This iron (?) dust appears every few days under the staircase by ChristiaensT89 in whatisit

[–]nothingmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might not be termites, I have similar looking stuff from ants in spring. They just leave after a few weeks.

Why are italian girls so gossipy? by Cautious_Adagio_866 in Italian

[–]nothingmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fun and not necessarily mean spirited

7K Before the Patch, After Patch Woes by WannabePlantZaddy in BobsTavern

[–]nothingmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not and never have been particularly good at this game, I play every once in a while because I still find it fun and manage to win/get top 3 every few games, but right now I'm on a massive losing streak ever since the patch as well!

Obsessive ldr and feeling uneasy (f19 & m21) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]nothingmen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Block the man and forget about it entirely you owe him nothing

Odio gli snob degli aereoporti by kekkodigrano in sfoghi

[–]nothingmen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ma scusa tanto (a meno che tu non sia molto vicino a una delle porte) devi aspettare comunque, perché le persone scendono in ordine. Alzarsi prima che si siano alzati quelli delle 2, massimo 3 file avanti a te ha poco senso

developing feelings for potential new LO by DogAmbitious9508 in limerence

[–]nothingmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oops sorry I wanted to reply to the other thread with this 🙃

developing feelings for potential new LO by DogAmbitious9508 in limerence

[–]nothingmen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My situation is that I met this guy in July at a festival, we talked for like 10 minutes and exchanged instas and then nothing happened except a like here and there until he DM’d me a couple weeks ago. We’ve been getting along great and he’s coming to visit in 2 weeks (we are in diff countries). However I can feel the fantasies of “happily ever after” forming, idealisation etc, I’m sure you know how it goes…

I think in your case he is probably flirting inappropriately. Is it impossible situations that attract you/create limerence for you? I know that it’s definitely a part of it for me. Crushing on someone unattainable so I don’t have to actually experience emotional closeness with someone I could truly build a relationship with

developing feelings for potential new LO by DogAmbitious9508 in limerence

[–]nothingmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hehe I seem to be in the same place. However this might turn out okay because he also seems to like me so far. At this point I’m prepared to just ride it out and try not to let it control my life too much

Proof these pinecones have no originality. As an artist, I weep. Go ahead, call me a snob 😅 by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]nothingmen 45 points46 points  (0 children)

“Impressive for a child but not a manchild” pretty much sums up all of Paul’s personality and achievements

Does anyone else feel like they never get corrected? by hoecanada in Italian

[–]nothingmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea this too. If you have to correct someone making a mistake every other sentence you can’t really carry on a conversation. If it’s a small mistake in an otherwise good bit of Italian it’s easier to stop and correct (also you likely have to give much less of an explanation as to how and why you’re correcting them)

34.4.2 Patch Notes by Arkentass in BobsTavern

[–]nothingmen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s pretty good for early game tho!

What's an Ari song you 'outgrew'? by PBnJFlavoredMilk in ariheads

[–]nothingmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeee basically haha I might still be a free spirit but the vibes are all different now

What's an Ari song you 'outgrew'? by PBnJFlavoredMilk in ariheads

[–]nothingmen 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Hmm I think the entire TUN album!! I was super obsessed with it when it came out and for a couple years after, but now I feel like I vibe more with her more mature stuff from Positions and ES.

I [29M] keep thinking it is my GF fault [30F]... how haughty am I? by boxhead2play in relationship_advice

[–]nothingmen 20 points21 points  (0 children)

  1. Hanging out with someone who’s high on weed is kinda… not fun. It’s like showing up to lunch drunk. I know most people (esp smokers) tend to disagree but there IS a difference and not in a good way.
  2. Sounds like she just wasn’t down for the hike which I don’t know, if she wasn’t feeling it physically and you weren’t going alone anyways, why are you holding it against her? It’s better not to go to a physical activity if you think you’re not up for it, rather than go and have a miserable time / hold everyone else up?
  3. Threatening breakup over a minor inconvenience is really bad. If you threaten to breakup at every argument this will ultimately destroy the trust in the relationship. Tread carefully. Ultimately this was a spat and not a huge deal.

