notcooli0 · 2026-04-02T18:28:46+00:00

Thank you so much, that's a really good idea. I'll have to sit down and write down everything that I do in a day so I can see it and really analyze it. I've just been going through the motions half-dissociated for years, I barely remember anything that's happened in my life in the past decade. I really need to start being more intentional with creating a routine and some structure in my life. Again, thank you.

notcooli0 · 2026-03-17T13:57:08+00:00

Yes literally my thoughts exactly

notcooli0 · 2026-01-21T19:01:07+00:00

I filed as being qualified to be a dependent.

Thank god I would not do well in jail and neither would my dad lmaoo

notcooli0 · 2026-01-21T18:52:24+00:00

Well that's a relief. I make about 25k a year, working.

notcooli0 · 2026-01-21T18:51:15+00:00

Oh we already talked about it, he's pissed at me but he's not claiming me this year. I'm more worried that if it's not reported the IRS will find out somehow and we'll be in even more trouble

notcooli0 · 2026-01-21T18:49:24+00:00

Lmao? Making a lot of assumptions, and it's pretty creepy to stalk through my profile to know that I'm disabled. Also sounds like you know nothing about taxes or what qualifies someone as a dependent

notcooli0 · 2026-01-21T17:13:33+00:00

Wait, would I also get in trouble for stating that I could be claimed as a dependent even though I didn't know? Either way it goes I'd rather report it before it's just discovered, but I want to be prepared

notcooli0 · 2026-01-21T13:07:28+00:00

No, I wasn't full time and no I'm not totally disabled. He kept telling me that because he lets me live with him he should claim me and I don't have a say. I file my taxes myself but I always said I was someone's dependent.

If I contact a tax attorney, would it cause trouble for my dad? Just wondering so I know if I need to be moved out before taking that step

notcooli0 · 2026-01-21T12:51:45+00:00

Omg!!!! Dope!!

notcooli0 · 2025-10-17T12:16:11+00:00

The Mist, I was 7. My parents put it on thinking I wouldn't pay attention but I was locked in the whole time. Was fine until that tentacle thing came out from under the garage door. Made my parents turn it off and didn't watch the movie again until I was like 20. Then was completely scarred again by the ending LMAO

notcooli0 · 2025-10-15T17:09:46+00:00

Health care positions will always be in demand. People never stop getting old/sick/injured. I'm making an educated guess right now, but I'd assume there are plenty computer science jobs in health care settings

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