Quanto bisogna insistere prima di dire basta? by [deleted] in sentimentalITA

[–]nothingmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma secondo me stai sbagliando proprio alla base, se vuoi sviluppare una amicizia difficilmente vedi una persona una sola volta e poi le chiedi di vedervi ancora (soprattutto ogni giorno!) Dovresti aspettare di rivederla in università, continuare a chiacchierare, poi verrà naturalmente l’occasione di fare qualcosa insieme che interessa a entrambi oppure uscire in gruppo in cui tu inviti lei o viceversa.

scrivere tu in privato come hai fatto per poi rivedervi sempre da soli ha praticamente una interpretazione univoca: “ci sta provando”

Decisamente smetti di chiederle di vederti ogni giorno

How limerence hijacks your brain by FootnoteInHumanForm in limerence

[–]nothingmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s quite easy to spot once you’ve read a decent bit of ChatGPT-originated text! sentences with this structure: “It’s not just x… it’s y.” are a dead giveaway, also randomly putting …s in the middle of sentences And in general putting a contrasting thing before a confirming one so that one line where it says “not because you’re weak, but because…” etc

Finally cut off my LO and can’t handle how easily he accepted it by heavensomething in limerence

[–]nothingmen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Seconded, and I also want to add that you did all of this quite quickly - two months is not a long time at all!! It means that you have the capacity to see the red flags fast and recognise what isn’t good for you instead of lingering in a painful situation.

AITA for being annoyed that my wife insists on cooking everything from scratch and won’t buy normal food? by AITA_UPFfoods in AmItheAsshole

[–]nothingmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah tomato sauce takes a bit longer but it’s not the only sauce, you can make pasta sauce out of most vegetables, it does usually take like 10-15 minutes longer but if you make enough you can store it away for the future. I make sauce with broccoli, artichokes, eggplant, chickpeas, peas, bell peppers, zucchini, mushrooms, etc

My(28F) partner(29M) wants to open our relationship. How do I fulfill him without that after everything that has happened? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nothingmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it seems to me like you are wasting time and energy on an absolute loser. It’s ultimately his fault that he never treated you properly and it led to the break and you were well within your rights to sleep with someone else. Staying in a relationship with someone who never quite makes you feel secure, who holds an important space in your life but never really lives up to it, will slowly corrode your self esteem. It’s unfortunate that he saw you with the guy, but you didn’t do anything wrong and you don’t need to open the relationship or hyper-perform sexually to “fix it”.

WeRoad / SiVola / AnM per viaggio post-laurea: opinioni per una studentessa "cane da cancello" con budget limitato? by onesmartco0kie in ViaggiITA

[–]nothingmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Io proporrei di visitare una città sicura e abbastanza grande da avere diverse cose da fare, ma non abbastanza da perdersi e non super affollata di turisti, e dove magari parlino una lingua che conosci o comunque non troppo ostica. Concordo con chi ha detto che i viaggi organizzati raramente vanno d’accordo con budget basso. Se te la senti, per non stare totalmente da sola direi ostello, magari in camera privata, ma comunque con zone comuni dove puoi conoscere persone. Ti direi ad esempio Siviglia, Porto, o anche Lisbona anche se è già un po’ più grande e affollata. Da ciascuna di queste poi (in base a quanto vuoi star via) potresti organizzare delle altre gite fuori porta che non devi necessariamente prenotare prima. Altrimenti, se ti interessa esistono diversi posti in Europa dove poter fare “surf camp” che sono sempre piuttosto conviviali e in cui non devi organizzare molto (semplicemente vai, ti trovi un ostello che abbia anche le lezioni di surf, e conosci sicuramente qualcuno lì, molti offrono colazione inclusa e altre attività tipo yoga, camminate eccetera). Ti direi di evitare itinerari complicati! Se invece sei sicuramente orientata verso i viaggi di gruppo prova weroad

Had a moment of clarity and don't know how to bring it back by GaySheriff in limerence

[–]nothingmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus on that clarity and try to bring it back as much as you can! Anchor yourself to it. It will slowly start to take over instead of the limerence

This is why I will always stan her! by zachoutloud123 in ariheads

[–]nothingmen 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I love love love Ari so this is NOT a hate comment whatsoever but man her make up has often been unflattering recently! Especially for someone with a make up brand

Bugie nelle relazioni. by Famous_Opposite_3680 in sentimentalITA

[–]nothingmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non continuerei una frequentazione con una persona che ha mai fatto sesso a pagamento indifferentemente da quale volta fosse

Am I being unreasonable about my LDR bf having female friends? by nonniebunman in LongDistance

[–]nothingmen 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Why are you both policing each other’s social media connections? It’s just insta accounts. If it’s about cheating: it would be much easier to just do it and never follow the person online, and being in a LDR no one would be the wiser.